The friendships tend to be too high maintenance because of moodiness & gossip amongst other annoying things.
I haven't made a new female friend since my teens. All my female friends are from childhood, even with them, my patience runs very low sometimes. One is very on & off (my closest friend), which makes me wanna end the friendship for good at times. But we always manage to patch our differences, on her insistence, because me I have no problem putting her completely in the rearview. I actually function better when I'm not dealing with crap like that.

Girls, you said it yourself. No woman worth her salt will waste her time trying to reform a manchild.

Jaqenhghar:

Interesting. I never knew. Ill try and get some recipes and try it. With this lock down you wont believe what Ive been up to on the kitchen.


Below here I tried making some Turkish bread then I stuffed the cow stomach with pieces of beef and kidney then slow baked it in sand. Meat just melts in yer mouth

You're on your way to becoming the next Gordon Ramsay, I must say That looks fantastic

Jaqenhghar:

Hmmm. Thats supposed to be some Afghan or pakistani dish right?

It's from that part of the world, the middle east too. There's also a Spanish version called, paella.

Chicken biryani. It came out better than I expected considering that I've only cooked it once before

I won't be sad for no 6 months, that's too long lol. It does sting a bit though. I don't waste energy where I'm not valued. I move on swiftly.

It's possible the mom knows something that the girl is not fully aware of just yet. The mom was a little harsh though, completely uncalled for. The girl better hope she won't be marrying into that family with a rude mother like that.

One year, some of my relatives forgot & some wished me a happy birthday much later in the day. To put it mildly, I wasn't too thrilled. I'm still smarting about it to this day because I never "forget" birthdays of close family members.

JaceBlaze:


I saw her one time on one of these showbiz reports and her cheeks looked inflated lol.

Kwaaaaa. Must be some emotional stuff, I believe she went through divorce(s).

JaceBlaze:


Didn't know she hosted OPW before.She had a slim face in this pic - like Tracee Ellis Ross

Is she puffy-faced now? I haven't seen her in a hot minute. Now that you mentioned it, I can see the resemblance around the eyes

JaceBlaze:


They kind of look alike.I don't find her attractive though she kinda looks manly.

LMFAO. She looked fabulous when she hosted OPW, that's the image of her I still have in my head

It depends on what had transpired & what was said. Why did she drag them into the conversation? There must be a reason. You have to be impartial about it because you know, people are not without faults, even family members. They might be precious to you, but she doesn't have to like them because you do, especially if there's some bad blood there. Personally, I believe in free speech & open communication about how one feels, but I wouldn't tolerate name-calling, particularly when it comes to certain members of my family eg. Parents. Like, you can air your grievances but be respectful about it. I would never swear at anyone's parents, out of respect, so I'd expect someone else to also be mindful. Outside of that, they're free to rant & rave to their heart's content, but within reason.

IronGalaxy:

I'm curious, what does " amaka" mean? I see it everytime" igbo amaka" what does it mean?

I believe it's a term for self-praise lol.

JaceBlaze:


And here I was thinking for the first time we have found a stunning Venda amaka

LMAO. Lerato "Zah" Moloi, she's a beauty. Did you know her mother is Makhadzi from Muvhango?

TMKsouth:


Hey wena Unathi Nkayi! Don't start that here.

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myles16:



WOW, i think it should be the blood in the vein that controlled that

It could be.

TMKsouth:

Chante Siyamthanda Jantjies is the full package - brains, a good heart, and beauty. Some have even named her the Meghan Markle of South Africa on social media.

For the past few weeks her name and photos have been popping up on everyone's social media pages.

Why? Because of her indescribable beauty.

She was also chosen as a semi-finalist for Miss SA 2018, however, that was only the beginning of her incredible career.

Jantjies is currently a newsreader at the South African Broadcasting Corporation (SABC).
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Xhosa "amaka"

Never heard of her, but she's stunning.

myles16:



saw those in movies and never knew they were real, thought they were just normal exaggeration

It's very real, trust me. He even passed out looking at it himself, possibly from shock, blood loss or both.

Oh, what a tangled web we weave when 1st we practise to deceive!

@ "Beautiful hello"

myles16:



So the Finger danced on the floor for about how many seconds??

It was a few quick jumps but it seemed like forever because I've never seen anything like it before or since.

When we were little, we were playing in & around an old car parked in an overgrown area of a neighbour's backyard. I was standing outside of the car, scared to go in because we were warned by the adults that there could be snakes in there. But my cousin wanted to go in & I guess the other kids didn't want him to because one of them slammed the car door on his hand, severing his finger in half. I will never forget seeing the severed bit of his finger jumping around on the floor like a little frog. It was so frightening, I literally fell back just to put some distance between myself & the "dancing finger".
My cousin was taken to hospital, but unfortunately, it was too late to reattach the finger, so he had to live with it.

kurlz:


Damn. Gosh. Your sense of humor is second to none.

Thanks

roladex:
God save u..u know what that means right

Indeed. Was one of the worst people I've ever known too, if you know what I mean Too many issues in one sinewy body.

anthonyuncle:


I had a neighbor who always bite my arms whenever we were riding.
da 1st time she did it, I stopped da banging immediately. she was angry & ask me to continue knacking.

my friends noticed da frequent (bite)marks i was always having on my arm then & started asking questions

I ain't comfy with lying so I had to stop lashing her.

plus I was also scared coz such action appeared demonic to me

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ezanafe:

This girl must always have a story to tell everywhere.

