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Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 1:10pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
Love ¡s a beaut¡ful th¡ng |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 1:11pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 1:13pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
A woman must learn to distinguish between a man that flatters her, and a man that (genuinely) compliments her. A man that spends money on her, and a man who invests in her. A man who treats her like property, and a man who treats her properly. A man who lusts after her, and a man who loves her. A man who thinks he's God's gift to women, and a man who remembers that woman was God's gift to man... |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by Qsscruz(m): 1:38pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by santos876(m): 2:03pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
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Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:32am On Dec 02, 2014 |
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Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:34am On Dec 02, 2014 |
If you're giving your all and your all isn't enough, you're giving it to the wrong person... |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:34am On Dec 02, 2014 |
People will love you and adore you for hundreds of good things you've done to them, but will hate you for a single mistake... |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:36am On Dec 02, 2014 |
BEST STORY THAT WILL MAKE YOU CRY One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview. The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no". " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied. " Where did your mother work?" "My mother worked as clothes cleaner.” The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect. " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me. The director said, "I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning. The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son. The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it. This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future. After cleaning his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the director's office. The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when he asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?" The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes' “I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, I would not be who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own. And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one’s family. The director said, "This is what I am looking for in a manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.” “You are hired.” This young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and worked as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously. A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop an "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, they may be successful for a while, but eventually they would not feel a sense of achievement. They will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead? You can let your child live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your child learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done. Try to forward this story to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate. Feel free to Tag , Like , and Share this post |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 4:34pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
To love another person almost MORE than the VALUE you place upon yourself is something WORTHY of note, to be taking well into the record books.. . From the word "unconditional" literally its WITHOUT a condition, that is, you didn't tie ya love on the basis that she is beautiful, he is handsome, she has a nice curve, big boobs, bang_able, Hairy Johnny and so on.. . You are not loving ya partner coz of whatever they give or you get from them, a kind of love that flows FREELY and PURELY.. . All you know is that you love FAR ABOVE all that, if they are present or not you still do love them, likewise the ladies, its good to love ya man far above the strength of his pocket, be Supportive.. . Encouraging.. . Available.. . Don't allow ya love to be based ONLY on material possession or any other thing coz when that particular thing will be no longer there, I wonder what will happen to ya professed love.. . |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 4:38pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Being strong is to love someone in silent, to radiate happiness when we are unhappy, to forgive someone who does not deserve forgiveness, to stay calm in moments of despair, to show joy when we don't feel it, to smile when you want to cry, to make someone happy when our own heart is broken, to be silent when we feel like screaming our anguish, to comfort when we need to be comforted, to have faith when sometimes we no longer believe. |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 5:47am On Dec 10, 2014 |
WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE, MUST READ!!! There was a man who loved his wife very much. The couple had 3 children. He could give her everything he could but the woman never appreciated. Though the man was not rich, but he could share all he had with her. He could buy for her clothes and the only thing his wife could say was that the husband was fulfilling his duty as a Man. The man would buy a dress but in reply, the woman would mock at him, because the dress was of low quality. The man could smile at his wife and tell her "one day, I will become rich and I will buy for you all the expensive things you need" The woman could never make any phone call unless she was requesting anything from her husband and once her request was not granted, all she could do was to quarrel for days, sometimes fight. One evening, the man was coming from work, he bought a Kilogram of meat, happily the poor man expecting to suprise his wife, he reached home found the wife and showed her the package, Then she shouted: "eh! And you call yourself a man? Which husband, apart from you, do you think comes home with just one kilograme, no cooking oil, no anyother ingredients? You better leave it, ur a good-for-nothin g husband." Then she threw the meat to the bush and went back home. The Husband felt low but he never let down his love for her. One day, the husband felt pain in his left foot, then a Tumour appeared on the foot, it then emerged growing big and more painful. He went to the hospital after several months of pain and was found with cancer, he was poor to have a better medical care. Though he was sick he tried much as he could to provide for his family. Two years later the condition worsened and he was put in the special care unit, he was operated and the foot was removed, but unfortunately it was too late, the Virus had affected more parts of the body and at last he called his wife and told him, "LOOK AFTER MY CHILDREN, i feel i can't live any longer though i'll always be with you in spirit, may God be with you" He then breathed his last and died. The woman, and three children cried, for days mourning, they buried him. Two months later, the wife was bowing down on her husbands grave as she said these words: "My love, you did all the best to me, you treated me well and gave me all you could, but all i could pay you, was endless quarrels and fights. I never realised your importance and your love until when you are gone, when am the