weyreypey:

Brideofdracula be careful or I'll post your pictures

I don't care.

Ricchcream:

Ricchcream:
Look at you, all patronizing?

How dare you interrupt my Dr Ruth moment?

Rawhumper:







Hi Xhosa,Hope u had [sup][/sup] a lovely day....would have loved to know how u spent it(i know we spent most of it chatting) but would Want to know The other Part how it went.
Btw....when is your birthday? Want to put it in my diary....
Till i hear from You,Thanks for making my day special

I think we've derailed this thread enough.

Ricchcream:
Ok.

Over to you then, uncle. What is that you were saying she should be doing, again? The "entrée"

Ricchcream:
She did not say they are having communication issues. They often fight (disagree). So, either side is making his/her position known to the other frequently, and they often make up.

The real issue here once again is that the guy is acting up because he feels threatened (ex issues). The lady has to look him straight in the face and let him know he can trust her. It has nothing to do with tension or anything like that jarey.

She doesn't have to say it, I'm saying it because that's my own observation on the matter. There're many bothersome things on the little she have shared & since I can't address them all, I cherry picked the one that grates me the most. After all, it's little seemingly unrelated things that make up a bigger whole. You're allowed to coach her on the rest or what you deem "most important".

Ricchcream:
I disagree with you. She is only being sensible cautioning herself from spitting fire when she knows it would blow things out of proportion. She is not a doormat, as it is the guy that apologises first, after their frequent scuffles (see last paragraph). The real issue here is insecurity on the guy's part. She has to reassure him nothing is coming in between them. They would be alright. Don't teach her stubbornness

Disagree all you want, but avoiding confrontation or sweeping things under the rug is not how you nurture a relationship. Eventually, there will be a build up which may lead to an even bigger blow up. Communication is very important, sorry (not really sorry). He's like that because of the way she is. Full stop.

emmysolo2001:
Good evening everyone,
Well today I don't know exactly how I'm feeling but I'd love to go straight to the point..
My boyfriend and I are going 2ru stuffs now he say I don't respect him and I accept that fact cuz I always walk out on our arguments,quarrels and so on but I'd never walk out on a normal day I walk away because I don't want to say what I'll end up regretting,I know myself and if I talk back at him I would speak out of line that's why I always walk away.....

This is probably the only bad character I have and accept I have
So recently I started chatting on WhatsApp because of school stuff so I could know wen we have lectures and so on and he hates social media but I asked him if I could and he agreed but now because my ex school mates added me to a school group and while posting pictures on the group the posted a picture of my ex and now he is upset I'm seeing my ex and that I'm chatting with guys and so on.

I have never cheated on this guy,for 3yrs I have loved,played and ignored my self just so he could be happy and when we have issues he goes out till night before returning home and when we fight he's the first to talk and apologize but I'm seeing a new side I don't understand.....I'm confused does he still feel the same way I do

From what you have shared, you strike me as a people-pleaser who often puts her own feelings aside just to keep the peace. It's not necessarily a bad thing because a wise person chooses what battles to fight & what to let slide. However, this can prove to be problematic if & when your avoidance of conflict is chronic to the point where you never say how you truly feel. This can make people get used to having the upper hand & last say, thus you can be unwittingly creating "monsters" in your wake, so to speak. Bottomline, your BF is controlling imo & it's completely your fault because you run instead of having a transparent conversation about the things that bother you in the relationship. Speak up otherwise you'll grow to resent him because of all those things that were left unsaid & suppressed. It's not healthy for you & for your relationship if this is someone you see a future with. You should be able to be transparent & to vent out your frustrations with your partner, not this shrinking violent alternative you have adopted because you're afraid to muddy the waters.

Anyway, the bolded got me...

soilsista:

Lol I don't know what to say to this! Don't forget to drink water ge

Sure

soilsista:

Don't overdo it otherwise uzo gaina! Especially with Winter coming up...

Le wena o be safe

I already have, but soz'bona 2nd half ezabo "summer body" lol.

TMKsouth:


Yeah, don't go out. It's not safe out there. The cops are praying for people, in case u haven't heard. Very dangerous situation.

Very scary indeed.

soilsista:

I've been cooking a lot more because akere you know read (but I got tired of it, I need new books! So I camp out at the literature section here), sleep. I took a walk last week. It was so refreshing.

There are no police this side so it's partly business as usual.

How are things your side?

Just stay safe, girl.

I'm not even sure what's going on outside because I've only gone out once since lockdown started. I don't want any mistake lol. Not doing anything else other than snacking all day in front of the telly.

Rawhumper:
I believe u had an amazing time with me like i did,u Said it and seem not to stay Long in a chat with Guys but Mine will Tell u i dont brag but am truly The kind of Guy u wish to have but The truth is Can You ne Patient and tolerant?
If u Can,plz mail me at sleakkyone@gmail.com.
Am having low batt,will brb.....
Honestly u Are an amazing Lady with immense intelligence...we Can never be bored with each other.
Chat You sooner











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Lol sure, Sleaky

Hilarious.

