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| Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:24am On May 07, 2021 |
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family. I grew up seeing my Mom mad. By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school. I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried. But my brother was still mad. I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital. I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there. So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will. Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal. I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again. Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be. Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused. Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday. My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house. I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this! I'm so unhappy. Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please. 66 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by DaraDesign: 7:24am On May 07, 2021 |
Jess, I don't know where to refer you to, but may the peace of the Lord be with you and your family. May you find God's healing (Amen) 523 Likes 21 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Romanoff(f): 7:33am On May 07, 2021 |
Hmmmm. It is indeed Spiritual o. Stats your location so you can quickly get help. 46 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by zeuss: 7:33am On May 07, 2021 |
The medication you give your elder brother can also b effective for your younger. God will strengthen you and give you the wisdom to achieve complete healing for them. Seek psychiatric help as you also look to God. But how long have you been living in you current location with ur family? 64 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:35am On May 07, 2021 |
DaraDesign:Amen. I really need genuine help. I believe so much that this will stop in my generation because my Mom used to tell us then even when she was mad that we will be fine. I want my brothers to be fine. 150 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:36am On May 07, 2021 |
Romanoff:Onitsha, Anambra state. Thanks for the remind. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:38am On May 07, 2021 |
zeuss:Since birth. We were born here. I don't want to go through the medication way for him, I've done that for my elder brother for years now. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Oluwasaeon(m): 7:42am On May 07, 2021 |
Sad 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by rhadiator15(m): 7:43am On May 07, 2021 |
Apostle Joshua Selman, you can book an appointment to see him. Koinonia 121 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by sofeo(m): 7:46am On May 07, 2021 |
This is becoming more of spiritual. Pastor Adetuberu can easily deliver them. 11 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:46am On May 07, 2021 |
rhadiator15:I watched him on youtube those nights that I did midnight prayer for my brother. How do I book appointment to see him? Does he have a branch in Anambra? 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by adadike(f): 7:47am On May 07, 2021 |
I can feel your pains , sorry dear, jisike I believe the problem is spiritual or a generational curse. I think there is a good herbal doctor there in Onitsha that treats such problem, I will try my possible best to get you the address You need to be strong in prayers, I will DM you as soon as I can. Jisike my dear and may God be with you 67 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:47am On May 07, 2021 |
sofeo:Where is he based? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:49am On May 07, 2021 |
adadike:Amen. I appreciate your effort. I'm waiting for your dm. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Momcherry(f): 7:50am On May 07, 2021 |
 This is a very sad situation May the healing hands of the Almighty God be upon them. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Missyajoke(f): 7:50am On May 07, 2021 |
Mrskillz1: It is a hereditary problem MA, you really need to pray that such won't happen to you or your children. Am sorry to say this what this means is that madness runs in your mums family but with prayer you can conquer it. Dooh 112 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:51am On May 07, 2021 |
Momcherry:Amen. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:52am On May 07, 2021 |
Missyajoke:I know it is. I just want solution. It won't happen to me by the grace of God. 173 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Missyajoke(f): 7:55am On May 07, 2021 |
Mrskillz1: Go to mfm prayer city forget about their die by fire go there you'll get help all this taking him to native doctor will attract something else to his life. A curse needs to be broken. 125 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by incogni2o: 7:56am On May 07, 2021 |
Sorry about your Brother's situation. It's apaulliing, you put your trust entirely on Medicines and Injections, why not pray and fast on specific days concerning the matter, call your family together, even if it is 1 hour. I understand Medicines are important but can't over emphasize you praying for him or giving him the Medicines. Im am a Medical related person . We have to stop letting the Devil cheat us by putting Science first. Another observation is that you call your Mum and Bro While I was in school, My room mate was a Schizophrenic Patient and I had no issues with him. We became Friends and discussed a lot, I miss him. Try to Love your Brother, Logically reason with the nonsense you think he is saying and calm him down, Try to talk him to understanding the importance of the Medicine. It the Stereotypes that make the most harm to them. Also be at your guard they can be dangerous if they imagine you are a threat or with the voices in thier head(Hallucinations). 74 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by spinna: 7:58am On May 07, 2021 |
