A Nigerian lawyer expresses concerns over the rising cases of divorce in the country, particularly those that have to do with women depriving their husbands in the other room.

A social media influencer identified as @Wizarab10 took to the X platform to share the anonymous message received from a lawyer about divorce.

According to him, 9 out of 10 divorce cases are often from men who were deprived of sex by their wives despite being legally married.

Citing an example, he revealed that one of his clients has not shared intimacy with his wife for almost a year.

In his words, “My Guy. The number of divorce cases I’ve seen this year alone is crazy. Whenever I walked into my office & see files pile up I’m always scared cause 9 out of 10 cases would be divorce, and they all have one common reason “Sex starvation from the wife”.

“It’s crazy how these women change the moment they get married. Why the hell did you marry in the first place if you know you won’t give in to sex as often as possible? The client I got yesterday is even worst. His last sex was early 2023. Over a yr now with his legally married wife.”

Married men are going through alot. Most of them are living in self denial.

The voltage of sex starved married men is alarming. About 88.953% of married men are always hórny.

The idea of having excess sex when married is a hoax to trap and enslave gullible men.

It's really sad

Stupid men will continue to fall for this scam. Their GFs will pressure them into marriage with the promise of "na you go tire for sex". And simple men fall for it EVERY time.

They think they'd be getting UNLIMITED sex in marriage. They are not. By marrying a girl for because of sex, they've succeeded in telling the girls that sex is a viable REWARD SYSTEM to get them to do what she wants.

You get sex when you send money to her mother. You don't get sex if you don't buy her the shoes she likes.

The wives use sex as a weapon because their idioot husbands have proven it to be effective.

It's INSANE that a pussy that's been shared more times than a sex video is now used to control a grown man.

For MEN:

The moment your wife or GF denies you sex is the moment the relationship ENDS.

Just as freedom after speech is not always guaranteed, the same way freedom with sex after marriage is not always guaranteed

That's y side chick dey

In this generation, despite that ladies are now free to marry who they claim to 'love', divorce rate is on astronomical level. All the "marry your friend" and "marry who you love" talks have only ended up destroying the marriage institution!

Things were much better when parents arranged marriages for their children but this woke wannabe generation has destroyed the marriage institution. Women's education and empowerment is not in the best interest of traditional family system. It is better women stay back home and nurture their offsprings while the man works and cater for the family's financial needs.

A woman who depends on a man would not deprive him sex. The west really deceived us by making us accept that education of our women is good for us. But no! It has really destroyed our family values and society as a whole.

Islam really understand women's nature and that is why Muslims restrict women to their primal roles of birthing and nurturing.

With our poor healthcare system, if we continue in the direction we are headed as regards marriage and family, we are definitely setting ourselves up for extinction. Even the west with their organized healthcare system are having existential problem let alone people with a very poor healthcare system like Nigeria. A big problem is brewing for us!

Jman06:


Women's education and empowerment is not in the best interest of traditional family system. It is better women stay back home and nurture their offsprings while the man works and cater for the family's financial needs.

A woman who depends on a man would not deprive him sex. The west really deceived us by making us accept that education of our women is good for us. But no! It has really destroyed our family values and society as a whole.

Islam really understand women's nature and that is why Muslims restrict women to their primal roles of birthing and nurturing.

You are clearly sick in the head!!!

Biglittlelois:



You are clearly very sick in the head!!!

You're the one who's soft in the head for not seeing an obvious truth.

We were deceived, simple! But let's continue to be political with the fact so we'll be seen as educated and 'woke'

Jman06:
You're the one who's soft in the head for not seeing an obvious truth.

We were deceived, simple!

You are daft, simple!!!

Biglittlelois:



You are daft, simple!!!

Tell that to your generation!

The truth hurts!

Biglittlelois:



You are daft, simple!!!

Lol, you took it personal, easy oh. Some comments is to read and pass, when he births female children, he should do what he suggested, it's his opinion and he is entitled to it.

Jman06:
Tell that to your generation!

The truth hurts!

Of course yes, I'll tell my generation that Jman06 is extremely daft

That's the hurtful truth!!!

Biglittlelois:



Of course yes, Biglittlelois and her entire generation are extremely daft

That's the hurtful truth!!!

Pele ooo

Jman06:
In this generation, despite that ladies are now free to marry who they claim to 'love', divorce rate is on astronomical level. All the "marry your friend" and "marry who you love" talks have only ended up destroying the marriage institution!

Things were much better when parents arranged marriages for their children but this woke wannabe generation has destroyed the marriage institution. Women's education and empowerment is not in the best interest of traditional family system. It is better women stay back home and nurture their offsprings while the man works and cater for the family's financial needs.

A woman who depends on a man would not deprive him sex. The west really deceived us by making us accept that education of our women is good for us. But no! It has really destroyed our family values and society as a whole.

Islam really understand women's nature and that is why Muslims restrict women to their primal roles of birthing and nurturing.

With our poor healthcare system, if we continue in the direction we are headed as regards marriage and family, we are definitely setting ourselves up for extinction. Even the west with their organized healthcare system are having existential problem let alone people with a very poor healthcare system like Nigeria. A big problem is brewing for us!

