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Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:37pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
I promise this is going to make an interesting read- Don't skip or Scroll. The 3 Simple Reasons Why Girls Friendzone You. You will agree with me that getting 'friendzoned' is the most painful thing when it comes to male-female social dynamics. The funny thing is, most guys don't even know when they are in the friendzone. But What does it mean to get friendzoned? In literal terms, to get friendzoned by a girl is to be considered as just a friend, with no hope of intimacy; or to be considered as a big brother, the one who provides her basic needs and gives her advice. Once you are in the dark abyss of friendzone, your chances of ever seeing the light of day is slim. It's even better for you to be dumped as a boyfriend ( yea, guys do get dumped too!) than for you to be lost in the friendzone with no hope of rescue. This article aims to bring to the foreground of your mind the three basic reasons why girls always see you as a big brother; or to put it more succinctly, a 'MAGA'. 10 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:45pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
1. You Are Mr. Too-Nice.
Sounds familiar? Are you like Emeka when it comes to dating? You are very nice. In fact, you get compliments from girls about how nice you are nice to a fault. But sadly, this is reality - not Hollywood, where the nice, shy, and feeble-minded protagonist finishes first. Not to sound misogynistic or crude, giving favours to girls who dont deserve it will only backfire in the long run. It will not only kill your game; it will also make you look cheap. DON'T BE LIKE EMEKA!!! Before you can start playing nice to a girl, and saying yes to her to her requests, you need a certain level of investment from her-which brings us to the next point 100 Likes 16 Shares
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:58pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
2. You Are More Invested Than She Is.
Sounds familiar? Everything you do to make a relationship or social interaction move forward is termed "Investment". You sow a seed of investment when you do any of the following: call her, text her, send cash, start chats, and so on. When you do these things too much, you become predictable, like Kunle. You need to give your target an opportunity to miss you, so she can replay your investments. Giving her too much attention will never achieve that. And dont forget, sex is the greatest investment. The person who invests more is the one who is more attracted, and sadly, the one who feels more pain after a breakup. Conversely, the person who invests less is the one who does less work, and the one who controls the convo. Rita never felt anything for Kunle. He was too obsequious and predictable. He gave her too much attention. She only kept him around because of his magnanimity. DON'T BE LIKE KUNLE 135 Likes 16 Shares
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Cholls(m): 6:59pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:05pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Cholls: Do I look like your Economics Teacher? 1119 Likes 93 Shares
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Cholls(m): 7:08pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:11pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
3.You Don't Act Like A Boyfriend Material
Sounds familiar? When you dont show the tendencies of being a boyfriend, girls will automatically friendzone you- I dont care whether you look like Brad Pitt. If you are cool and well groomed, you dont need permission to do somethings. You dont have to be good looking, just be looking good. Can you call her nicknames like Sexy, Baby, Boo, BabyPie without fear? Without thinking or caring about what she would think? When you meet her, do you go for hugs or handshake? Side hugs or face-face hugs? You can get easily friendzoned, just like Richard, when you dont act like a boyfriend from the outset. Think about it. You don't need permission to date or attract a girl. Nothing concerns you with her boyfriend or past relationships. Your only care, from the first few minutes of approach, is to act like a boyfriend. You want her to be your girl, right? Have you ever asked yourself: "Am I acting like a boyfriend?" or "Do I have the qualities of a boyfriend? Moreover, when you keep begging a girl to date you, asking her out without end- even after she has told you a blatant no already- you risk total rejection. Beautiful girls don't fancy desperate guys. If you are the desperate type, you are already on the steep highway leading to friendzone. Play your own game and keep the attraction button pressed. With enough attraction and acting like a boyfriend from day one, she may open up about her boyfriend and she might not. If she does, no worries, just continue your game. Dont back out. If she doesn't bring her relationship status up, good for you. In any case, you must keep advancing like a soldier on a mission. Some girls might want to have fun with you, but you asking: " Do you have a boyfriend", automatically kills all the attraction. You begin to make her rationalize her attraction for you, and she might even end up telling you a yes- even if she doesnt have a boyfriend. Play your game tight. DONT BE LIKE RICHARD! The process of getting locked in the friendzone is not rocket science. Women dont friendzone you without legit reasons. You must have either been too nice and invested too much, or failed to show you have boyfriend potential. Correct these three mistakes, and you will be amazed at how many girlfriends you will have to deal with. Cheers. Till we meet again. I remain xxxteddyxxx. Written by XXXteddyXXX aka Kelvin AsapTeddy fb page: fb.com/sexynaijaa Whatsapp 09022012388 Aprokozone@gmail.com 304 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:38pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
