i have known this guy for about 6 years now , we leave together he has cheated on me alot of times say like 4 yrs ,,,he also thinks i have done the same , i am ready to move on now cos i now have the courage to but he says he still wants me , but really its hard to let go and i am fed up , should i give him the one more try or just move on with my life

The ultimate answer lies within u. u said he thinks u cheated on him but u didnt say if u actually did

whitelexi:

The ultimate answer lies within u.

Word.

i wouldn't say i did i was trying to move on with someone else  , and everytime i did he came back begging

but all of a sudden now i just don,t think hes right for me

has he turned a new leaf.if yes and u know u truly love him there is no harm in one more chance.

I think u shd up n' leave.
Admit it u're emotionally thru with ds guy.
 Plan B:Take some time out to really analyse d whole thin without d guy in ur face.
            Y'know what I mean.

harvey, i met you in the last post huh, i have given him a million chance , thisi show it goes , he doesnt take me out , he spends most time with his friends , i dont think he really cares its just the lenght of ime we have been together that is holding us

@bolarge, u almost hit the nail right on the head , i am still emotional towards him but sexually ,zero

I dont think he loves u.he is a selfish guy.wanting ladies attention but not giving his.let him be.erase whatever feelings u have for this guy.any guy who dont carewell enough forr a lady to spend time with her and prefer spending more time with his friends is not worth the stress.cos he is trying to tell u that hanging out with u is boring.so u too tell him u not spending time with me is boring.so i guess we are not meant to be.