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How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 9:19am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Good morning beautiful people am seriously in need of your advice,i have a beautiful lady am seeing and by God's grace we are hoping to walk down the aisle. Now my problem with her is she complains a lot that I don't like to play rough with her, I don't go to club,parties and I also don't like crowded gatherings and all that but am a very reserved person and each time I try to play rough with her one of us must certainly get hurt but she is really a loving person and she has every quality I want in a woman. P.S pardon my blunders,help a brother please |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Blakjewelry(m): 9:59am On Mar 10, 2018 |
The last time I checked playing rough doesn't mean going to the club or party |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by bobokeshington: 10:26am On Mar 10, 2018 |
She's giving you a green light to do it rough in the bedroom. Decode the logic and use your senses 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:27am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Blakjewelry:Her major complain is me not playing rough, I just mentioned her other complains |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by krissconnect(m): 10:27am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Each time you try to play rough one of you gets hurt.. what do you even mean or what does she even want or seems ure confused or guess u don't really understand what she's seeking |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by krissconnect(m): 10:28am On Mar 10, 2018 |
bobokeshington:
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Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by XhosaNostra(f): 10:34am On Mar 10, 2018 |
What do you mean by rough play? Like, does she want you to wrestle her or something? I don't get it. |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by bobokeshington: 10:34am On Mar 10, 2018 |
[quote author=krissconnect post=65715248][/quote] Lolz.... But on a more serious notes, the guy couldn't read the hand writing on the Wall.... As in Dude dey dull hinsef.... |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:35am On Mar 10, 2018 |
krissconnect:am talking about practical roughness,chase each other around the house, physical fighting like we fighting sumo actually is just her way of having indoor fun but me I prefer to just cuddle her and watch a movie |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:36am On Mar 10, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:exactly that kind of play that you get all sweaty and stuff |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:37am On Mar 10, 2018 |
bobokeshington:lol I no dey dull I deflowered the lady in question so it is not about smashing |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by bobokeshington: 10:41am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: probably you'll need to get your di*k enlarged |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by XhosaNostra(f): 10:42am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: That's childish lol. If she has excess energy she must go do Zumba or something. |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:43am On Mar 10, 2018 |
bobokeshington:Am not auditioning for a porn video I would pass |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Manager001: 10:44am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Blakjewelry:tell him oooo |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:45am On Mar 10, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:How do you have fun indoor with your partner when you are not watching a movie or playing indoor games? |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by marvin906(m): 10:49am On Mar 10, 2018 |
hahahahahahhahahaha.. your chick is really funny buh what shes asking isn't bad i see it as another way of bonding your post just made me remember my bro and hes gf.. if you see where this too dey play with each you go tire.. every where they scatter is really funny from wrestling each other to pillow fight.. OP too bad your not a free person its is really fun |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by marvin906(m): 10:52am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: really then you and your gf are really boring no offense |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:53am On Mar 10, 2018 |
marvin906:Finally bro you can relate some times we literally practice smack down move my babe is weird and dangerous |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 10:54am On Mar 10, 2018 |
marvin906:That's y I opened this thread help me out please |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by marvin906(m): 11:01am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: if you keep looking at it as dangerous play you will never be free.. like i said is really fun.. and makes you bond with your spouse.. buh dude use wisdom make you nor go injure am nor forget say na woman.. for me cuddling and all those things can be boring sometimes |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by XhosaNostra(f): 11:03am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: Well, usually I do my own thing. I don't need someone else breathing down my neck at every turn lol. I read, play games on the laptop or do other things that don't involve my partner. I can't relate to the kind of relationship you & your girlfriend have. Certain aspects of my relationship are tailored to our individualistic tastes. We don't have to be around each other even when we're under the same roof. He has his own hobbies, I also have my own. Personal space is essential for me in a relationship. Too much togetherness is suffocating. I'm similar to you in that, I'm not very outgoing. My not being outgoing doesn't mean I'm home to babysit another person. In fact, sometimes I don't even talk because I got so much stuff I'm thinking about, so if someone I'm dating can't be self-sufficient in that way, they'll either feel neglected or ignored. It's my nature. I can't change it. |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 11:08am On Mar 10, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:That's my angle all I need is Internet on my phone and am OK but bae she go change everything collect the phone from me and ask me to use her as my Internet it's all fun Sha she is the very direct opposite of us |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 11:09am On Mar 10, 2018 |
marvin906:Noted |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by XhosaNostra(f): 11:16am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01: Lol, wow. It doesn't annoy you when she does that? I know for myself that when I'm in that me mode, I get extremely irritable when someone "intrudes" or exhibits attention seeking behaviours. Makes me shut them out even more Well, it's your girlfriend, compromise & punch her or whatever it is that she wants.
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Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Avedonn: 11:19am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Your girlfriend is a BDSM kinda lady. Dominant and submissive. Use the Fifty shade of grey method on her and I assured u she won't complain again. |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 11:35am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Avedonn:What is BDSM? |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Blakjewelry(m): 11:49am On Mar 10, 2018 |
Sirventor01:Then activate the bad boy in you, everybody got a dual nature. If you are a cool guy, your bad boy is dormant, as for me I have learnt to balance the two, ladies usually see me like a bad boy come close and you will see the coolest guy ever |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Avedonn: 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2018 |
BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage , discipline, dominance and submission, and rough play between couples. Just Watch Fifty shade of grey and you'll get more insight about it. It's fun to practice it but the two parties have to be on the same page. |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Opentokwowledge: 12:36pm On Mar 10, 2018 |
Well, I think we all play with our gfs right? It does get rough sometimes and sometimes we just cuddle and talk and hum. Doesn't it all depend on mood and the natural progression of things? Problems and complaints would only arise when we don't know when to do what or when to stop, yeah? So, what's the stress all about in yours gee? Ask yourself, 'Am I boring'? |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by Sirventor01(m): 12:46pm On Mar 10, 2018 |
Blakjewelry:Noted boss |
Re: How To Handle A Partner That Loves To Play Rough by marvin906(m): 12:59pm On Mar 10, 2018 |
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