hooklover:
Guy u slack oh . U gey free toto.wen i meet them i dont ask much question. I go syrsight to d point .
Ser u knack hrr u will realise u no love her .

Yeah, I know that i slacked, but i never wanted to do anything with a married woman before now.

How I'm pained is even surprising to me.

I mean, the guy took all the single girls and I wasn't mad.

marksonrick:


Yeah, I know that i slacked, but i never wanted to do anything with a married woman before now.

How I'm pained is even surprising to me.

I mean, the guy took all the single girls and I wasn't mad.

You are still not over her? It has been days now. It's obvious the other guy has won the race. And I very much believe from your previous write ups that he has tasted the cookie already. So why are you doing this to yourself. Man up Sir. Or you do still want to hit it?

What exactly do you want now. Because you seem to be in different minds at different times. Just let it go. The lady wanted more than friendship and you couldn't decode and give her. Now she is getting it elsewhere and has friend zoned you. You seem like a nice person, you deserve better than the treatment you are giving yourself now. Do the needful. You very much know what the needful is. All the best.

PaaRichie5:


You are still not over her? It has been days now. It's obvious the other guy has won the race. And I very much believe from your previous write ups that he has tasted the cookie already. So why are you doing this to yourself. Man up Sir. Or you do still want to hit it?

What exactly do you want now. Because you seem to be in different minds at different times. Just let it go. The lady wanted more than friendship and you couldn't decode and give her. Now she is getting it elsewhere and has friend zoned you. You seem like a nice person, you deserve better than the treatment you are giving yourself now. Do the needful. You very much know what the needful is. All the best.

Although I've gotten over her but also, I was trying to cut her off completely from coming to my office unnecessarily which was making me uncomfortable, and I've achieved that yesterday.

Initially, she told me that I am chasing her from an office which I'm answerable to her, but I made her understand that she can only come when she have important issue to discuss with me, that is work related. Not to come calling me her love, boyfriend and be going to another guy to collect d*ck. And the way she respects this guy, she never did that to me nor her husband because she normally talked to her husband on phone while we were still good. In fact, I had to be counseling her.

That guy, I can't really tell. He has gain control of all the ladies, that I currently have zero chance at anyone in that place.

For now, I've washed my hands off any lady there.

The ones that he has struck always feel heart broken when they see him with the next target and some will be on their desk crying.

Yesterday got me shocked, how girls who were forming for me would be dragging on visiting him in his house.

So, they know he has slept with lots of them and the remaining ones still want to give in.

marksonrick:
Long Read

I started work for this organization in December last year and I am heading my department. A new manager, a female was brought in January from a different state as the overall head. It wasn't easy for her as a lot of junior staff fought against her decisions. I was her go to person even though there are other people heading various departments.
As time went on, some junior and senior members of the organization began to disassociate from her. This made us come more closer. We hug each other every morning on resumption of duty, she visits my office, eat there if she came with food and most times, will sleep on my office.
She is always jealous whenever she sees me holding other female colleagues. I don't go beyond the hugging because she is married and I respect her marriage. Even the hugging, I don't hug in the front, but at the side.
With time, she was able to push a lot of junior staffs away and new ones were employed.
One of the new guy employed last month, knows the game to unlocking women's leg.
Within last month and this month, he has slept with almost all the girls in the organization and even the girls I usually play left me, both the one that has visited me in my house although, we didn't do anything.
Some weeks ago, he began coming close to the overall manager, and the woman, started developing emotions for him and becomebtoo attracted to him. Last week, I and the guy were having some good time then she appeared, came to the chair where I sat and looked straight into the guys eyes. I caught her, and she became uncomfortable. She left my office and then closed work after 5 mins even though it wasn't her closing time.
She lives with her husband and I do go to visit them. I never knew I had feelings for her all these while until that particular act happened. Well, after that act, I restrained her from coming to my office. She came begging me. She asked me what was wrong. I couldn't tell her because she is married but i was dying. She even asked me if i am in love with her but i kept mum. Two days ago, I was with her in her office when she heard the guy's voice and how the other women are happy, chanting and laughing. Immediately, she became uncomfortable and after 5 mins, she told me that she was coming and left. 10 minutes later, I went out and caught she and the guy in a happy mood. I became very angry and hurt, the only friend I had was gone.
Yesterday, I called her to her office and asked her if she loves the guy. She was furious but I continued by pointing out all that I have observed about her and the guy. She became cold, and her countenance changed. After i left her office, she sat there without stepping out the whole day except the time she closed for the day.

