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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Nahunger(m): 1:33pm On Nov 23, 2023
Puss360:
Lol... All because of money nah....
But honestly I don't really think it because of money...
Coz even with money sef, most Nigerian guys won't like to "Settle down" a woman almost 40yrs.... Instead they'll just want her to be sugar mommy to them...f.vck Nd collect money....

But once it involves "White woman"... age then becomes a number... They don't mind...
Follow Nigeria matured rich lady, they say no, say na oyibo dey hungry them...
What does the oyibo have that we don't have here... F.vck na f.vck... abi...

What do I know sef?? grin grin

Green card, a better future for our generations to come, the rich old Nigerian woman all she has is body counts, manipulations, problem, confusion and more body counts.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Chibuezem(m): 1:37pm On Nov 23, 2023
DyshApp:
A Nigerian man named Okechukwu Azubuike has voiced out his criticism towards his fellow compatriots who marry older Caucasian women while considering Nigerian women in their 30s as too old for marriage.

His statement has triggered a heated debate on Facebook, with different opinions from both men and women.

In his Facebook post, he highlighted the apparent double standards that exist when it comes to age preferences in relationships.

He pointed out that Nigerian men often display enthusiasm and joy when involved with older Caucasian women, even those who are of their grandmothers’ age.

However, when it comes to Nigerian women, the same men suddenly deem the age of 33 as too old for marriage.



Okey Aliyu
The guy should know that most marry older women abroad because of money and green card. No young blooded Nigerian man will wake up and decide to marry an old women except for love sha and ego.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by IzRayl: 1:38pm On Nov 23, 2023
All the old newspapers trying to console themselves grin grin grin,it happens everywhere in the world.no man will like to settle than with an old hag , whether Africa, Asia, Europe,any were ......that's why you see them Caucasian ladies buying cats to keep them company grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by olamilekan9(m): 1:38pm On Nov 23, 2023
Tbh a 35-year-old Nigerian lady aint old judging by appearance alone sha but you see judging by body counts n number of dick
Mization omo omo omo e go far,an oyibo can be 55 and only have just 3 body count or less but u see 9ja woman at 35 hmm oti lo

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Allisgud: 1:41pm On Nov 23, 2023
I for like to taste oyinbo plummy ponmo one day🤔🤔🤔
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Winnin009: 1:41pm On Nov 23, 2023
Zonefree:
An average 33-year-old unmarried Nigerian woman is highly broke, wretched, sadistic with lots of body count that can power about 13 local government in Gombe state.

That can be said about an average 45-year-old Caucasian woman.

I don’t know fit certain about the other factors but that body count own... my bro, we are learners when it comes to sexual expression.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:43pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh
did your daddy marry his ancestor, i mean is your mummy your daddy's ancestor?

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Semaj77(m): 1:46pm On Nov 23, 2023
DyshApp:
A Nigerian man named Okechukwu Azubuike has voiced out his criticism towards his fellow compatriots who marry older Caucasian women while considering Nigerian women in their 30s as too old for marriage.

His statement has triggered a heated debate on Facebook, with different opinions from both men and women.

In his Facebook post, he highlighted the apparent double standards that exist when it comes to age preferences in relationships.

He pointed out that Nigerian men often display enthusiasm and joy when involved with older Caucasian women, even those who are of their grandmothers’ age.

However, when it comes to Nigerian women, the same men suddenly deem the age of 33 as too old for marriage.



Okey Aliyu

They consider the Caucasian woman old too but they come with a lot of benefits whereas the Nigerian woman comes with deficits instead. So it's not about the age

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by peterboro: 1:47pm On Nov 23, 2023
THEIR GOVERNMENT ALREADY MADE A GOLDEN LIFE FOR THEM EVEN BEFORE THEY WERE BORN till WHEN THEY LEAVE THE WORLD. .. With also a bar code in such that any future spouse can benefit same through them irrespective of where they come from.

BUT REVERSE IS THE CASE IN NIGERIA...
The day you were born into Nigeria automatically becomes the day your problem starts. . IT ONLY TAKES GRACE OF GOD and DEPENDING ON THE FAMILY YOU WERE BORN FROM. Luckily Maybe if your parents have done the Sacrifice and already paid the dues to pave way for you.


LADIES, PLEASE IS NOT YOUR FAULT Oo..
It is the country that you came from.

