donuchris007:
I am dead serious. We can chat privately if you agree.

You just said you have two girlfriends. That's not something I find attractive.

JaceBlaze:


You sound like a teenager.Your voice is smooth.

Hahaha. That's because I'm in a chirpy mood

donuchris007:
. Should we relocate to Europe? I like your kind of person.

You & who?

JaceBlaze:
Your WhatsApp?

Ok, I just received it lol. Let the eardrums bleed

donuchris007:
You frequent Nigeria social media, hope you marry one of my brother

If I find a good one, maybe

Ricchcream:
:DIt's true sha

Hmmmm...

You're a Scorpio, right?

donuchris007:
I do know I will have regrets in future if I end up with the first girl. She is beautiful though

Beauty fades lol. Sounds like you have a clue what's best for you. Choose wisely.

JaceBlaze:


Go check it out and you will hear Jeepers Creepers

Check for where?

Ricchcream:
I try to be nice.

Lol, what does that even mean? I hope you're still real under your diplomacy sha

Ricchcream:
I do

You are? In what way?

donuchris007:
Forget her stubbornness and argument,the first girl is a babe but I don't think I can build a family with her. BTW I always dream of marrying a tall lady

You have to compromise on the least important things. An ideal person doesn't exist.

JaceBlaze:



I hope so lol.Don't you wanna hear it?

Hit me up, but don't scare me if it sounds like an injured moose

donuchris007:
. Your advice is spot on but with your insult,I personally slap you

Where're the insults? What else am I supposed to call someone that can't make up his mind on the very basic of things?

Foolish post. How old are you? You must have low IQ/ very immature if you still don't know the qualities you value the most or are looking for in a mate. Forget looks, what personality traits are most important to you? Because "shape" & all that other boyish cravings will change over time, so rather you delve much deeper than the surface, when choosing a life partner. That's if you want a lasting relationship that isn't based on lust but compatibility.

JaceBlaze:


This is how I feel everytime I send a WhatsApp voice note.Doesn't sound like me when I replay it.

IKR! But it's probably just self-consciousness. I'm sure it doesn't sound as horrible in someone else's ear lol.

lefulefu:
she will still come and ask question if its ok to buy groceries for him

I've listened to it & it's so cringey. It sounds like some guy's I have a female rapper's voice, "Uh"

You know how they like to say "Uh" before they start spitting rhymes? Perhaps I should start doing that, to make it sound easy on the ear lol.

Jaqenhghar:

This thing you described seems very rampant nowadays in every society. People are taught to do whatever they want, then when its time to face the music people start making excuses for them and make it like it's not their fault. Everyone is blamed from politicians to members of the society (usually those) are faring better

Right! I just don't get it. And if you're black, but don't have the defeated loser mentality, they start calling you names etc. Our people have very toxic traits. Gosh.

Chicken & potato hotpot

1Sharon:


But blk women still have money to buy that weave tho

I swear some black people are the biggest whiners & always make excuses for why other people are doing better than them.
One thing I noticed about achievers, no matter what race they are is, they plan their lives. If you don't screw up things for yourself by making horrible life choices, you too can reap great rewards. But some people will make one life changing bad decision after another & then act like they didn't engineer their own reality/existence.

Jaqenhghar:

Nice. Very sensible

I'm surprised it's even a question. If you have more than enough for yourself, then go ahead & help somebody else. It's not a matter of love at this point, but doing the right thing for a fellow human being. If he turns out to be an ingrate, oh well, fùck him, at least watching him go to waste in front of your eyes won't be in your conscience.

Then simply buy him the groceries he needs as a kind gesture. No payback. He's your BF after all.

Smh.

Karlifate:

No wonder. I guess ur Ascendant/Rising should be Aries

Spot on! How did you figure that one out?

Austine1212:


Being poor differs from country to country,

We got education, health, world roads, sports facilities, free housing, water, electricity, disability grants, old age grants, children grants, free education,world class universities, world class schools, etc in all spheres of the country

Thats why SA ranks high

Even with that label we still ranks high

Even a poor person will have dignity of owning a house with electricity, water, and running sewage system

Khayelitsha n it's kind are small percent of population, anyway Khayelitsha is half slum

Khayelitsha is not even that bad.

The real Khayelitsha, start the video at 10:00


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Karlifate:

Are u a Virgo or an Aquarius?

I'm an Aquarius with Scorpio moon no less, so I can pretty much read a book with my back turned, in total blackout

AfroKnight:


Long and short is, you manipulated events so you could date him, then you dumped the innocent young man
This is not the first time you’ve posted something about breaking a guy’s heart. Babe, you’re a player.

At least that’s what they call guys who do what you did.

Own your shit.

I don't know where you're getting all of that from. I manipulated events to get a little closer to him (to get to know him), yes, but I never dated him, so I'm not sure how I could have "broken" his heart when we were NEVER an item. If anyone's heart was broken, it was mine! Yes my heart, because I harboured secret feelings for someone, for monthssss & he turned out to be a little stupid. My heart...ohhhhhh, the tragedyyy!

Ricchcream:
How did you measure his depth? Especially as he's not a chatter box (I presume),how could you be so sure?

You can sort of tell these things. Come on now. You mean you've never figured a person out the moment they opened their mouth? Usually I know if someone is a potential within the 1st few seconds of talking to them. There was no mental connection there lol.

Ricchcream:
ok, we're derailing this thread, and I can't do to you what spring water does to berry So, what's the point?

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AfroKnight:



In summary, you broke his heart. You know you’re a player?

No. How? He had no idea I liked him & the few conversations we had weren't romantic in nature. You know sometimes when you have an idea of someone in your head, their true self tends to spoil the fantasy real fast. That's why I don't ever want to meet certain individuals I admire (celebrities) in real life because they might ruin the image I've created in my head by saying something stupid or whatever.

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How you take know?

Ricchcream:
mhhh.. I see. I like self help books, bibliographies and bildungsroman, in no particular order. I kind of find romance childish, sorry. I'll rather overdose on self help books bordering on sex... I've read enough of these over the years, that I now consider my self a virtuoso lover. Yes, I'm blowing my own trumpet

@bolded, same here. Hence I prefer Jackie Collins' style of writing because it's not a nauseating sap, like say Danielle Steele's books. She's raw, no frills.

Lol, if you say so.