I don't know if it was wrong to have told her about the guy since I'm not the husband.

As it stands now, I've decided to cut close ties with her as I know clearly, the guy has won.

Before she went home yesterday, I went into her office and noticed that she was crying and then, her hand shaking. I asked her why was she crying and why is her hand shaking. She did not say anything, so I told her to do what's on her mind, because I know clearly that that I've lost her.

Ever since yesterday, I've been feeling jealousy towards them.

She didn't come to work today but I'm worried about her, me and the guy tomorrow.

Lol...

It's the alpha fucker that I am here for.

Dude is repping the redpill well. He understands women. But you....I don't have words for this shiit you typed

luminouz:


Lol...

It's the alpha fucker that I am here for.

Dude is repping the redpill well. He understands women. But you....I don't have words for this shiit you typed

I tell you.

Ha, what da f*ck, the guy is damn good.

marksonrick:


Although I've gotten over her but also, I was trying to cut her off completely from coming to my office unnecessarily which was making me uncomfortable, and I've achieved that yesterday.

Initially, she told me that I am chasing her from an office which I'm answerable to her, but I made her understand that she can only come when she have important issue to discuss with me, that is work related. Not to come calling me her love, boyfriend and be going to another guy to collect d*ck. And the way she respects this guy, she never did that to me nor her husband because she normally talked to her husband on phone while we were still good. In fact, I had to be counseling her.

That guy, I can't really tell. He has gain control of all the ladies, that I currently have zero chance at anyone in that place.

For now, I've washed my hands off any lady there.

The ones that he has struck always feel heart broken when they see him with the next target and some will be on their desk crying.

Yesterday got me shocked, how girls who were forming for me would be dragging on visiting him in his house.

So, they know he has slept with lots of them and the remaining ones still want to give in.

You have said it all. The guy has given you a timely lesson on the sexual behaviour of ladies. The ladies deem him superior to you. Your lady friend puts him above you and her husband. Do you know why? Because she has something to lose if this guy walks out of her life. Unfortunately it's not the same scenario for you. The role she wanted you to play from the start has been filled by this new guy. So beyond some few semantics here and there you are disposable in her eyes for now. She is just trying to be nice with her words.

Keep off the ladies at you workplace like you said. Going after them will make you look weak. They are his leftovers and are still drooling over him. You cannot be his backup option Sir. It's not that hard. Set your boundaries, be nice to them but keep off on the extracurricular aspect.

The funny thing is that you will get the lady on a silver platter las las. She is going to get heartbroken by the guy. The signs are clearly on the wall. And whose arms do you think she will ran to when the inevitable happens?Whose shoulders will she cry on. Your guess is as good as mine.

marksonrick:


I tell you.

Ha, what da f*ck, the guy is damn good.

it is because she has alot to loose that's why she respects him more than you. He definitely slept with her or something close to that.

fabulous85:
it is because she has alot to loose that's why she respects him more than you. He definitely slept with her or something close to that.

Most definitely, he has banged her. I believe that the come she told me that she's coming to my house was a hint that she'll be seeing that guy because they were both on off duty that day.

Thanks for your input.

PaaRichie5:


You have said it all. The guy has given you a timely lesson on the sexual behaviour of ladies. The ladies deem him superior to you. Your lady friend puts him above you and her husband. Do you know why? Because she has something to lose if this guy walks out of her life. Unfortunately it's not the same scenario for you. The role she wanted you to play from the start has been filled by this new guy. So beyond some few semantics here and there you are disposable in her eyes for now. She is just trying to be nice with her words.

Keep off the ladies at you workplace like you said. Going after them will make you look weak. They are his leftovers and are still drooling over him. You cannot be his backup option Sir. It's not that hard. Set your boundaries, be nice to them but keep off on the extracurricular aspect.

The funny thing is that you will get the lady on a silver platter las las. She is going to get heartbroken by the guy. The signs are clearly on the wall. And whose arms do you think she will ran to when the inevitable happens?Whose shoulders will she cry on. Your guess is as good as mine.

How do I move on now, almost all the whole ladies hate me so to say.

My major issue is that I can't keep communication with them in a way that will bring us closer.

I've come to realize that there are levels of communication when it comes to women.

The funniest thing is, I can't keep communication with my fellow friends, boys, for 5 minutes. Even my parents, I hardly talk with them.