IN SUMMARY,... Being born from Nigeria, life have already started winning you. SO YOU HAVE TO FIGHT YOUR WAY OUT TO REACH DRAW FIRST, BEFORE TALKING ABOUT WINNING.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by gift2xl: 1:53pm On Nov 23, 2023
I like this debate. Nigerian women has to wakeup

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:54pm On Nov 23, 2023
Puss360:
Lol... All because of money nah....
But honestly I don't really think it because of money...
Coz even with money sef, most Nigerian guys won't like to "Settle down" a woman almost 40yrs.... Instead they'll just want her to be sugar mommy to them...f.vck Nd collect money....

But once it involves "White woman"... age then becomes a number... They don't mind...
Follow Nigeria matured rich lady, they say no, say na oyibo dey hungry them...
What does the oyibo have that we don't have here... F.vck na f.vck... abi...

What do I know sef?? grin grin
that's a problem, you already think f.vck is the ultimate value u can bring. If he sees you as someone that will add value to him by helping to raise kings and queens as kids, if u will accelerate his journey to financial freedom like being an active business partner so u too can attain financial freedom early, if you will give him peace and help calm his nerves when things get tricky for him...he will wife u irrespective of age. Nigerian guys are marrying older women and they are having successful marriages, na who no fit pin down younger guy dey cry.

Meanwhile if its okay for ladies to put all their effort into looking for tall dark and handsome, why should it be a problem if men put their effort into looking for white foreign and non-nigerian. It's even more logical to defend wanting to be with someone with some set of values and perception of life based on culture than to defend wanting to be with someone just because they are tall dark and handsome

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by BiGVEEN58(m): 1:56pm On Nov 23, 2023
Marriage should have nothing to do with age but INTEREST AND VALUE.

I mean, what are you bringing to the table?

Our African women seek validation and attention from social media and take what they get seriously, damn! More than half of them boys just wanna fvck!
Be real, find yourself a man and be reasonable. Life nor hard pass so.
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:57pm On Nov 23, 2023
Natbrowny:
33 with zero creativity and zero balance and trash attitude is old.

I have seen 35 and active and useful
Beautiful n classy n single. Men stil dey vibe 4 her hand in marriage..

EXACTLY...any woman that says men dont want to marry ladies above a certain age is just whining because she can't get her own man yet. Women close to 40, women over 40 are getting wooed by even younger successful men for marriage. na who dey whine no get value wey men dey desire.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by PussyKing(m): 2:01pm On Nov 23, 2023
Nigerian women get Green card??

What can dey offer aside billings grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by VULCAN(m): 2:06pm On Nov 23, 2023
The fellow is just aiming to trend and I'm sure he has achieved that.

He knows very well that the purpose of the marriage differs entirely in either case.

One marriage is for benefits and papers while the other is for.......

Put whatever you like in the space. Lol

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:09pm On Nov 23, 2023
danzaki63:
My friend even here small boys date Older women as Sugar mummies. They even marry them if the woman has money. Check very well you will see them abound, what men hate is dating any middle aged woman who has nothing to offer.
Ladies want and fight for equality in pay, equal job opportunities, equal everything. When it comes to dating only people who have some form of value to offer, they want to preserve that privilege. It's now an equal world,as a woman if they dont have some form of value to add to a man, e dun be for them. If they r lucky to find one that will take them as empty as they are, there's a high chance they will be treated like a leech

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by fineberry(m): 2:09pm On Nov 23, 2023
If me too see white ladies, age is just a number o....have dated naija lady that was 15 years older than me, so I see nothing there as long as there is LOVE & RESPECT.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by smartr: 2:10pm On Nov 23, 2023
MrColdsweat:
Older women are resourceful. As you dey smash, them go dey give you business ideas and advice because they are experienced. If na your boss, she go promote you. Some go connect you and You grow as a person. If her husband is wealthy, you pound her silly and extract her husband's business secrets from her.
If you are able to bring out the little girl in them and they love you, they would move mountains for you.

As a man, you fvck with intent. What does a 20+ have to offer asides pussy and frivolous expenses?

This one na another angle o 😂
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by vickydevoka(m): 2:12pm On Nov 23, 2023
DyshApp:
A Nigerian man named Okechukwu Azubuike has voiced out his criticism towards his fellow compatriots who marry older Caucasian women while considering Nigerian women in their 30s as too old for marriage.

His statement has triggered a heated debate on Facebook, with different opinions from both men and women.

In his Facebook post, he highlighted the apparent double standards that exist when it comes to age preferences in relationships.

He pointed out that Nigerian men often display enthusiasm and joy when involved with older Caucasian women, even those who are of their grandmothers’ age.

However, when it comes to Nigerian women, the same men suddenly deem the age of 33 as too old for marriage.