Its a serious spiritual attack and or generational curse you are facing.. i suggest you find your nearest Living faith church.. you will learn the power of God over such evil and by Gods grace this curse will be lifted 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 7:59am On May 07, 2021 |
Missyajoke:Okay. Thanks. I'll go there. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by slimjohn2k5: 8:06am On May 07, 2021 |
Start looking for the source, there is a reason you have been spared. Ask your mothers people questions and ask your dad questions. If it is a course from any source like from the family you will know what to do. Forget those pastors they are hustling like you. I once had a friend always complaining of stomach pain, they went to a spiritualist that removed spiritual bullets from his body. He is fine now. I know you are a Christian but the source really matter. 24 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Righteousness2(m): 8:09am On May 07, 2021 |
Mrskillz1: That's Pathetic! The case is not medical! There is noting medical in this. This is pure wicked evil Projection on the Family. Only GOD can sort out your family! There is nothing else. Any other thing or Place will be from Frying pan to Fire.. All of you in the Family should RUN into The Lords Chosen! 12 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by joefengzy(m): 8:11am On May 07, 2021 |
This is really touching Ill suggest since you're in anambra Ill direct you to 2places but its traditional way God wont put your family to shame nne. 9 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Muyiwaipere(m): 8:13am On May 07, 2021 |
Bros face reality ...saying you want to go and meet a pastor ..honestly you’re just deceiving yourself Nobody is freeman in this world we all must fave a tribulation or the other ...now you know your problem...what helped your elder brother?medication abi...so just follow that way If you go church ...they will chop your money and you will regret the decision at the end Bros Mo miracle anywhere o I pray the peace of God that surpasses all understanding be with you (Philippians 4 versus 6) 59 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 8:17am On May 07, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5:I have asked questions. My mom became mad as she got pregnant with my younger brother. By then, my Dad said he took her to several places and was told that it was ogbanje. My mom is very beautiful and hardworking. Her family joined in the solution. She became okay after she put to bed. Then they decided not to have more kids. My mom's shop is in main market onitsha, after a few years, the madness returned and her shop was closed down. By then, we had grown a little and so everyone concentrated on us, giving us a life. I remember that my mom leaves house every morning and will trek to main market and hang around there and return by evening. This she did daily. She was not violent. She was usually by herself. Her brothers usually came to see her. My Dad took care of her grooming. Until few years back when she suddenly stopped going to market and stayed indoors for like a week. Then one night, my Dad said she called him as they were sleeping and said to him that we will be fine. Then they slept off and she didn't wake up in the morning. 129 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by joefengzy(m): 8:17am On May 07, 2021 |
[quote author=Mrskillz1 post=101453758]I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family. I grew up seeing my Mom mad. By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school. I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried. But my brother was still mad. I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital. I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there. So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will. Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal. I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again. Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be. Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused. Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday. My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house. I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this! I'm so unhappy. Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, plea Where exactly are you in anambra Ill direct you on how to go This is really not a church thinģ Either you go to amichi in anambra or agulu all in anambra May almighty God heal them I really feel your pains But i tell you its going to be well with your families. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 8:18am On May 07, 2021 |
joefengzy:Amen. I'm open to your suggestion. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by CandyOps(m): 8:20am On May 07, 2021 |
