Reality Check. Robbers enter a house, askes for all the money and valuables.After they collect what they can, they gave the man of the house a gun with instructions to shoot his wife or else he be shot himself. The man gets the gun, points it at his wife and hesitates...He is thinking of what he has gone through in life with his wife and how she has suffered and sacrificed for him...He hands bac the gun and says, I am sorry, "I can't do this..."The boss of the robbers silently grabs the gun from him and passes it on to the wife with the same instruction.The wife gets the gun and without any single hesitation points to her husband's head and pulls thetrigger...But alas, the gun had no bullets in it...The robbers get their gun and walk out of the house laughing...
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
1. If you were the man in that house how would you react towards your wife?
2. If you were the wife, what explanation can you give to your husband!
3. If you were invited to bring peace between this couple, what advise would you give?

what a conundrum. But make I attempt am. I will take the position of the husband.

She pulled the trigger without any hesitation, in a bid to murder me. Her action has already spoken far more than anything she would say after that. The marriage will end there surely.