Special Bred of Madman ... All these Recycled being from 500years ago wouldn't let new Human Enjoins this world !

Most of them has already enjoyed sex to their satisfaction with various men prior to settling down.

It wasn't until i got married that I understood why married men cheat. Any woman that can't meet her husbands sexual needs has no business complaining that the man is sleeping around.
If you can't Satisfy your husband, allow those who can to help you. Side chics are a neccesity.

Biglittlelois:



You are clearly sick in the head!!!

Naso this girl take turn to misandrist. She don see enough shege. Well ride on because me i'm in full support of you people dealing with nigerian men mercilessly.

This is very $hameful, meaning Nigeria's population will continue to explode while the poverty line increases. Men in developed
countries use their time to improve the world and make life better...from science, to medicine, technology, etc, then look at the reason that causes divorce in Nigeria.

The lawyer that posted this is supposed to hide this information, it is very disturbing for an overpopulated poverty $tricken country to have such a statistics about $ex.

I can remember a thread of a guy who relocated to work abroad, he said in his 6months of staying there he wasn't bothered about sex, unlike when he was in Nigeria.

Men are going through alot from this women... You feed her, pay the rent do virtually everything for her yet

So women should remain uneducated, unemployed and financially dependent so they won’t have any option but to give in to Sex even when they don’t feel like it?

Why didn’t you just say you want a sex slave and save us the long epistle?

You lil weirdo

I hope these younger girls are reading and seeing how some of this guys think, so they can plan their life accordingly.

After seeing the amount of hate and vitriol and utter lack of humanity they have towards women, any woman who let’s herself become a victim of this has no one but herself to blame.

If someone tells you in clear terms that they hate you and think you’re subhuman, better believe them and move accordingly. Don’t get caught unawares

Jman06:
In this generation, despite that ladies are now free to marry who they claim to 'love', divorce rate is on astronomical level. All the "marry your friend" and "marry who you love" talks have only ended up destroying the marriage institution!

Things were much better when parents arranged marriages for their children but this woke wannabe generation has destroyed the marriage institution. Women's education and empowerment is not in the best interest of traditional family system. It is better women stay back home and nurture their offsprings while the man works and cater for the family's financial needs.

A woman who depends on a man would not deprive him sex . The west really deceived us by making us accept that education of our women is good for us. But no! It has really destroyed our family values and society as a whole.

Islam really understand women's nature and that is why Muslims restrict women to their primal roles of birthing and nurturing.

With our poor healthcare system, if we continue in the direction we are headed as regards marriage and family, we are definitely setting ourselves up for extinction. Even the west with their organized healthcare system are having existential problem let alone people with a very poor healthcare system like Nigeria. A big problem is brewing for us!

Kemadealadire:

Lol, you took it personal, easy oh. Some comments is to read and pass, when he births female children, he should do what he suggested, it's his opinion and he is entitled to it.

It should be taken personally

All the reading passing without challenging harmful ideas is the reason why things are the way they are

He doesn’t have to have daughters before he recognizes that women are people too

cococandy:


It should be taken personally

All the reading passing without challenging harmful ideas is the reason why things are the way they are

He doesn’t have to have daughters before he recognizes that women are people too

I purposely didn't reply her because had it been I did, she will hate ever quoting me in the first place

The constant read and pass we've been doing emboldened these sets of idiots to continue to spew trash as facts, very terrible humans.

cococandy:
So women should remain uneducated, unemployed and financially dependent so they won’t have any option but to give in to Sex even when they don’t feel like it?

Why didn’t you just say you want a sex slave and save us the long epistle?

You lil weirdo

I hope these younger girls are reading and seeing how some of this guys think so they can plan their life accordingly

After seeing the amount of hate and vitriol and utter lack of humanity they have towards women, any woman who let’s herself become a victim of this has no one but herself to blame.

If someone tells you in clear terms that they hate you and think you’re subhuman, better believe them and move accordingly. Don’t get caught unawares

But honestly, what's the need of educating and empowering women when they'll eventually seek men who can provide for them? Educating and empowering women significantly lowers the chances of men being able to provide for these women, thus the whole thing creates a distortion in the traditional family system. This is why I think it's better for women to take care of the home front while men work and provide for her.

Jman06:
But honestly, what's the need of educating and empowering women when they'll eventually seek men who can provide for them? Educating and empowering women significantly lowers the chances of men being able to provide for these women, thus the whole thing creates a distortion in the traditional family system.

I don’t want to insult you by telling you that you have a small mind but your post reeks of small mindedness. Education isn’t about earning income alone. Okay?

That aside, which universe are you living in that men alone are providers? If the traditional marriage system was so good, half of the population AKA women wouldn’t be unhappy in it. So maybe the traditional marriage system isn’t for everyone.

Find someone who wants to be uneducated and dependent on you so that you can be happy. Maybe she’ll be happy too? That’s If you even think her happiness matters.

After all having someone who can’t say no to sex because they’re afraid they’ll go without food and shelter if they refuse is what your idea of an ideal marriage is.

What a twisted ideology