Months ago I cheated on my gf, it was really tough on her. But we overcame it. Fast forward she's cheating on me right now and it seems my world is falling apart. I had asked her to choose between me and the guy. She always assures me she loves me and can never leave me but she has been with the other guy(who has money than me) for some days now. I'm confused. Please what should I do?

LMAO! I don't know why am laughing shaa but guy move on if you go hear! OGA GO FRONT!

Do nothing. Let her enjoy herself. Na only you sabi enjoy?

Tell her to continue cheating that you don't mind, she will come back, then you lock her pussy when she comes

Kj66:
Months ago I cheated on my gf, it was really tough on her. But we overcame it. Fast forward she's cheating on me right now and it seems my world is falling apart. I had asked her to choose between me and the guy. She always assures me she loves me and can never leave me but she has been with the other guy(who has money than me by far) for some days now. I'm confused. Please what should I do?

She is paying you back in your own coins .

I wonder why you're making a fuss about it .

Bro
You too go and hustle
If you have money
She won't Cheat on you..

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Go and have more money than the guy na.

Perhaps you were confused at first. So you came here to ask for help. After typing your predicament, you couldn't come up with an advice for yourself? Cause this your case doesn't even need one. I believe alot in initiative. All i need to do i write down my problem and by reading it, get a solution.
Nothing complicated here, okay.
Dump her cheating ass. You both overcame the past. The fact that she's sleeping with someone else whether for his money or not, acknowledging you of it, and isn't ready to stop is bullsh!t

Blu03:
Perhaps you were confused at first. So you came here to ask for help. After typing your predicament, you couldn't come up with an advice for yourself? Cause this your case doesn't even need one. I believe alot in initiative. All i need to do i write down my problem and by reading it, get a solution.
Nothing complicated here, okay.
Dump her cheating ass. You both overcame the past. The fact that she's sleeping with someone else whether for his money or not, acknowledging you of it, and isn't ready to stop is bullsh!t

Did you read the part where he cheated too ?

Riele:


Did you read the part where he cheated too ?

yes. I broke up with my first bf cos i can't tolerate cheating. Till today, he keeps trying to win me over.
If the girlfriend agreed to still stay by him then she should keep his sin where it belongs; in the past.
The road for her to move on is broad. Never stoop low to retaliate

What you should do is cut your balls off because you obviously don't need them.

Blu03:
yes. I broke up with my first bf cos i can't tolerate cheating. Till today, he keeps trying to win me over.
If the girlfriend agreed to still stay by him then she should keep his sin where it belongs; in the past.
The road for her to move on is broad. Never stoop low to retaliate

I don't think she cheated just to retaliate .

He shouldn't dump her " Cheating Ass " like you said .

Since she claims to still love him and seeks forgiveness . What's there not to forgive .

After all , she was able to forgive his unfaithfulness .

How old are you both?
Very necessary question nobody is asking.

makydebbie:
How old are you both?
Very necessary question nobody is asking.

Okay . Let's say I'm derailing the thread .

But I totally admire you

5k, and I'll advise you on what to do!

having money doesnt guarantee a woman's loyalty

Froshloaded:
Bro You too go and hustle If you have money She won't Cheat on you..

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MJBOLT:

having money doesnt guarantee a woman's loyalty

Except the lady is not a Nigerian...
But we have some decent girls tho

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makydebbie:
How old are you both?
Very necessary question nobody is asking.

Which one is you?
@ your profile pic

Riele:




Okay . Let's say I'm derailing the thread .

But I totally admire you

Awwn thank you babe.

Froshloaded:

Which one is you?
@ your profile pic

Who you want me to be among the girls.

makydebbie:


Who you want me to be among the girls.

The second one, wearing wine gown

Auntyesther:
LMAO! I don't know why am laughing shaa but guy move on if you go hear! OGA GO FRONT!

Probably experience

Froshloaded:

The second one, wearing wine gown

That's me.

makydebbie:

That's me.

