MEETING SISTER MARY… (1)

(P ls, I’d rather nobody contacts me after this post… I am not gonna be nice).

This lady with me in this picture is Kelechi Chimgozirim Ejikeme. She is also the Sister Mary I have written pages about in the past. She was one crooked human that left me with so much pain and trauma that I might never recover from in a life time, but seeing her behind bars would go a long way in making me feel better. She was also the origin of my trust issues and anxieties🤦‍♂️ Kelechi is welcome to point out any part of my story that she thinks is a lie or inaccurate in anyway, and to also give her side of the story.

How we met/became an item…
The first picture was the day we first met. I was passing through Abuja, and my flight out of Abuja was rescheduled unexpectedly and I had several hours before the flight, so I decided to go into town and hangout with some friends for some hours, and it was at that hang out I met Kelechi. It was love at first sight and we clicked instantly and like magic. I thought it would be the most beautiful story of my life, but it turned out to be the most tragic event in my whole life. She told me her boyfriend had just broken up with her on same day, but she didn’t tell me she had “multiple”🤷🏽‍♂️

I returned to Saudi Arabia shortly after we met, we continued to grow closer, talked everyday, shared a lot. On 31st day of March 2021, I made a Facebook post about that very day being the happiest day of my life because of 3 events that took place on the day before…
1. It was her 26th birthday
2. It was the day I passed the final stage of the UK Medical Licensure exams
2. It was the day she said ’yes’ to be after I had previously asked her to be the love of my life

Soon after, my instincts started acting up and questions started popping up.
-I noticed things about her didn’t add up
-I noticed her stories changed a lot
-I noticed she seemed to forget swathes of her previous stories, a whole lot
-I also knew she didn’t have any memory loss issues🤷🏽‍♂️ …so my conclusion was that she must have been making stuff up at a rate her memories couldn’t keep pace with or that she probably had a “double life”.

I discussed this with my guy Gerald Tk Okeke Rapheal who was my next door neighbour in the city where I lived in Saudi Arabia, and also with my mannest man Ugwuja Jude Nd. Gerard said I shouldn’t ignore my instincts, and that he doesn’t trust Naija girls. Meanwhile, my best friend thinks I’m too picky, and that my mind must have been playing tricks on me… this was what stopped me from disengaging at this stage. How wrong I was🤷🏽‍♂️

Other things I noticed about her…
- she seemed quite comfortable in Abuja without a job and without any known source of income.
-she was always hanging around popular/financially strong individuals, following them about like flies
-she seemed to having one pitiable story or another requiring me to dole out cash.
-she had too many contradictory stories about how she paid her bills in Abuja without a job

I did a few diggings at first and uncovered a few nasty histories which I would consider normal for most girls (if they were not posing as ‘Pastors’), but some of the sources were people who had interest in me, so it was easy for me to dismiss everything, instead, I made excuses for her, and I also decided to not dig anymore. Prior to this, I noticed she made a sudden transition from this slender ‘lepa’ with no curves, to this hourglass curves over night that I admired so much. I had my guesses, I connected a few dots and I asked her, she denied at first, but later volunteered the truth of her own volition, this made me see her as genuine… she also claimed that all of that was before she gave her life to Christ, and she gave me this impression of being a church girl, posted these prayer thingy on her WhatsApp every morning, made me pray with her on the phone all the time, even though I’m non-religious. She was at the forefront of everything going on in her church, and it made me admire her even more for her kind of dedication and I started fantasising about going to church with her every sunday. I legit fell for it 💯 percent 🤣🤣🤣

When we started at first, she claimed she had just lost her job in Abuja. She said her boss was sexually harassing her and terminated her job when she refused to sleep with him. Later on she said her company transferred her to Lagos and she didn’t want to live in Lagos, so she resigned. She changes the story to suit whatever conversations we were having at the time, and she doesn’t seem to remember what she had told me previously, I would later find out she didn’t have any job like she claimed. Later on she claimed her bills were paid for by ‘friends’ and later on she said her Dad pays her rent and gives her upkeep every month to sustain herself in Abuja, this claim contradicted her story of having a job that paid her 150k monthly which had just lost in the same month she met me🤷🏽‍♂️

She tried to paint this picture of a strong and independent woman to me, told me about how the men she dated complained about her refusal to accept monies from them (ashi ashi). I also picked up from her stories that every single one of them unceremoniously threw her away like garbage, and that got me very curious. According to her stories, some even nicely escorted her out, and quietly blocked her and that got me even more alarmed. I got all the more curious and decided to dig deeper, turned out they were all very rich folks, and mostly “abroad based guys”, with the exception of one guy who seemed like he was struggling financially, and who turned out to be the only guy she actually initiated a break-up with. I saw a pattern there, I also noticed an overlap of timelines, I pointed them out, she covered up quickly. I also confronted her about how she miraculously meets only very rich abroad men and Abuja big boys, she once again claimed it was before she gave her life to Christ… and I legit believed her again🤣🤣🤣

She lived in a one room face-me-I-face-you arrangement deep deep inside Jahi, where neighbours always quarrelled and fought outside almost every time I called. She shared this room with her younger brother who was struggling and complaining at the time about working for months without being paid. I saw that they couldn’t even sustain themselves at all, and were always cooking beans every time I called her on a video call. It would be an understatement to say she lived in a deplorable condition that didn’t match up with the facade she puts up on social media.

