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| Should I Quit by Spiffyhot(f): 1:54am On Oct 01, 2009 |
My boyfriend is a nice guy but the only problem he has is jelousy,he also has a temper.he doesnt allow me keep other male friends,he gets angry and shouts at me whenever he reads a text from anybody evn if it is a girl,his excuse is dt he doesnt want me to b a lesbian.sometimes he beats me up.he is always talking about marriage but i am scared,we are nt married and he treats me like a prisoner,when we do what will i become.I ve been dating this guy for over two years nw but he is frustrating me, should i quit |
| Re: Should I Quit by THEAMAKA(f): 2:10am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Spiffyhot: Spiffyhot: Spiffyhot: and im going to pretend you didnt say any of that. READ BETWEEN THE LINES!!! get out now!!!! i mean, i dont want to be rude but, WTF?!?!?! things will only get worse. you already said that he beats you, what do you think he'll do to you if you leave? |
| Re: Should I Quit by THEAMAKA(f): 2:13am On Oct 01, 2009 |
he wants to control you, simple as that. and i cant believe you even considered marrying him. please get a grip on yourself and get a man that will treat you right. do you really wanna spend the rest of your life with someone like that? WOW!!! just leave now, you are wasting your time. |
| Re: Should I Quit by sjeezy8: 2:15am On Oct 01, 2009 |
leave him |
| Re: Should I Quit by Spiffyhot(f): 3:18am On Oct 01, 2009 |
I ve broken up wiv him twice but he just keeps coming back, moreover evn if i make up mi mind to break up,i cn't jst do it when i see him  |
| Re: Should I Quit by kellorah: 3:26am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Your not serious @ all!! And if u r, get someone to threaten him. |
| Re: Should I Quit by CrazyMan(m): 3:40am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Are you waiting for him to murder you because of jealousy before you know its time to call it quits.  |
| Re: Should I Quit by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:35am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Spiffyhot: And Your still asking if you should quit?  No please stay ohh. . .when he kills you. . .then you can quit!  Gush do you peeps have to be in love and be stupid at the same time! |
| Re: Should I Quit by posakosa(m): 4:38am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Be patient, He will change. wait till he kills you then quit!  |
| Re: Should I Quit by Atreus(f): 5:17am On Oct 01, 2009 |
This is what i was talking about in a previous topic. Men may be crazy to hit their women,but the women are more crazy to stay with them. @Op,he hits you because he knows you'll let him get away with it. |
| Re: Should I Quit by Akinagirl(f): 6:17am On Oct 01, 2009 |
If he does all of these things, how is he a nice guy? |
| Re: Should I Quit by chukudibab(m): 6:18am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Spiffyhot:  love s blind. |
| Re: Should I Quit by Akinagirl(f): 6:24am On Oct 01, 2009 |
I guess. FOr some reason it makes people stupid. I just cant fathom why you would stay with him and consider marriage |
| Re: Should I Quit by Nobody: 7:02am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Girl stay, and hope all will be well in future, see it as a sacrifice you gat to pay now, man scarce o, you neva hear? |
| Re: Should I Quit by iice(f): 7:03am On Oct 01, 2009 |
posakosa: |
| Re: Should I Quit by justwise(m): 8:24am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Spiffyhot:This just prove that some' girls enjoy abusive rela/ship. If u can call somebody who treats u like that NICE guy then now i know what i have being doing wrong. |
| Re: Should I Quit by THEAMAKA(f): 8:28am On Oct 01, 2009 |
i agree with a lot of people above. maybe you should wait until he kills you, so then you can finally realize you need to get out. @ poster WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!?!?!?! |
| Re: Should I Quit by lonelypal(m): 8:45am On Oct 01, 2009 |
chai!!!!!!! Nland ooo, dem don come again o |
| Re: Should I Quit by toosoon(m): 8:53am On Oct 01, 2009 |
@poster, you are looking for hard man, now that you have seen one you wan quit the relationship. My advice is God should continue to give you the strenght to be able to withstand more beating and for you to see the prison as your home sweet home, in Jesus Name, Amen!!! |
| Re: Should I Quit by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Woman beating and Jealousy at this stage my dear married life for you will be hell on earth. RUN NOW WHILE YOU ARE STILL ALIVE. |
| Re: Should I Quit by rooney86(m): 9:14am On Oct 01, 2009 |
stay with him, the grass is not always greener on the other side. (just kidding) , . . but seriously, what are you waiting for? abeg leave the guy! |
| Re: Should I Quit by Spiffyhot(f): 11:26am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Thanks y'all,i really do appreciate ur advice |
| Re: Should I Quit by sexyLeamon(f): 11:48am On Oct 01, 2009 |
Spiffyhot:I know exactly what u mean. that is how abusive/overly jealous boyfriends behave. It's very hard to get out of these relationships because they are usually extremely charming and treat a girl well. after they have acted really bad, They put u on a pedestal - the problem is the pedestal comes with a cage around it. Please, please, evaluate this relationship very carefully. If he's this way just being your boyfriend, as a husband he will lock you down. |
| Re: Should I Quit by LordReed(m): 2:44pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
@OP U are 17 n u are in an abusive relationship already? Besides ur definition of nice is a lil faulty. Nice guys don't beat up women moreso women they love. Please get out n stay out of this guy's way. If u don't u will live ur life think dats the best u'll ever have wen there are other truly nice people out there. |
| Re: Should I Quit by sexybabes(f): 3:05pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
poster, must u wait until he puts u on d wheelchair 4 u 2 know dt dis r/s in not gud 4 u? Q U I T! |
| Re: Should I Quit by africhika(f): 3:17pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
never settle for a jealous man wth bad temper. it's not worth it |
| Re: Should I Quit by sexybabes(f): 3:34pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
africhika:Excatly. Some gals have suffered. Imagine me havin 2 b some dude's putchin bag, in dis my fine face, HELL NO!!! |
| Re: Should I Quit by fitzmayowa: 6:36pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
@ post, i think you should quit if u really want to live long. |
| Re: Should I Quit by Nobody: 6:52pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
I see you're in love. Most advice given here are never implemented. A person in love always hopes for change that usually don't come. Anyhow, to fufill all formalities, I'll also add my voice and say leave him. |
| Re: Should I Quit by Nobody: 7:08pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
She won't leave him she knows she can't cuz if she could she would have done so.For her to post this topic she just need views on her options that she's never pick.The sad part is i know a particular girl who was killed by boyfriend guess he was quick to temper.And i warned,  ?.Okay i think i'm confusing eve's video love is blind for reality.Hehe anyway it's the point that matters.Don't mind yorke i'm sure he just being sarcastic.If he needs a punching toy tell him to buy a Wii.It's almost like real.Lol. |
| Re: Should I Quit by dljbd1(m): 7:20pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
is that the only option you've got? |
| Re: Should I Quit by yme1(f): 8:00pm On Oct 01, 2009 |
modern day slavery is still in vogue  nah wa ooooooooo |
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