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I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Kuginzi: 5:33am On Apr 28
By Godfrey George


A 26-year-old Ebonyi State lady, Chinaza Nwaezere, battling goitre (thyroid enlargement) decided to go into sex work to raise the money for her surgery after two failed businesses in Enugu State. She tells GODFREY GEORGE how life has been for her caring for her sick father and six younger siblings with the proceeds from the ‘business’ and why she wants to quit

Where are you from?

My name is Chinaza Nwaezere. I am 26 years old. I am from Abakiliki Local Government Area in Ebonyi State.

Did you go to school?

No, I did not finish secondary school. In fact, I stopped in JSS 1. I could not further my education because it was the period my mother died, and she was the breadwinner of the family.

What year was this?

This was in 2014.

Where is your dad?

My dad is alive, but my mother was the one taking care of the family.

How has life been since your mother’s passing?

Hmm… Life has been hard since she passed, especially as my dad is not really doing his work as a father. Everything is left for me and my siblings to hustle to make ends meet. We are just trying to survive.
When you said your father is not doing enough as a father, what did you mean?

My father is not capable of taking care of us.

Is he sick?

Yes, he is sick. He has been sick for many years, long before my mother’s demise. He has a heart condition, and because of that, he doesn’t do any hard work. He is just always at home because the doctors were very clear when they told him that he must avoid anything that would be classified as hard work. So, it has been me and my siblings struggling for the family.

We came together and gathered some money and opened a foodstuff business for him. That is what he does in Enugu. Although the business is very small and barely makes any profit, at least, my father can come out, interact with people, and make some sales so he will not just be lonely at home. He has been doing this business for a few years.

How many siblings do you have?

We are eight children. I am the second child. I have seven other siblings. Our last child should be around 11 years or so and he is still in school.

You mentioned you have an elder sister; where is she?

She is in Enugu. She is married with kids. She is a fashion designer. The burden of taking care of the family falls squarely on both our shoulders. My dad particularly relies on me so much and I have to do anything I have to do to provide, and all this was part of the reason I started sex work. My dad believed that, even if my siblings would not be able to give him any money for upkeep, I should be able to give him. We are really close.

How have you been able to live up to this responsibility?

Hmmm… It has not been easy. I was into food business. I sold food by the roadside in Enugu, but the business was not going as planned. It was not yielding much profit because the weight of the entire family was on it. It was from that business I took care of seven of my siblings and my father as well. The business collapsed before it even started. I also tried to do baking but it was not profitable to me. The money I was getting was not enough to take care of myself and my family.

It was around that period of my confusion that I was introduced to the ‘hustle’. I started hustling.

What do you mean by ‘hustling’?

I started hookup (sex work) in Enugu but had to relocate to Asaba, Delta State. I didn’t work for up to one week before I relocated to Asaba.

Why?

It was someone who told me to move to Asaba. She said the business there would be more profitable than Enugu. I also wasn’t feeling okay there, because that is where my family is based. I was staying with my dad and had to lie to him every night and I didn’t like it. I had to just decide to either stop it and return to poverty or move to Asaba and make some money.

I had to lie to my dad that I had a job in Asaba. He was so happy. He told me to kneel and he prayed for me before I left. He doesn’t really know what I am doing there.

What year exactly did you move to Asaba?

I moved in January 2024. I have only been in Asaba for four months.

How much have you made in four months?

The thing is that it is not every day I normally go out for this kind of stuff. There is also an issue of police clampdown. They are everywhere here, disturbing us. I had to stop for a while because of the police palaver. They are really disturbing girls here. I was squatting with a friend of mine here but she drove me out of the house, saying that she couldn’t accommodate me if I was not bringing money into the house for some basic things. I became homeless for a while before I got to the place where I am squatting now. I pay N11,000 here every week.

In a month, I may hustle for just two weeks. The money that I get, I will try to save. The money that they are paying me here is not even big.

How much do you charge for your services?

