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As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by tallfish145(m): 4:58pm On May 16
As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice
Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Anunakeeh: 6:12pm On May 16
tallfish145:
As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:18pm On May 16
Of course, since it will be beneficial to the finances of the family, that shouldn't be a problem.

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:21pm On May 16
tallfish145:
As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice

i think a man asking his wife to do such move is highly irresponsible...
- so you want your wife to sell her valuable to do something that may (or not) succeed and/or solve the problem?
- starting a business is a gamble that may (or not) succeed, unless you can guarantee that it will work (with proof), nobody should sell their valuable for you.


what a responsible man should do instead, is to sit down with his wife, and A) tell her the problem and explain to her how it had to get to this point before you could speak to her and B) show her that the only way "you" think you guys can get over this is to sell her valuable and C) ask her to put her input as to whether she has a better idea as to how to get through this financial issue (as its obvious you are useless at successfully running a business).

its highly irresponsible for a man to leave his wife out the nonsense you did with your money/belongings, but then when you lost it all, you now expect your wife to sell all her belongings to now start some other yeye venture that may also end in failure. sometimes a good woman has to tell you to stop all this nonsense useless business ventures and to instead focus on getting a DAMN 9 to 5 JOB.

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by NeckingNgulping(m): 8:12pm On May 16
MrBrownJay1:


i think a man asking his wife to do such move is highly irresponsible...
- so you want your wife to sell her valuable to do something that may (or not) succeed and/or solve the problem?
- starting a business is a gamble that may (or not) succeed, unless you can guarantee that it will work (with proof), nobody should sell their valuable for you.


what a responsible man should do instead, is to sit down with his wife, and A) tell her the problem and explain to her how it had to get to this point before you could speak to her and B) show her that the only way "you" think you guys can get over this is to sell her valuable and C) ask her to put her input as to whether she has a better idea as to how to get through this financial issue (as its obvious you are useless at successfully running a business).

its highly irresponsible for a man to leave his wife out the nonsense you did with your money/belongings, but then when you lost it all, you now expect your wife to sell all her belongings to now start some other yeye venture that may also end in failure. sometimes a good woman has to tell you to stop all this nonsense useless business ventures and to instead focus on getting a DAMN 9 to 5 JOB.

I can't believe I wasted my time reading this nonsense. Half way through i noticed it's a total rubbish but i still went all the way to read it to the end. Contradicting yourself the whole time.
Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Patented: 8:27am On May 17
I swear Down. too many assumptions. person has not seen life happen yet
NeckingNgulping:


I can't believe I wasted my time reading this nonsense. Half way through i noticed it's a total rubbish but i still went all the way to read it to the end. Contradicting yourself the whole time.

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Hathor5(f): 11:44am On May 17
I don`t know why people think in terms of mine and yours in marriage but that`s just me.

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Reality3080: 11:57am On May 17
Biglittlelois:
Of course, since it will be beneficial to the finances of the family, that shouldn't be a problem.

madam don’t try it

I am a man n presently in that same situation but I won’t advise my wife to try it

Last year my brother a car dealer had a court case over possession of stolen car which he didn’t know, someone was killed in d course of stealing d car so he spent almost 5 million on court case

I personally borrowed him over 1.8 million out of my business money, till now he hasn’t returned my money n it’s not been easy

I did it so he won’t b jailed, now my wife is offering to sell her inheritance so I can get back on my feet but I will never allow that

What if she does n business fails or anything happened?
What will her father say?
What will her siblings say?


Personally it’s not advisable from here

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Re: As A Woman,can You Sell Your Values To Satisfy Your Husband's Needs? by Mindlog: 3:12pm On May 17
tallfish145:
As a woman assuming your husband who is going through some financial stress walked up to you and ask you to sell any of your valuables to start some business that will be for the interest of the family. Note,the intention is to use the money to start something that will be for the benefit of his family. Can you make such sacrifice

He should first give the wife the full details of what led to the financial stress and both decide if he is better off looking for a 9 to 5 job, rather than gambling the proceeds from the sales of the valuables by starting a new business he has been daydreaming the profits.

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