In your opinion(s),are lifepartners made or born?
Made in this sense-do we pick someone we are interested in and that is interested in us,court them and live life with them,training eachother to live happily and find jor and peace together?
Or,are they born?is there a higher authority or power that has already assigned our lifepartners to us?and all we need to do is pray,find them and everything will be perfect?

That word "mate" though. Makes me feel like an animal.

To the average Nigerian woman, every man who can conveniently spoil her with gifts and drive her around in his factory-fitted AC SUV, is a 'potential' life-partner.

Ain't no such thing as higher authority or power that assigns whom we spend the rest of our lives with.

Uhmmmm

TheRealCoolHunK:
That word "mate" though. Makes me feel like an animal.

I'm sure you can find better words to substitute 'mate' , like partner.

MissTutu:
is there a higher authority or power that has already assigned our lifepartners to us?and all we need to do is pray,find them and everything will be perfect?

higher authority depends on who you consider as determining your personal preferences (religious leaders, etc), eg if you prefer to be match made or things like that.

nothing necessarily wrong with it provided you are not snatching somebody's man or wishing evil in order to get a man.

that's witchcraft.

May God help us (His people)

@ crackhaus,datd for an average nigerian woman,wat's ur take on the reasonable above average nigerian woman??thnxx

@tpia1000..okae,so we cn say lifepartners ar born?i wont b snatchn him if he's rili d bone of my bone..abi?

Bluepearls,tanchu.

TheRealCoolHunk,ive removed d word mate.bless ya

No dear, there's no such thing as being 'born or made life partners'. Partners make mistakes and aren't near perfect too. No readymade brangelina. You make it happen.

Your LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. No miracles. It's all in your hands. Simples

MissTutu:
In your opinion(s),are lifepartners made or born?
Made in this sense-do we pick someone we are interested in and that is interested in us,court them and live life with them,training eachother to live happily and find jor and peace together?
Or,are they born?is there a higher authority or power that has already assigned our lifepartners to us?and all we need to do is pray,find them and everything will be perfect?

What you are given is choice. You choose who you want to be with. What everyone should seek is wisdom and discernment in making a good choice for life partner. It is not a decision you make in a rush or in the heat of passion.

1. Life partners are both made and born, however, this is dependent on point 2 below.

2. There is a higher power that influences this matter of life partners, it's called value. For men, a woman of value, basically, is one who can mother them, and whatever children they may have. For women basically, value is gauged by the ability or potential of the man to guarantee comfort and material safety.

When these criteria are met or appear to be met, life partners are made and/or born.

MissTutu:
@ crackhaus,datd for an average nigerian woman,wat's ur take on the reasonable above average nigerian woman??thnxx

@tpia1000..okae,so we cn say lifepartners ar born?i wont b snatchn him if he's rili d bone of my bone..abi?

Bluepearls,tanchu.

TheRealCoolHunk,ive removed d word mate.bless ya

Please ma, try to type in proper English, don't tell me your service provider charges you per character.

So there is no issue of if i can't find the ONE originally CREATED to be my husband i won't make it maritally?
Okay sire,noted.(timbuktou)

You make your own destiny by your choices. No one was created specially for you.

MissTutu:
So there is no issue of if i can't find the ONE originally CREATED to be my husband i won't make it maritally?
Okay sire,noted.(timbuktou)

Nah, no such thing as pre-destined partner. Look around and pick the man who you think best suits your tastes and preferences whose needs you also have no problem fulfilling.

jmoore:
You make your own destiny by your choices. No one was created specially for you.

Gbam !

Just same way. Were some people created to be rich ? NO.

You create your dreams and pursue them to materialize .

Ookay.......

crackhaus:
To the average Nigerian woman, every man who can conveniently spoil her with gifts and drive her around in his factory-fitted AC SUV, is a 'potential' life-partner.

Ain't no such thing as higher authority or power that assigns whom we spend the rest of our lives with.

Thank God for the bolded.

VickyyB:

Thank God for the bolded.

I'm having an epiphany right now, more like a divine manifestation from the almighty - a vision wherein I see you thinking yourself as not belonging to the group of average Nigerian girls.