Aww.
Okay

Kj66:
Months ago I cheated on my gf, it was really tough on her. But we overcame it. Fast forward she's cheating on me right now and it seems my world is falling apart. I had asked her to choose between me and the guy. She always assures me she loves me and can never leave me but she has been with the other guy(who has money than me by far) for some days now. I'm confused. Please what should I do?

I appreciate the feedbacks and thankful. But it's a bit complicated than that. Let me briefly expatiate. Foremostly. She is someone who isn't emotional expressive (can bear pains pretty silently) while I'm quite emotionally expressive.
We've dated for over 2years, and I've always loved her. Herein the complication. Last year I met this wonderful soul at my workplace, she was a colleague and we connected almost immediately like we've known for years. We were great friends, then lovers and we dated for about 7months whilst I was still in this relationship. What led me on was the fascinating way the new girl showed me love and she practically lived it out-it was telling in her life(she was overly expressive). But I loved my gf more and had to quit the relationship.
But I knew what my gf endured. For those 7months, the last 4months she was fully aware of the relationship. It was so bad that I tried breaking up with my gf on multiple occasions but I knew how hard she fought back. On one night I told her the other girl was carrying my child and I love her- she cried and told me she'll stand by me if I promise to stick with her. I kept on playing nonchalance till the falsity of the pregnancy was revealed and everything ended.
On 2 occassions she has met this other girl one on one, it was the last encounter that I finally called it quit.

Eversince our relationship has been sweet until this recent episode. Yes I know I should move on but I'm a bit confused cos I knew how she fought for me and its weighing on my decision at present. Cos I knew I really loved her when I cheated on her. Don't know if that's a possibility: loving someone and cheating on them.

fvck her Pussy while it last, you might not have assess to that Pussy in few weeks time

nwokolokingsley:
5k, and I'll advise you on what to do!

lol

Your cheating was manly and her cheating is womanly, go figure out the difference and consider your chances before taking a decision.
Let me give you a little tip. A man cheats with only his dick but a woman cheats with both her vagina and her heart.

Next time, I'll require a service fee for advice.

Riele:




I don't think she cheated just to retaliate .

He shouldn't dump her " Cheating Ass " like you said .

Since she claims to still love him and seeks forgiveness . What's there not to forgive .

After all , she was able to forgive his unfaithfulness .

Exactly.

Kj66:

I appreciate the feedbacks and thankful. But it's a bit complicated than that. Let me briefly expatiate. Foremostly. She is someone who isn't emotional expressive (can bear pains pretty silently) while I'm quite emotionally expressive.
We've dated for over 2years, and I've always loved her. Herein the complication. Last year I met this wonderful soul at my workplace, she was a colleague and we connected almost immediately like we've known for years. We were great friends, then lovers and we dated for about 7months whilst I was still in this relationship. What led me on was the fascinating way the new girl showed me love and she practically lived it out-it was telling in her life(she was overly expressive). But I loved my gf more and had to quit the relationship.
But I knew what my gf endured. For those 7months, the last 4months she was fully aware of the relationship. It was so bad that I tried breaking up with my gf on multiple occasions but I knew how hard she fought back. On one night I told her the other girl was carrying my child and I love her- she cried and told me she'll stand by me if I promise to stick with her. I kept on playing nonchalance till the falsity of the pregnancy was revealed and everything ended.
On 2 occassions she has met this other girl one on one, it was the last encounter that I finally called it quit.

Eversince our relationship has been sweet until this recent episode. Yes I know I should move on but I'm a bit confused cos I knew how she fought for me and its weighing on my decision at present. Cos I knew I really loved her when I cheated on her. Don't know if that's a possibility: loving someone and cheating on them.

Two of you are in a codependent relationship. That's toxic. Most likely she doesn't see you as attractive anymore, but cannot do without you. That's why I think she is cheating. I think you should fight for her and stand by her. Don't dump her. She'll come out off it, the way you also did. Be her true friend in need and lover. Continue to pray for her too. Keep on being faithful and hang on.

Yes I think she loves you and can cheat on you too. Humans are like that.

Why should you think of dumping her? You cheated on her and she cheated on you too. Equation is now balanced, so forgive her and you both continue the relationship.