It's like you want your brothers to go COMPLETELY MAD abi?? You already have proof that medications work to an extent on your younger brother abi? Which other solution do you seek alert from what works already??! The moment you carry that man into a spiritual home is the moment his madness will go into gear 4. And deep down inside you, you already know the source of the problem. IT IS HEREDITARY! A.K.A in your blood. Hello!! You mean to say you went through school and the words 'genetics' never sunk into your head?! .... You see religion and superstition is really killing African growth. How can a fully grown university educated man seek health solutions from any other place outside a health facility?? And before u start quoting me, just know I also have a cousin who is mentally unstable and suffers from schizophrenia too. My neighbor had a burst vein in his head from High BP complications and his illiterate mom rushed him to a spiritual home where he went into coma during their spiritual razzmatazz. Before her head correct it's too late. Nigga was DOA by the time they got to the hospital. In fact, I believe any religious home that takes on the role of a healthcare provider should be sued and probably even shut down. ... Here is how the scientific process works: - You encounter a problem. - You make guesses/assumptions to what the solution could be & ask questions to the cause of the prob. - You make guesses using the answers you got. Called a hypothesis. This guess should be something testable. Meaning anyone can replicate the tests. - Make a prediction from the answers you get - Now you run some tests on that hypothesis (usually trial and errors while noting what works) - You come up with more hypothesis - You know what works to an extent (in your case, drugs) which leads you to making a clearer prediction. - you test again till you come up with a theory of how to go about such issues in future... .... Now, over the thousands of years mankind and modern humans have literally done almost all these testing for us and we only have to improve on it. But NO! Not an African man. An African man will encounter a problem and instead of following the scientific step, he will immediately say to himself, "I need to talk to God about this" or worse, "it looks spiritual. I can't do anything about it if God doesn't do anything about it" ... And just in that moment, all the creative ideas and potential discoveries that could have been made will be cut short! ..... You see, when we cry over the dangers of superstition in Africa and how it is underdeveloping us Christians and other religious folks will rather put the devil on you by calling Atheist or Apethists (people who don't care about deities) devil worshipers than see reasons with us. I mean, just imagine what an adult who passed through the 4 walls of a classroom is saying. It's deeper than just getting school knowledge and I don't blame anyone because it is a result of hundreds of years of torture and slavery by the white people who brought on this scam called religion to us (Don't mistake religion for spirituality or spiritism) Africans pls plssss stop bowing to the ducking skies and learn to use your heads The damaging effects of religion is not just found in our healthcare system. It's everywhere. Most especially in our minds. Slavery ducked us up real good. But then we keep ducking ourselves everyday by choosing to remain in the slavery It's like what Kanye West said in an interview on TMZ that went viral. "400 years of slavery seemed like a choice" Sorry I'm coming off as harsh but pls I beg you in the name of anything you believe in, DO NOT STEP ONE FOOT into ANY religious home. Well, except you want to dump your bro there for the worse. And the funny thing is this: When you let a super-religious person in on the TRUTH about their bullshit they'll always go through these stages: 1. Denial or Ridicule (they deny it or Ridicule it/you) 2. Rejection [they reject it entirely and will become violent towards the source of the information (you) ] 3. Acceptance (they finally begin to see reason) Which explains why I don't like having a religious convo with anyone. I just listen and nod or zone you off. And the reason is because I hate being the bearer of bad news. And I hate being at the receiving end of the 3 stages of accepting the truth I listed above. It's also one of the reasons why the bearer of bad news in the olden days were usually put to death by the King. Anyone who loses a loved one also passes through those 3 stages before accepting the truth. First, you ridicule the info. Then you react violent to oppose it. Later, acceptance dwells in. It also explains why most superstitious folks HATE atheist (or rather dispise the people/persons who first told them God don't exist) And another reason is because it goes against everything you've ever known from birth. In other words, the person is saying you're stewpid. And no one likes being stewpid 124 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 8:21am On May 07, 2021 |
[quote author=joefengzy post=101455107][/quote] I'm in Onitsha. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Mrskillz1(f): 8:27am On May 07, 2021 |
CandyOps:Has your intelligence ever failed you? Did you see me here all these years seeking for solution? I went science way because I knew it's in the gene but then, I found that it's not the best because of the generations after and so I began to seek permanent solution. Something must have triggered it because my mom's ancestors had no record of such. So if it started along the line, something must have influenced it. This is why I'm out here looking for a fix. Not the kind of fix drugs do. Something higher. I'm intelligent my dear, but right now...I really do not know. 112 Likes 4 Shares |
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