lalasticlala you need to see this. Cc; Seun 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:38pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
lalasticlala you need to see this. Cc: seun |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:46pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
why are you disturbing the mods with this your novel 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Collins4u1(m): 8:17pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
I like this.. 6 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:26pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sekxy:Hold this "K" for me. 106 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by massive1019(m): 8:27pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
hmmmmmm.....nah true op talk oooo 84 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:35pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
massive1019: Yea, go ahead. boss 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by brandydaniells(m): 8:36pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
i love this ...d last one tho ...am guilty ...FTC 16 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 8:37pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Collins4u1: thanks 1 Like |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Georgekyrian(m): 9:13pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by lenghtinny(m): 10:15pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Ochima75(m): 11:08pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: Hmmmm so wat do u do? When u gv opportunity 4her to invest bak nd u she doesn't?lts say i call once in 3days to check on her or tlk to her nd after a wk of u not calling she didn't stl call? Wts d way 4wd sir 5 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by banjicom(m): 11:13pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx: thumbs up bro, I can relate to every point in d above write up. I hope guys will learn from dis and start working on themselves instead of trying to please a lady in d name of love/relationship 14 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by gentlegenius(m): 11:51pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
I think I'm somehow guilty of No. 2. I invested more than her in the relationship. I tried a lot more than her to make our relationship move forward. But I think she is not keeping me in the friend zone. As a matter of fact, she loves me and had feelings for me. I haven't slept with her because she is still a teenager and a virgin for that matter. But many times, we have engaged ourselves in deep romance. The problem is that sometimes she avoids me for no reason. I have been acting like a boyfriend but sometimes she doesn't act like my girlfriend. She hasn't invested anything to move the relationship forward even when she knows I've invested a lot. This makes me worry whether she really loves me or she is putting me in the friend zone. I'm really confused about what to do. Since she's still young, naive and inexperienced, Should I stop investing in the relationship and risk losing her or should I continue investing and risk being in her friend zone? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by massive1019(m): 12:04am On Aug 07, 2017 |
stop buying her things and see what her reaction will be. 8 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:31am On Aug 07, 2017 |
gentlegenius: Don't stop. Just reduce your rate of investment. Take 1 step forward, and 2 steps backward. She is still a novice, so don't judge her yet. She might not have the means, let's say financially, to really invest and move the convo. However, as far as she is giving you her time, and attention, you don't need to consider quitting. keep it going strong. Cheers. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:34am On Aug 07, 2017 |
banjicom: You couldn't have said it better. Thanks 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by youngin(m): 12:46am On Aug 07, 2017 |
And lastly..... Don't be a bastard and break the bro code..... Never disgrace a bro to get out of the friend zone 48 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by nelsonebby(m): 1:04am On Aug 07, 2017 |
gentlegenius:if i may ask how old are you ? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by Nobody: 1:39am On Aug 07, 2017 |
Is it a must to be intimate with all your female friends? I have girls that I hold close to heart, I don't even think of going past my boundaries I don't know the slagg who brought this friendzone talk 54 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by teejaypee: 1:44am On Aug 07, 2017 |
The fp hustle 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by femimike1(m): 2:46am On Aug 07, 2017 |
Mr xxxtedyxxx on the beat kudos bro . I'm one of a huge fan of your thread , thanks for your endless support and life saving tips . More ink to your pen . Looking forward for more .. Thanks for sharing your WhatsApp contact too, I'll send you a PM soon . 7 Likes |
Re: Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. by savagefinder: 5:39am On Aug 07, 2017 |
xxxtedyxxx:Issa savage tho 36 Likes 1 Share |
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