I can tell a man that a night with me is N30,000. They will beat it down to around N10,000. If it is okay by me, I will go with the man.

What is the highest that you have been paid in a night?

The highest? I don’t know. If it is someone that I have looked at from afar and weighed his pocket, I can demand N50,000 or N40,000, and they may beat it down to N30,000 which is my regular charge. But, it is not that simple.

At what point did you notice that you had goitre?

It started developing in my body in 2022. I just woke up and noticed I had a swelling. I thought it was just neck pain or sore throat. I went to a pharmacy and got medication for a case of sore throat. But, it kept growing bigger. I carried it for the entire year and even into 2023. It was in 2023 that the pain became unbearable as the swelling got really bigger. It has been weighing me down. This is the major thing that made me say I must take it out.

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by ForValour: 5:50am On Apr 28
She will find help

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by libertyfather(m): 5:52am On Apr 28
life indeed a mystery
Kuginzi:
By Godfrey George


A 26-year-old Ebonyi State lady, Chinaza Nwaezere, battling goitre (thyroid enlargement) decided to go into sex work to raise the money for her surgery after two failed businesses in Enugu State. She tells GODFREY GEORGE how life has been for her caring for her sick father and six younger siblings with the proceeds from the ‘business’ and why she wants to quit

Where are you from?

My name is Chinaza Nwaezere. I am 26 years old. I am from Abakiliki Local Government Area in Ebonyi State.

Did you go to school?

No, I did not finish secondary school. In fact, I stopped in JSS 1. I could not further my education because it was the period my mother died, and she was the breadwinner of the family.

What year was this?

This was in 2014.

Where is your dad?

My dad is alive, but my mother was the one taking care of the family.

How has life been since your mother’s passing?

Hmm… Life has been hard since she passed, especially as my dad is not really doing his work as a father. Everything is left for me and my siblings to hustle to make ends meet. We are just trying to survive.
When you said your father is not doing enough as a father, what did you mean?

My father is not capable of taking care of us.

Is he sick?

Yes, he is sick. He has been sick for many years, long before my mother’s demise. He has a heart condition, and because of that, he doesn’t do any hard work. He is just always at home because the doctors were very clear when they told him that he must avoid anything that would be classified as hard work. So, it has been me and my siblings struggling for the family.

We came together and gathered some money and opened a foodstuff business for him. That is what he does in Enugu. Although the business is very small and barely makes any profit, at least, my father can come out, interact with people, and make some sales so he will not just be lonely at home. He has been doing this business for a few years.

How many siblings do you have?

We are eight children. I am the second child. I have seven other siblings. Our last child should be around 11 years or so and he is still in school.

You mentioned you have an elder sister; where is she?

She is in Enugu. She is married with kids. She is a fashion designer. The burden of taking care of the family falls squarely on both our shoulders. My dad particularly relies on me so much and I have to do anything I have to do to provide, and all this was part of the reason I started sex work. My dad believed that, even if my siblings would not be able to give him any money for upkeep, I should be able to give him. We are really close.

How have you been able to live up to this responsibility?

Hmmm… It has not been easy. I was into food business. I sold food by the roadside in Enugu, but the business was not going as planned. It was not yielding much profit because the weight of the entire family was on it. It was from that business I took care of seven of my siblings and my father as well. The business collapsed before it even started. I also tried to do baking but it was not profitable to me. The money I was getting was not enough to take care of myself and my family.

It was around that period of my confusion that I was introduced to the ‘hustle’. I started hustling.

What do you mean by ‘hustling’?

I started hookup (sex work) in Enugu but had to relocate to Asaba, Delta State. I didn’t work for up to one week before I relocated to Asaba.

Why?

It was someone who told me to move to Asaba. She said the business there would be more profitable than Enugu. I also wasn’t feeling okay there, because that is where my family is based. I was staying with my dad and had to lie to him every night and I didn’t like it. I had to just decide to either stop it and return to poverty or move to Asaba and make some money.