one to provide food, clothing, education and many others. I remember when i threw your one Kilogram of meat to the bush, but now i have nowhere to get even a Half a Kilo 'THE GOOD DIE YOUNG' thats why you died when you were still young. A husband whom i could mock at but you only smiled at me. The husband who could care and had unending love. I know you are listening to me and i ask you to forgive me for not appreciating all ynu did to me, when you were alive. We are all missing your presence as your youngest daughter Diana is always crying asking when you'll be back. But you will never leave our hearts until we Join you. May you Rest in Eternal Peace." MORAL LESSON: * Always appreciate what you are given, whether small or big. * Love is not all about how much we have, but its all about how we share the little we have. RELEVANCY. Have you ever taken time to thank God for what he has done for you? Many people only remember God when they have problems and once their problems are solved, they don't take time, to thank him or remain close to him. *READ THIS LINE* O God, i pray that you keep your providence towards me always and give me an appreciating heart so that i'll always be thankful to whatever you give me AMEN. If you have read the line, click LIKE and write AMEN to claim it |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 5:49am On Dec 10, 2014 |
Shakespeare said, "A Boy & a Girl can never be Friends forever." Lincoln said, "Friendship is the starting step for what we call Love." Words worth said, "Proposing a Boy or a Girl for Frndship is nothing but indirectly saying, I LOVE U." Jackie Chan said, "Love is an everlasting Friendship." Michael Jackson said, "If one can becom ur Best Friend, then He or She can easily become ur Life Partner! Hit LIKE if u agree to one of them!!and who explains it better? |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:55pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
There are many broken hearts around the world and I have found many here. My advice is for you to pick up the pieces of your heart left lying all around and get yourself together and move on. This is what I have done, I have to or I will waiting for nothing forever. As they say there are plenty of fish in the sea and about 6 billion people (I think) so there are plenty of men and women. God will lead you in the right direction and help peace and love come to your heart. And if you are an honest person then it is the other person who has made the biggest mistake and lost so much. What you have gained is the knowledge that you are probably more than better of without the other person - time to move on and get on with your life. Share you love with all you know and have a great times doing it. Socialize with tenderness and always work at improving the gentle side of you and the person who loves you will fall into your arms gently and you will finally know what love is all about (my dream, as I have not found it yet). I love women and have the deepest respect for them. I deeply believe in being a good honest gentleman and suggest that all single families and males work at being the best person that you can be and God will give you a good decent person to share the rest of your life with - just be sure that you want a long-term loving relationship and God will back you up. Also realise that if you need some changes first God will work alongside you at changing them as well. Let us all keep our faith in God, in His love and in love itself and do please always believe that God will bring true love to you. |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:57pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LOVE is Never Noisy, Obvious, or Demanding. It Is The GENTLE WHISPER of The HEART, The SOFT LULLABY of The SOUL. CULTIVATE The GARDEN of YOUR HEART and WATCH LOVE BLOOM. |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:51pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
If you are strong enough to love some one with all your heart then be strong enough to express your love too. |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:53pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Look closely; sometimes the people we search for in the outside world are in fact very near and dear to us. It just takes a keen eye to see them and value them. |
Re: Love ¡s A Beaut¡ful Th¡ng.... by solomonnyong81(m): 9:54pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Words of a Broken Heart. ” Love is a feeling that can be seen in one’s eye. Love is the sight of the sunset & the sunrise. Love is the joy that makes people smile. Love is the pain that makes people cry. “ I was once in love with a person whom I thought I have to spend the rest of my life with. Our relationship lasted for more or less 3 years. I never thought that we end up falling apart and grow distant and cold to each other. I thought were meant to be after all we’ve been through the good & bad times. The promises of love. The dreams we shared & build. But it suddenly came to an end. The memories keep lingering on my mind but how I wish I could delete & forget them at once. That was my first heartbreak. It was painful and it hurts like hell. I feel like my heart suddenly grow numb. I feel unloved and ignored. I tried to fixed our relationship but he refused. He gave up that easily. After a year of living in misery. I suddenly realized: Why should I cry for someone who doesn’t deserved my tears? There is no use on holding to someone who has been hurting me. I still have my family & friends to be there with me. I promised myself that I should learn how to move on. I have to accept the reality that he left me & he may have never truly loved me. Because if he did, he wouldn’t leave for that simple misunderstandin g between us. You can call me old- fashioned but I do believe that making love is only shared by a married couple. There’s one thing I have learned from him though. He made me realized that when loving someone, we should see to it if they are sincere enough for their love and we should never give our all because if they leave, atleast there is something left for us. Our self-respect and self-worth. So when loving someone, we should never stick to only what our heart feels. Sometimes our brain is a necessity. Let us not use our eyes to cry for the one who fooled us & those who treat us bad. Instead let’s use our eyes to search for the right one. Let’s love the one who will fight for us & bravely face each obstacles & every consequence. The one who have trust & patience in everything. We should not love the one who only love us when the conditions are right for them. We should never love someone who just treats you as an option. Let us not overuse our heart trying to love the one who never appreciates our efforts. We should save the best part of us for the person who deserve us & deserve to be love by us. When I tried to look back at my past it still hurts. I know there were many things I regret- words had gone unsaid, start that has bitter endings, chances thrown away, roads I have never taken, signs I did not see, hearts that was hurt needlessly & wounds that I hope it would mend. But life get that much harder. The past can’t be rewritten but it made me stronger. I’m thankful for every change life has thrown me, for every break in my heart and it may left a scar. Some pages turned, some were burned but I have lessons learned. If its love that breaks us, its love that make us whole again. Let’s be wise to make choices in order for us to be happy. Lastly, always trust in God in whatever he gives us. He knows what’s the best for us. |
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