Have you not lived long enough to tell your own? This is not exactly rocket science, everybody has a story & I got volumes of them because I've LIVED.

olaboy1:


And when you see a white girl kissing that mouth, you would start wondering if anything ever disgusts them. You walk up to a cute white girl that’s like 9/10 only to get turn off when she opens her mouth. So the mouth thingy is genetical for both males and females.

Their dirty apartments have cockblocked me many times as they wouldn’t let me in due to unkempt living situations.

Now back to the thread, my personal observation is that African girls from very poor backgrounds in remote villages are more culpable to act irrationally when they find their way to the west, so I always suggest to my close friends to date only professional African ladies.

A friend showed me some pixs of an East African girl that told him she doesn’t date African men..I just shook my head and replied him what do you expect to hear from this village girl that thinks she has accomplished so much in life by crossing over to the west to f$ck her first old Muzungu.

So you've noticed the mouth thing too? Thought I was the only one to observe that they have the grossest mouths.

RamessesIV post=89332713[b:
]The only trick i know how to perform are those in the bedroom[/b]Nigerians are very divided people and they tend to be very tribalistic,I don't just like the ever ending tribalism and tribalist rhetoric

"Sex kitten" yeah that's the stereotype I dig,and I have also heard that man snatcher stuff too,seem you guys don't have a good reputation in SA

So that means you don't believe in love except it comes with finances

Yeah that's true just wish south Africa can be get better,I wonder what happened to it when i was little south africa was always on dstv the buildings,tourist centers now I hear the country is going in slow decline.

Yeah well, nations rise & fall, South Africa is no different. Wasn't Zimbabwe considered the breadbasket of Africa once upon a time? They may regain that status again in the future. Change is constant, nothing remains the same forever. My country will also have its own fair share of problems like any other.

People don't seem to like outspoken & unflinching people, especially when it's women that are that way. Xhosa women are no shrinking violets, so all the talk is to be expected. The funny thing is, people can't stop but being drawn to them even with all the so-called flaws because they're not afraid to stand up for what they believe in, their standards & everything else inbetween.

@bolded, is that so?

RamessesIV:
Lol i was surprised by the amount of dark skinned people in india i heard they are alot in south india,i even heard they have a class system

I have talked about these before preference for light skin is very old and found in many cultures is not just limited to black people is just that we are entirely black and face racism for it so sensationalize it,in north africa here women lighten their skin and striaghten their hair,in east and south east asia they have a thing for light skin just see the promo photos for japanese and korean women same doll eyes fair pink skin

True.

lefulefu:
we are from the south south region of nigeria..we are a minority tribe.u wouldnt be able to meet any esan guy in SA cos for one thing majority of the nigerians in SA are mostly igbos and yorubas and the any esan group there will be very very minute.

I see. For some reason I thought you were Yoruba

RamessesIV:
Lol I hate that stereotype,we don't have witches is just ignorance,which I Hope one day education will eradicate

Hmm,hmm so that means I need to have lots of cash when i come to SA then

so how's the xenophobia issue in south africa

So it's not true? Here I was hoping you'd perform a few magic tricks for me I get it though lol. Nothing more annoying than being looked at suspiciously because you belong to a certain tribe or place. Being Xhosa, other women automatically think I'm a man stealer & guys think, sex kitten Rawr! Very amusing stereotypes are sometimes hey.

Money is very important in life, no point pretending it isn't. Plus I'm too old to be running around with someone without two pennies to rub together, to spark up the embers of love

There's none at the moment because everyone is trying to survive, to live another day. Much bigger fish to fry, so to speak.

RamessesIV:
Lol they have even imported white cheer leaders for their cricket games,forget if we compare with other countries we blacks are the least when it comes to sucking up to white people,we just love to rant about white people cause of the racial issues and our history with them

That doesn't surprise me at all that they did that. They love everything to do with fair skin. You'll be hearing someone talking about how "fair & like a white man/woman" someone is. They even bleach. There's an Indian salon right around the corner from where I live. Outside there's a board offering "skin whitening facials". LOL!

RamessesIV:
Hmmm i would love to learn though sounds like incantations,imagine using that language for bedroom voice

so before I used to think south Africa was all Zulu and "mzansi" and those people in "Gods must be crazy" I think khoisans or san is the appropriate term can't remember(heard bushmen is offensive)

Yeah Nigeria is very diverse,just that Yoruba and igbos are much with hausa/Fulani being the largest and the first two spend all the time on the internet doing ethnic quarrels and others ethnic issues,well we are found in Edo state,we are related to the benins kind of how scotish is related to english we both and others make up the edo people which makes up the tribes that encompassed the former benin kingdom,we are very friendly and hospitable,and travel a lot,we have a lot of our people in the west especially europe and some in SA too

Sorry to ask ohh is it true that Xhosa women love money?

I think I've heard of Edo before, the wizardry HQ of Nigeria, isn't it? Good to know. They sound like great people.

Of course we love money, who doesn't? Xhosa women are just more upfront & unpretentious about it. Poverty is a disease.