I had to lie to my dad that I had a job in Asaba. He was so happy. He told me to kneel and he prayed for me before I left. He doesn’t really know what I am doing there.

What year exactly did you move to Asaba?

I moved in January 2024. I have only been in Asaba for four months.

How much have you made in four months?

The thing is that it is not every day I normally go out for this kind of stuff. There is also an issue of police clampdown. They are everywhere here, disturbing us. I had to stop for a while because of the police palaver. They are really disturbing girls here. I was squatting with a friend of mine here but she drove me out of the house, saying that she couldn’t accommodate me if I was not bringing money into the house for some basic things. I became homeless for a while before I got to the place where I am squatting now. I pay N11,000 here every week.

In a month, I may hustle for just two weeks. The money that I get, I will try to save. The money that they are paying me here is not even big.

How much do you charge for your services?

I can tell a man that a night with me is N30,000. They will beat it down to around N10,000. If it is okay by me, I will go with the man.

What is the highest that you have been paid in a night?

The highest? I don’t know. If it is someone that I have looked at from afar and weighed his pocket, I can demand N50,000 or N40,000, and they may beat it down to N30,000 which is my regular charge. But, it is not that simple.

At what point did you notice that you had goitre?

It started developing in my body in 2022. I just woke up and noticed I had a swelling. I thought it was just neck pain or sore throat. I went to a pharmacy and got medication for a case of sore throat. But, it kept growing bigger. I carried it for the entire year and even into 2023. It was in 2023 that the pain became unbearable as the swelling got really bigger. It has been weighing me down. This is the major thing that made me say I must take it out.

https://punchng.com/i-still-want-godly-husband-despite-my-past-26-year-old-sex-worker/?amp
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Solofresh2: 6:57am On Apr 28
Your papa
Ndi ala angry

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Ibaaboy(m): 7:19am On Apr 28
public toilet wants godly husband
notin musa no go see 4 gate

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Creamypie(m): 9:53am On Apr 28
Get well. Secondlyt,Ur pix so the godly man can see you
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by YorubaForum: 10:45am On Apr 28
Nonsense propaganda at its peak, that girl in question is a yoruba girl, go and read the full story not from the poster's link though.

Agbado madness is horrible.

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by PulaPower: 11:25am On Apr 28
Chinaza Nwaezere, one chukuemeka is coming for you..

Don’t worry..
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by ValCon888: 11:40am On Apr 28
She will still get her wish. A stupid simp that doesn’t deserve to be born will still marry her.
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by ValCon888: 11:40am On Apr 28
She will still get her wish. A stupid simp will still marry her.
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by YorubaForum: 12:17pm On Apr 28
Adamjc:


Is this one below too propaganda? Is the name chisom, a Yoruba name?




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=em0ztzwHRaI
Nonsense, why not bring up stories about yoruba girls selling their dirty kpekus for a plate agbado and cassava.

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Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Lalami3232(m): 12:21pm On Apr 28
There's a parable that says "Ashawo wey wan go marry, na holiday she dey go" grin. Funny enough, one man will marry her and say "I don't care if you slept with my wife before, her past is her past ". Come to think of it sef, how those of una wey marry non-virgins aka boreholes dey cope? Do you know the number of dicks and sperms wey dem deposit for your wife body before you later privatized her kpekus? What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide.

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Coolsat(m): 12:22pm On Apr 28
A simp and captain save a hoe is on his way
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:40pm On Apr 28
sista, as much as your story touches the heart, i am sure you will find help to cure your illness... as for you looking to get married, in your line of work, women like you dont look for husbands, they look for CUSTOMERS... men should continue sample you as you are soiled goods.
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by ChildOfDoom: 4:46pm On Apr 28
Dey play

Na overused pweek like me you go see
Re: I Still Want Godly Husband Despite My Past – 26-year-old Sex Worker by Obasempire(m): 5:37pm On Apr 28

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