I felt the right thing to do was to pull out, but she said she was already deeply emotionally involved and that it would be “unfair” to leave her at that point. She attributed everything to her past, and given her sweet voice and how genuine she sounded, I decided to give her a real chance, I decided to wave everything aside and start with her on a clean slate. At this point, I also ‘basically adopted her’…

Initially, I started her on 50k monthly, to add to whatever she claimed her Dad was paying her monthly (which was a lie BTW). It was not enough, and she always needed more money, and I never turned her down.
1. I paid for her eye checks and glasses
2. I paid her everyday bills
3. She told me she wanted to acquire tech skills, so I enrolled her on Ekwutosinam Ada Nsukka’s classes, and also paid for other trainings she needed, programming languages/coding
4. Internet was hampering her trainings and she asked for a portable WIFI so she could have unlimited internet access, I gave her the money
5. She started sending me random pictures of clothings made by Eby Amanda Pius-Urum, including the one she named “Chimdi” which happened to be the name I go by… I got them all for her.
6. She said she wish to earn money on her own and wasn’t lucky at getting any jobs, so I started up the Ovaioza Garri thingy, just to give her a feeling of earning money by herself… Gerard was with me while I was having this conversation with her, and he overheard our conversation and was vehemently opposed to the idea of doing this much for a girl I’m not yet married to. My defence was that I basically saw her as ‘wifey’, so why not start spoiling her now😁

My next stories would be about:
1. how a failed and indecent attempt to coerce me into a quick marriage hatched into a plot to defraud me.
2. how much details and meticulousness that went into the plan to defraud me.
3. What steps I’ve taken to get justice (I will consult my lawyer first to know if I can talk about this in public😅)

MEETING SISTER MARY…(2)

This 2nd part of my story covers in chronological order…
-the indecent attempt to coerce me into a quick marriage
-my journey to Naija
-the events leading up to the breakup

I communicated with her in very clear terms, I made my feelings and intentions well known to her, and I listened to her. We spoke everyday, she knew my whole routine in Saudi, the days we didn’t speak were days she claimed she had one thing or another to do in the church, or times she says she just didn’t feel like to talking to me, and I just left her until whenever she was ready to talk.

One day, out of the blues, she told me her Dad wanted to speak with me 😱 …I was like, “your Dad? 😱” I never asked to speak to her Dad, or for her to tell her parents about us yet. Infact I believed she was just messing with me at first until she sent me her Dad’s contact. Shit was real, and I wasn’t mentally ready to speak with him yet. The rest of our conversation kept getting interrupted by her displeasure over my refusal to call her Dad and begin talks… this led to somewhat loss of the excitement she spoke to me with. I was sure gonna make her ‘wifey’, it was a decision I had already made on my own, but I just didn’t appreciate the pressure.

When I decided it was time, I got the best ring I could afford and set off on a journey to Naija to go meet the love of my life (so I thought). My closest friends knew and were all eagerly waiting for the news.
Ugwuja Jude Nd
Dimzi Ezekwesili
Bright Nwatamole
Obioma Chidumaga Aririsukwu
and my sister @gudnex.vincent
At the time, I was relocating to the UK and told her I would be passing through Naija to see her for a few days before continuing to the UK, unknown to her that I intended to stay up to 3 weeks. She only found out when she met me at the airport that I would be staying up to 3 weeks and she was alarmed 😱 The first screenshot below was her chat with her so called ‘best friend’ Bibian Chinenye Pius-Urum on our way from the airport, during which she expressed displeasure about my long stay, but sharp girl wouldn’t tell her bestie the real reason😂

I embarked on a journey on the 4th of August 2021, there was no flight on my usual route, so I had to go all the way to Morocco (Casablanca) to catch another flight to Naija. Still there was no flight to Abuja, so I had to come in through Lagos, arrived on the morning of 5th August 2021 and then caught a local flight to Abuja. I was too excited and I was looking forward to what I thought was ahead. It was gonna take a few days to plan the right set up for the big event, but before that day, Babe was already acting in a way I considered rather strange… this was what led to my decision to not go ahead anymore.

The next morning after my arrival, I woke up before her and went to the kitchen to prepare breakfast, I was in the middle of breaking eggs when I remembered I hadn’t asked her what she wanted for breakfast.. so I walked back to her in bed and said, “babe what are we having for breakfast?” …babe suddenly snapped at me and started telling me how she doesn’t cook for any man and yada yada… I caved for sake of peace, but that only emboldened her some more and she started getting a lot more controlling until I decided to quit patronising her and take a firmer stance. She also became obsessed with going through my phone after I gave her my password. I already told her about my interactions with the Indian girl, so I wasn’t bothered, cos I didn’t have any other “inappropriate” convos with any other persons.