I have some few female friends that I keep hanging. I did that because I don't want to ruin my chances, as in, asking them out and maybe them rejecting.

I am trying to learn this guys game but don't know how to start. As in, before he even ask you out, he has already weaken your mind.

He can discuss with ladies for hours and I am surprised how he does that. Only that keeps the girls hooked to him.

Please help me,

How do I move on and be comfortable with women and men alike.

Most definitely, he has banged her. I believe that the come she told me that she's coming to my house was a hint that she'll be seeing that guy because they were both on off duty that day.

Thanks for your input.

Don't feel like replying u, but...
Let me speak from experience. I was in your shoe, but u know what saves me, "street ot".
Now, if am to advise you, don't chase her away nor run away from her. Because if u do, believe me, u're hurting urself. Still be friend with her. Once a while, go to her office, laugh and joke with her, maybe once a day. Don't show any sign that u are jealous or angry with her, no. Flow with her but, never again raise any friendship or visiting talk with her. Even when she calls u my boyfriend, don't rebuke her for calling u my boyfriend. Give her time,she will come back to you.
Also, most guys are diabolic. Outside been smart, most guys uses charm on ladies.
Secondly, don't date in where u are working. Have a dignity. Don't loose your respect or dignity just because of "Nigeria girls" that has no value.
Lastly, the quickest way to die is to sleep with married women. the advice I gave u above is for future purpose Incase u find ur self in such scenario again and not for married women

Reminderz:
I doubt your "story" is true... but na wetin dey happen for modern offices today sha... well, with all these rubbish wey una dey do for office so, you sure say una primary duty for there, una dey do am so?? abi na fornication and adultery be the main focus for there? how una take dey do am to dey sex work mates sef? you wan dey shit where you dey chop? you wan put yourself for trouble ba?

with all una rubbish, I pray the company doesn't fold...

Na the same people go still dey blame government when the company folds up

MrCork:



Brother marrrryed women are the best coz they loyal & they keep secret good.i dated 3 last year but i always pay them 250k each time we meet. I dint even use rubber for one of them coz she clean.juss make sure u take them to apartment..not hotel!(TRUE STORY)

So, what was the total amount you spent on them last year?

Ori gbogbo yin ti daru, let the company owners sack all of you so that you can all go and open brothel.

Globad:


So, what was the total amount you spent on them last year?

See yor headlike like dinnning table.total amount how?.i soend 250k per marrrried womens.if u can proof u are marrried i will pay u 250k cash for juss 15 to 20for 20 minutes sexxx but if u single, i will pay u between 10k & N25,000naira cash. u sound single to me,please please please can i boook u for 15minute tomorrow?this is yor shance to make moiney. U want?

What is wrong with you oga?? Can't you date a single girl. You guys don't have much doing in your Government job.

MrCork:


See yor headlike like dinnning table.total amount how?.i soend 250k per marrrried womens.if u can proof u are marrried i will pay u 250k cash for juss 15 to 20for 20 minutes sexxx but if u single, i will pay u between 10k & N25,000naira cash. u sound single to me,please please please can i boook u for 15minute tomorrow?this is yor shance to make moiney. U want?

You sound so drunk and abnormal

I wish you well in your delusions

Globad:


You sound so drunk and abnormal

I wish you well in your delusions

do u relice u talking to a Londoner?are u on my level?..and then u complain u cant find man on nairaland. U never beeento london & u talkin like u are all dat.do u even no wot aeroplane looklikes?growwwup please. if u want moiney, ask nicely & i will post u £3 to buy nice clothes. I beg shift.anyways wot yor nomba please?

Mosdiii:


It could be true. This happens alot in retail companies and also hotel jobs too

You are very correct. I have a neighbour who works in an hotel. Anytime any of her colleagues come visiting, they will discuss sexapade going on in their place of work all through. How female workers are sleeping with male workers and customers. It's as if their major work their is sex.

MrCork:



do u relice u talking to a Londoner?are u on my level?..and then u complain u cant find man on nairaland. U never beeento london & u talkin like u are all dat.do u even no wot aeroplane looklikes?growwwup please. if u want moiney, ask nicely & i will post u £3 to buy nice clothes. I beg shift.anyways wot yor nomba please?

You're drunk

skj1377:
What is wrong with you oga?? Can't you date a single girl. You guys don't have much doing in your Government job.

These single girls, I no understand them. Them no want reason my matter at all.

