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| My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Iykegodslove(m): 2:00am On May 04 |
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them? 38 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Ynix(m): 2:06am On May 04 |
Iykegodslove: Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after. Alternatively just invite your pastor, one other wise elder in the church, your wife and the boss over for a confidential meeting and open up the Pandora box then tell them you love your wife but sincerely are disappointed in her and the boss you trusted but you are ready to forgive her if she repents and stops the whole nonsense else you won't have any choice than to make the case public. It's all about mind game, no one especially ladies like being caught in a condescending situation 548 Likes 56 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Iykegodslove(m): 2:26am On May 04 |
Ynix: Thanks!! 213 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by sholatech(m): 2:29am On May 04 |
There is wisdom in this. Ynix: 198 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by marksonrick: 3:01am On May 04 |
Women can't be predicted, you wouldn't know where you went wrong. These days, it's as if a shot on any woman and she'll fall for it. 64 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Emmanuel909090: 3:10am On May 04 |
I feel your pain, I can't advice you. If I do, you will throw her out the next morning. 311 Likes 24 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Jokerman(m): 3:14am On May 04 |
Until then kill you before your eyes go clear... 356 Likes 27 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Seunpapa65: 3:17am On May 04 |
In our culture it's believed that woman wey the play away match and use the same hands to Cook for the man can lead to death of the man 405 Likes 37 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Fikkoski: 3:21am On May 04 |
Why should we keep loving those who don't love us? Why should we keep respecting people who don't respect us? Why are we afraid to lose people who do not value us? You know exactly what to do but you are acting confused because you are afraid of doing it! 422 Likes 43 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Tallesty1(m): 3:48am On May 04 |
Iykegodslove:Let us see your marriage certificate then we will know how to advise you. 25 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by tochez24(m): 3:57am On May 04 |
Fikkoski: Exactly why he doesn't need any advice and should be totally ignored⚠️ He's not ready to be a MAN yet!!! 234 Likes 20 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Unclebayo(m): 4:09am On May 04 |
Iykegodslove:a cheating partner will always be a cheating partner, if you forgive her and you catch her cheating again she will blame you for forgiving the last time.... You don't know woman, she can even kill you because of that your boss. Be a man! 233 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Thundafireseun: 4:29am On May 04 |
 Oga do a DNA test on all your children before you talk of forgiveness Iykegodslove: I just confirmed that this story is a fictional story in secret search of likes and comments…. 171 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Iykegodslove(m): 4:33am On May 04 |
Unclebayo:Thanks!! I have been awake thinking of what to do. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by ForValour: 4:57am On May 04 |
Tell your wife to marry him. 10 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by anyilalaz: 5:03am On May 04 |
Ynix: OP take this advice, don't show any sign of knowing what is going on. Gather more than enough evidence. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Phabulous4(m): 5:19am On May 04 |
But the home/marriage will like break! With the parent involved. sholatech: |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Iykegodslove(m): 5:25am On May 04 |
Thundafireseun: The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks 13 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by zed7: 5:26am On May 04 |
Some people are wired to cheat. They don't cheat because they lack love, care, attention or money. They cheat because they're used to it, or had some traumatic or damaged childhood. Marriage is not a repair ground for damaged people. That's why it's very important to try and get it right before marriage. I still believe if you look properly and are not blinded by emotions, one can always spot a red flag. It's left for you to move on or be managing a cheating wife. No one can decide for you. For me, I know the obvious choice. 39 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Emmanuelsun0001: 5:37am On May 04 |
That your so called boss is he not married too? Iykegodslove: 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Rexymania(m): 5:43am On May 04 |
Gettat! 6 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by KingLennon(m): 5:46am On May 04 |
Tallesty1:What of birth certificate and state of origin?  9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by KingLennon(m): 5:47am On May 04 |
Thundafireseun:A million dollar advice 9 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by KingLennon(m): 5:48am On May 04 |
Iykegodslove:You say wetin? It seems u're a SIMPle man44 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by imagrg(m): 5:52am On May 04 |
Iron things out with your wife. Let her realise the gravity of her offence and what it can lead to. Then make sure your boss' wife hears about what's happening too. 6 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Makamatic: 5:54am On May 04 |
That's kind thing na him they kill husband and him children for our side . Ur wife they cheat 1st abomination , you want lock up make e nor cast 2nd abomination . Ah ah you no they fear for infection , disloyalty and distrust . Ah ah 19 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by ruggedtimi(m): 5:55am On May 04 |
Iykegodslove:you dont want to divorce her...Then allow her to continue the relationship with your so called boss and mind your business. 41 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Lalami3232(m): 6:05am On May 04 |
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| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Omoboricash(m): 6:13am On May 04 |
marksonrick:I beg to disagrre with you. If i offend my wife, is it sleeping with another man is the solution? She should call me and discuss where ever i have wronged her. As for me, if i have concrete evidence of my wife cheating on me. That is the end of the marriage. Simple 33 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Omoboricash(m): 6:16am On May 04 |
Phabulous4:Is the home not break already by sleeping with church member and her husband oga? It is better her parent get involved, Have details of her affairs with the man, if possible get their phone conversation. Then you let the cat out of the basket when her parent and the so call church member present 7 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by condensedmilk: 6:20am On May 04 |
This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Adonko(m): 6:25am On May 04 |
Sincerely advising you is not that easy cos you are the one wearing the shoe and you know were it hurts most. Be that as it may...if your woman have been indulging in this thing for long and have been behaving normal as if nothing is happening....am talking about a married woman with kids given the husband is not far away and she sees him everyday and she is not even girlfriend but a wife is a major cause for concern..and it shows her level of heartlessness. Furthermore...you are currently standing on a keg of gun powder given the fact that you know and she does not know that you know can result in high BP resulting in deteriorating health issues and by extension untimely death. Sincerely I don't envy you at all. Also...I smell from your write up given you are a church goer (a Christian ) you are scared of the scandal of divorce (if there is any these days ) and your kids loosing thier mom..but you forgot even the bible gave ground to put away your wife only on the ground of infidelity which she has crossed. In conclusion...I will suggest you start thinking and putting things in place to live a life without that woman cos she's very dangerous to live with cos once a woman start sleeping with other men not to talk of sticking to one for long..it means you are finished. If I were in your shoe I will cross my heart and scatter the full table by doing the following..cos am not going to go down alone... 1. Like the first commenter advise get solid evidence and present it to the said lover's wife as well as family members . 2. Present the evidence to his pastors and matured church members as well as his neighbourhood and work place. 3. As for the woman ...since you don't want divorce I really don't know what you say...cos oneday you will be so furious about it that you will hit her and go to jail..I don't care if she has been your helper since Adam is not a yardstick to cheat ..she is just a cheap hoe.. I once had a lady who slept with an NNPC worker claiming the man said that is the only way he can get the job she requested from him for her boyfriend which is me.. by 5am the next morning she was already an ex.. Go count your teeth with your tongue man and act well you only live life once no spare. 46 Likes 8 Shares |
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