Okey Aliyu
A 100 years American woman is more important and beneficial than a 40 year old Nigerian woman

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by smartr: 2:13pm On Nov 23, 2023
olamilekan9:
Tbh a 35-year-old Nigerian lady aint old judging by appearance alone sha but you see judging by body counts n number of dick
Mization omo omo omo e go far,an oyibo can be 55 and only have just 3 body count or less but u see 9ja woman at 35 hmm oti lo

Body count of 26yrs old dey scare me talk more of 33 😄

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:13pm On Nov 23, 2023
OBTOREPA:

And what are you?
She's 1000× better than you.
Apart from sex, what do you have to offer.?
which may even be rubbish standard, not to talk of ver low hygiene level

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by DyshApp: 2:15pm On Nov 23, 2023
ElliotP:
The double standard here is if a woman marries her father's age for money, it's okay by societal standards but immediately a man does the exact same thing we start criticizing him, omor make una rest.

True talk
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Chetas81(m): 2:16pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh
THE NIGERIAN WOMEN LIVE ON INSTAGRAM MESSENGER, FOOLING AROUND WITH THEIR OLD AGE

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by DyshApp: 2:18pm On Nov 23, 2023
fineberry:
If me too see white ladies, age is just a number o....have dated naija lady that was 15 years older than me, so I see nothing there as long as there is LOVE & RESPECT.

It's the respect that the problem at times because some women being older than the men would not show respect for the man
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by TheRedpillguy: 2:18pm On Nov 23, 2023
SweetBuns:
They all avoid the older women because the older women are more Informed so they can see their nonsense when they start it from 10 miles away and check them appropriately

Older women are also more jaded, so the silly invaluable things they use to trick a younger girl can't work on them. The boys are incapable of bringing up something that is truly valuable so it frustrates them

Older women are not for boys who don't know what they want. Serious men only.

And that is ok. Serious Men can have them, nobody the drag am with them.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Puss360(f): 2:20pm On Nov 23, 2023
goodyvin02:


Are you an older lady, if yes, can we hookup??
I'm an adult...
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Puss360(f): 2:22pm On Nov 23, 2023
obaidan:

that's a problem, you already think f.vck is the ultimate value u can bring. If he sees you as someone that will add value to him by helping to raise kings and queens as kids, if u will accelerate his journey to financial freedom like being an active business partner so u too can attain financial freedom early, if you will give him peace and help calm his nerves when things get tricky for him...he will wife u irrespective of age. Nigerian guys are marrying older women and they are having successful marriages, na who no fit pin down younger guy dey cry.

Meanwhile if its okay for ladies to put all their effort into looking for tall dark and handsome, why should it be a problem if men put their effort into looking for white foreign and non-nigerian. It's even more logical to defend wanting to be with someone with some set of values and perception of life based on culture than to defend wanting to be with someone just because they are tall dark and handsome
You all are just suffering from inferiority issues.... I'm not saying people of the western world are bad, but you all shouldn't make Nigerian women feel unqualified....
Besides most of you going abroad to marry, when u die, you all will want to be buried back home here...

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by johnjose68: 2:29pm On Nov 23, 2023
Nahunger:


Green card, a better future for our generations to come, the rich old Nigerian woman all she has is body counts, manipulations, problem, confusion and more body counts.

This news item is for the i.pobs.

na dem they marry 75 years old wife women to get stay for abroad. After which they begin do drug business grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by jaxxy(m): 2:32pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh

That white woman is bringing something to the table. what is the Nigerian girl with bad manners bringing? undecided

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by Myer(m): 2:35pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh
This is half true.
The other half is that most Nigerian girls also believe it is the solely the man's responsibility to be the provider.

Once we get this part right, Nigerian women can be the world in the world.
The only issue with age is when the wife is older than the man, it's usually quite difficult for her to submit to him.
Because that thing called submission is so important in a good marriage.
Submission is not slavery but respecting who has the final say.

As believers, they both should both submits to Christ and the wife submits to the man.
This clearly does not work for unbelievers.
Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:35pm On Nov 23, 2023
Puss360:

You all are just suffering from inferiority issues.... I'm not saying people of the western world are bad, but you all shouldn't make Nigerian women feel unqualified....
Besides most of you going abroad to marry, when u die, you all will want to be buried back home here...
Very very funny,..... Sadly for u, i got myself a very black n beautiful Nigerian woman with excess values, supporting my growth as much as I'm supporting hers....if i wan run street sef, i'm not in any way deficient, what's to feel inferior about
@boldened maybe u should read my initial response to you again, i said older Nigerian women that have values to add are even getting younger successful men, how is that to make Nigerian women feel unqualified. Having some form of tangible value, apart from f.vck prowess is the point.

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Re: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by prophetfire: 2:36pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh
. Nigerian women come with baggage of abject poverty and serious billings. That's why.

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