This lady and I were just friends o before. Although she dey always call me my love, plus we are always seen together outside for shopping and all that people mistake her to be my wife it was never my intention to strike because she's someone's wife.

Although, i was pained that she left but my anger stemmed from her trying to engage me on errands that she wouldn't before.

Well, I've completely ignored her and for now, we are not in talking terms. If I need anything for the job, I just request and leave.

It's going to hurt gravely but am well prepared.

Globad:


You're drunk

You very rudes. Forget u mennn!!!

Am sure it's Pwan office 😂😂😂

MrCork:


You very rudes. Forget u mennn!!!

You're "rudeness"!

marksonrick:


Most definitely, he has banged her. I believe that the come she told me that she's coming to my house was a hint that she'll be seeing that guy because they were both on off duty that day.

Thanks for your input.




How do I move on now, almost all the whole ladies hate me so to say.

My major issue is that I can't keep communication with them in a way that will bring us closer.

I've come to realize that there are levels of communication when it comes to women.

The funniest thing is, I can't keep communication with my fellow friends, boys, for 5 minutes. Even my parents, I hardly talk with them.

I have some few female friends that I keep hanging. I did that because I don't want to ruin my chances, as in, asking them out and maybe them rejecting.

I am trying to learn this guys game but don't know how to start. As in, before he even ask you out, he has already weaken your mind.

He can discuss with ladies for hours and I am surprised how he does that. Only that keeps the girls hooked to him.

Please help me,

How do I move on and be comfortable with women and men alike.

Bro, u shld make new friends.
Lagos right?

luminouz:


Lol...

It's the alpha fucker that I am here for.

Dude is repping the redpill well. He understands women. But you....I don't have words for this shiit you typed

Alpha fucker ko, reaping red pill my foot.
There's more to it abeg, women are not as universally foolish as red pilers make it seem.

Something else is involved.

Celplas1010:
Don't feel like replying u, but...
Let me speak from experience. I was in your shoe, but u know what saves me, "street ot".
Now, if am to advise you, don't chase her away nor run away from her. Because if u do, believe me, u're hurting urself. Still be friend with her. Once a while, go to her office, laugh and joke with her, maybe once a day. Don't show any sign that u are jealous or angry with her, no. Flow with her but, never again raise any friendship or visiting talk with her. Even when she calls u my boyfriend, don't rebuke her for calling u my boyfriend. Give her time,she will come back to you.
Also, most guys are diabolic. Outside been smart, most guys uses charm on ladies.
Secondly, don't date in where u are working. Have a dignity. Don't loose your respect or dignity just because of "Nigeria girls" that has no value.
Lastly, the quickest way to die is to sleep with married women. the advice I gave u above is for future purpose Incase u find ur self in such scenario again and not for married women

I won't go to her office again. Why would I?

I just left her for herself and the guy. That's what she wanted by avoiding me.

I've been heart broken for years with different girls.

How I wish say I get OT, that guy girl is throwing herself on me, probably as his guy is all over other girls.

The guy was smart enough to isolate the girl from other girls. I however pulled her out of the isolation by asking her to mingle with staffs. I am currently her go to person but the issue na OT, and that's all my 99.9 % problem.

CalmElder:






Alpha fucker ko, reaping red pill my foot.
There's more to it abeg, women are not as universally foolish as red pilers make it seem.

Something else is involved.

You are a very fuulish elder, hating on a dude because he got more pussies than you....

So he is using jazz or what? Clown!!

sow4me:


Bro, u shld make new friends.
Lagos right?

Don't you think learning OT is the best?

I have few friends, both male and female but bantering has kept us apart.

Am not good at winning someone and I feel weak and let things go easily.

A lady I had few calls with just told me to stop calling because the discussion is not going anywhere.

I think I need ot instead of friends.

luminouz:


You are a very fuulish elder, hating on a dude because he got more pussies than you....

So he is using jazz or what? Clown!!

I don't hate him but his lifestyle that will lead him astray.
If you are impressed by the guy, you are doomed.

marksonrick:


Don't you think learning OT is the best?

I have few friends, both male and female but bantering has kept us apart.

Am not good at winning someone and I feel weak and let things go easily.

A lady I had few calls with just told me to stop calling because the discussion is not going anywhere.

I think I need ot instead of friends.

Thoroughly work on improving your relationship with guys and you will win women over. This approach never fails.

Works like magic

Na for local Government you they work?

CalmElder:




I don't hate him but his lifestyle that will lead him astray.
If you are impressed by the guy, you are doomed.

K