A friend who sees me as a man that can be trusted on family issues has a problem, but I think the answer I gave her seems not good enough.


My friend, a female has #9 m savings this year, her husband who pays for everything in the house to her airtime sometimes has # 1.3 m savings, they are to pay house rent of #1. 2 m this month, knowing fully well that Christmas is by the corner, their child's school fees is by January, the husband's business is not as it used to be, my friend insisted that it's her husband's responsibility to provide shelter for her, that "his money is our money, my money is my money".

What other advice can I give, as I already told her to tell her husband that they should go and buy #10m house, and she asked me that with whose money?

Please urgent advise is needed, an she might be loosing her home at the end of this month.

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Beg your wife to assist you.

No more advice after this


"his money is our money, my money is my money".


She will end up kiling her husband


Men came to this world to serve women

SkyFlyGang:
No more advice after this


"his money is our money, my money is my money".


She will end up kiling her husband


Men came to this world to serve women

This is pathetic

chatinent:
Ok

There's no point booking space, advice is needed here

tim1256:
A friend who sees me as a man that can be trusted on family issues has a problem, but I think the answer I gave her seems not good enough.


My friend, a female has #9 m savings this year, her husband who pays for everything in the house to her airtime sometimes has # 1.3 m savings, they are to pay house rent of #1. 2 m this month, knowing fully well that Christmas is by the corner, their child's school fees is by January, the husband's business is not as it used to be, my friend insisted that it's her husband's responsibility to provide shelter for her, that "his money is our money, my money is my money".

What other advice can I give, as I already told her to tell her husband that they should go and buy #10m house, and she asked me that with whose money?

Please urgent advise is needed, an she might be loosing her home at the end of this month.

Mods, kindly help push this to front page

She is not scared of loosing her home, do don't worry about that aspect

Advice her to buy a land in her name or buy a house in her name, since she is being selfish about who's money should be used for family projects

If she looses her home, she is capable of taking care of hers as a single mother

frozen70:


She is not scared of loosing her home, do don't worry about that aspect

Advice her to buy a land in her name or buy a house in her name, since she is being selfish about who's money should be used for family projects

If she looses her home, she is capable of taking care of hers as a single mother

Thanks so much, this is appreciated.
I pity her husband, he loved my friend so much, opened business for her, told her to be keeping her gains.
This is a lesson to guys

If she loses it,that's her problem and it's due to the greed in her. I don't feel concerned about her.
Next please.

tim1256:
A friend who sees me as a man that can be trusted on family issues has a problem, but I think the answer I gave her seems not good enough.


My friend, a female has #9 m savings this year, her husband who pays for everything in the house to her airtime sometimes has # 1.3 m savings, they are to pay house rent of #1. 2 m this month, knowing fully well that Christmas is by the corner, their child's school fees is by January, the husband's business is not as it used to be, my friend insisted that it's her husband's responsibility to provide shelter for her, that "his money is our money, my money is my money".

What other advice can I give, as I already told her to tell her husband that they should go and buy #10m house, and she asked me that with whose money?

Please urgent advise is needed, an she might be loosing her home at the end of this month.

Mods, kindly help push this to front page

tim1256:


Thanks so much, this is appreciated.
I pity her husband, he loved my friend so much, opened business for her, told her to be keeping her gains.
This is a lesson to guys

It's a pity for him and she is nit ready to cooperate

tim1256:
A friend who sees me as a man that can be trusted on family issues has a problem, but I think the answer I gave her seems not good enough.


My friend, a female has #9 m savings this year, her husband who pays for everything in the house to her airtime sometimes has # 1.3 m savings, they are to pay house rent of #1. 2 m this month, knowing fully well that Christmas is by the corner, their child's school fees is by January, the husband's business is not as it used to be, my friend insisted that it's her husband's responsibility to provide shelter for her, that "his money is our money, my money is my money".

What other advice can I give, as I already told her to tell her husband that they should go and buy #10m house, and she asked me that with whose money?

Please urgent advise is needed, an she might be loosing her home at the end of this month.

Mods, kindly help push this to front page

They should buy 10m house and start from scratch? U no even talk 6m. She should be an helpmeet to her husband

See the gap .

E get how the man go make mouth reach,she fit arrest and lock am up self

Mennnnnnnn,just imagine.... People wey suppose to be the better halves of each other, instead one party dey form cunning attitude like say na she wise pass

Well,one of my greatest prayer point if I wake up every morning na be say make God no use bad wife punish me for my sins

What if the man hasn't being a good husband to her.Try to hear the woman's side of the story.

frozen70:


She is not scared of loosing her home, do don't worry about that aspect

Advice her to buy a land in her name or buy a house in her name, since she is being selfish about who's money should be used for family projects

If she looses her home, she is capable of taking care of hers as a single mother

All she has is all she has ever worked since her husband foots all the bill in the house, even to the level of sending upkeep to her parents.


The family has scattered though.

ahnie:
What if the man hasn't being a good husband to her.Try to hear the woman's side of the story.

She is my friend and I can tell you for free that the guy is every woman's dream and benchmark for men.
He buys even to the recharge card on his wife, my friend's line.

The family has scattered though

Sonnobax15:

See the gap .

E get how the man go make mouth reach,she fit arrest and lock am up self

Mennnnnnnn,just imagine.... People wey suppose to be the better halves of each other, instead one party dey form cunning attitude like say na she wise pass

Well,one of my greatest prayer point if I wake up every morning na be say make God no use bad wife punish me for my sins

She was indeed a bad wife, the guy buys every damn thing in the house, to recharge card, to sending upkeep to her parents, he even pays her monthly upkeep, she does nothing whatsoever with her salary

The family has scattered though

AutoChick4U:
They should buy 10m house and start from scratch? U no even talk 6m. She should be an helpmeet to her husband

She kept her money, she moved out of the house, rent and other expenses suck her money and she just surviving now in the space of one year.

The family has scattered already and guy's business is coming up again