Hello Nairalanders,

How will you handle a situation whereby a lady (you like) is trying to emotionally blackmail you into a relationship when you are not yet ready for one.

Simply go ahead to date her and see where it leads or what other options/approaches will you recommend.

You must have a reason for not wanting to date her now, a woman that can emotionally blackmail you to date her will also control you when you marry her tomorrow.

Do you need someone to tell you she has a hidden agenda before you know?

When it comes to relationship I dictate the play, a woman can't force me to do what's not on my mind.

My brother you better run and look for money, if she blackmail you into the relationship, how do you think the relationship will look like going forward?

Go and hustle.

Leave women alone and start taking risk now that u are young.

There is time for everything.

Bahamas95:
You must have a reason for not wanting to date her now, a woman that can emotionally blackmail you to date her will also control you when you marry her tomorrow.

Do you need someone to tell you she has a hidden agenda before you know?

When it comes to relationship I dictate the play, a woman can't force me to do what's not on my mind.

I'm not 100% ready right now. And I understand your point about how she may look to handle the relationship in future, trying to assume a dominating role

Tb19:
My brother you better run and look for money, if she blackmail you into the relationship, how do you think the relationship will look like going forward?

Hmmm