Rawhumper:
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I deceive myself if u Say that cos maybe someday i sing for You.
When i talk it sounds a little masculine but when i sing u think its celine dion,i can sing goodbye is The saddest word,i sing Dido and Enya.This has made not to really sing in front of my Girls cos it gives them a kinda of inferiority complex ..that Feeling they Can keep my kind of guy to themselves so i end up losing them not cos they dont love me but i think cos i be too much a competition.
Its not hilarious dear,its a Fact....our servant has begged me to start music career











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@bolded, now that's hilarious. So are you telling me you have a girl's voice?

Yeah, I believe you. Your intuition must be amazing.

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soilsista:

It has! I'm good monna, re tlareng mara? I'm just over this lockdown shem. I can't wait for things to go back to "normal"

How are you?

Arg, same here. I'm completely done with it, but hopefully it'll end when they say it would. Bored out of my head already. So how are you keeping yourself distracted?

Rawhumper:

I Said it earlier am a highly sensitive guy u tot i was blabbing now u believe me. It has helped me to detect signals even hidden ones from ladies and when i go for The kill i dont make mistake.
Yeah am not really spiteful but Can ne moody once in a while. I love music and i sing alot and very well...my voice People Tell ne is better than beyounce not joking.
When i sing Guys peep to see if its a girl singing....well thats me

@bolded, now that's hilarious. So are you telling me you have a girl's voice?

Yeah, I believe you. Your intuition must be amazing.

Rawhumper:
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Nope u Are wrong this time,u Are almost there

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Born in '86?

Older or younger?

soilsista:

Heya

Mughel, long time. How's you?

Rawhumper:


I have there sexile too then Can u how Tell ne what You think with all These Details You have?












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Not bad

It's a lot to say, but with your moon in Cancer you must be very sensitive, spiteful & moody.

Jaqenhghar:

The insensitivity is crazy.
It's true when they say poverty makes people psychopaths

Rawhumper:
Yeah am jealous Lover....
Here Are more about it


Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Sagittarius 8°42'
Moon Cancer 16°34'
Mercury Sagittarius 3°53' R
Venus Scorpio 26°46'
Mars Libra 21°26'
Jupiter Aquarius 12°20'
Saturn Sagittarius 1°40'
Uranus Sagittarius 17°38'
Neptune Capricorn 2°27'
Pluto Scorpio 5°59'
Lilith Taurus 20°14'
N Node Taurus 8°50'





Placidus

I ASC Virgo 0°49'
II Libra 1°54'
III Scorpio 3°37'
IV Sagittarius 3°48'
V Capricorn 2°22'
VI Aquarius 0°54'
VII Pisces 0°49'
VIII Aries 1°54'
IX Taurus 3°37'
X MC Gemini 3°48'
XI Cancer 2°22'
XII Leo 0°54'




Sun in IV
Moon in XI
Mercury in IV
Venus in III
Mars in II
Jupiter in VI
Saturn in III
Uranus in IV
Neptune in V
Pluto in III
Lilith in IX
N Node in IX





masculine 6 fire 4
feminine 4 earth 1
cardinal 3 air 2
fixed 3 water 3
mutable 4






























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I knew it! You must be very jealous

Born in '86?

Jaqenhghar:

Look at this fool! Someine suffered a mental breakdown because of ill treatment you are here talking out yo ass. You are lucky I don't know where you are. I'll fúck you up. I dont care how big or strong you are.

Calm down, Samson

Rawhumper:




I have two Opposition, three squares and More than 8 conjunctions

Not bad

Rawhumper:
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Moon is cancer. Venus scorpio.
Mars libra



















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How's that "sensitive" data? Crop out the personal info & post the rest.

I knew it! You must be very jealous

Rawhumper:

The talked about many Things out there conjunction,Opposition and square.
Saw different degrees or temperatures wish u here by my Side.
I like to learn New Things and Thanks for that,i thought as welk










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I don't want that either but why not carry a 5 minutes fantasy belle in my head?

Btw, you must be crazy if you have a lot of oppositions & squares

Rawhumper:





Ok i try so that that but i dont Want everyone here to view such a sensitive Data is there another way i Can send it it you

How's that "sensitive" data? Crop out the personal info & post the rest.

Rawhumper:

The talked about many Things out there conjunction,Opposition and square.
Saw different degrees or temperatures wish u here by my Side.
I like to learn New Things and Thanks for that,i thought as welk










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I don't want that either but why not carry a 5 minutes fantasy belle in my head?

Oga, just screenshot the tin na.

Rawhumper:
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It has worked! I can see many signs and symbols about aries,tauron,scirpio etc.
I dont believe in fantasy its only sex Call or videocall i Can accept but anyother Thing is really fantasy.
So how Can u interpret their analysis










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I don't want that either but why not carry a 5 minutes fantasy belle in my head?

What are your signs for "moon", "mars" & " venus"? Or just screenshot the tables.

Rawhumper:

Ok hold on its gonna Take sometime..i retry it.
U Said about kids,what made u think i Want that with a Lady i barely know?

I don't want that either but why not carry a 5 minutes fantasy belle in my head?

Rawhumper:










Still waiting.....filled other required blanks but it seems not to recognise local cities or what?
You am not familiär with how it works but am willing to learn new Things from You thats why we kinda Are gelling

Then you use the nearest big city to the area where you were born. Sometimes it doesn't recognize small towns.

The "prayer" is more sarcasm than anything else lol.