When I insisted she cooks something, she refused, instead contracted Destiny Nkiruka Egbum to be delivering food to the house that we ate every day. She didn’t seem like the same girl I talked with every day, and the more she gave me that masculine energy, the more I felt a need to resist her. She also wouldn’t say sorry when she wronged me, instead wants me to apologise to her, and I always ended up apologising to her, thinking I was teaching her how to say ‘sorry’, little did I know that I was only training her to be a lot more nasty. she didn’t watch her words when she spoke to me, she carelessly used expletives on me, whenever things didn’t go her way. I sat her down one day to have talks and told her we needed to go back to drawing table, see where we got things wrong, and see how we can fix things so things don’t get toxic between us… she flared up like “Patience Ozokwo” and accused me of calling her a toxic person, that was how we went from trying to have a talk to me apologising the whole day and explaining to her that that wasn’t what I meant🤷🏽‍♂️😅

A few days later, we had an issue regarding a girl she was demanding I block straight away, she was an Indian girl I had left after I met Kay. I told her the girl was hurt after I broke things off and that I just wanted to let her chill a bit and stop calling on her own… she was going back to India and we were never gonna see eachother again🤷🏽‍♂️. Kay was upset and shouting at me and threatening to leave if I don’t block her straight away, I was trying to get her to calm down and have a discussion with me when she suddenly grabbed my tablet with which I was taking an online tests at the time, and tried to smash it. I took the tablet away from her and then she went for my laptop and I stopped her from grabbing the laptop. I sat on the bed checking out my tab to see if it got damaged in the struggle, when suddenly, I heard her charging at me from behind, and when I looked back, she was holding the electric kettle of boiling water that was left boiling while we were arguing… I narrowly escaped being poured hot water, and then she stormed out of the house shortly after and blocked my number. She unblocked me later in the evening demanding I apologised to her. E no hard nah… Ofcos I apologised to her and also informed her I didn’t want to continue with the relationship anymore. She came back to the house very late in the night, I asked her to go home but she refused, and it was raining outside and ofcos I wouldn’t physically throw her out in the rain, so I let her in, so she could leave on her own in the morning when she got tired of begging. She continued begging for a few more days and refused to leave the house… meanwhile, I continued going about my day as a single guy, during this period, I made a mistake I wasn’t so proud of. Out of guilt, I went back to her and reconciled with her that evening, by the next day, she found out what I had done, and that was how hell was let loose again🤦‍♂️ She said I cheated, I said we technically weren’t together at the time. She was hurt and I couldn’t bear seeing her in tears, so I admitted that I cheated, I apologised, I did everything I could to make it up to her, she said she was leaving, so I allowed her, but she still came back to the house. Over the next one week, she continued coming back to the same house every night, even started cooking and we were doing all the normal things couples do. I mistook that to mean that she had forgiven and decided to stay, so I continued to try to make it up to her in my own way, little did I know her evil plans for me that taken even a lot worse turn… I saw her chats with Bibian Pius-Urum where she narrated everything she was planning to do to me.

She never stopped tormenting me about that one incident and went about telling the whole world about it (including her parents and my friends), until I found out she had actually been the one cheating, not once, not twice, not thrice, but for months and months and throughout the whole time we were together. She only stopped telling everyone about me after I showed her screenshots of her own chats proving to her that she was the cheater in our relationship, not me.

Infact she was originally in Lagos and was supposed to wait there till I arrive and then join me on the last leg of my flight to Abuja, but then the other boyfriend happened to have a business in Lagos on same day as me and also asked her to wait in Lagos, so she smartly told me Ovaioza urgently needed her to help her sort out something in Abuja and that it couldn’t wait, that was how she escaped having me and the other guy clashing at Lagos. I’ve told this story before… Here’s a link:

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=842713393399783&id=100029833911343

Kelechi actually met this guy way before me (I know this because the name has come up several times in our convo, and when I asked who he was, she said he was just a friend) and only intended to use me to pay bills and to relocate abroad. When that plan didn’t look likely, she decided to defraud me of millions of naira instead. Infact, there was a 3rd guy in the picture as well, I will talk about it in my subsequent posts.

MEETING SISTER MARY…(3)

-the break up
-the parting gifts
-the reconnection of comms
-the big frauds

THE FINAL BREAK UP
Between 16th and 2nd of August 2021 Kelechi tortured the living hell out of me. This was despite my apologising everyday, being extra nice and getting her gifts. She wouldn’t stop reminding me every single minute of the day how I was a cheat and saying all sorts of horrible things to me continuously, whether I was eating or studying for my tests, or drinking, even when I laid down to sleep, she continued the torture, it was nonstop, she would even follow me round the house repeatedly reciting a Bible passage (Prov 16:25) that says… ‘there is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.”

On the morning of Sunday 22nd August 2021, she announced that she had financially made up her mind to leave, it came like a huge relief to me, knowing the torture was finally over, I did not protest. She still didn’t leave. In the evening, she told me she wanted us to go on a double date with 2 friends which we did, had a good time, the atmosphere seemed a lot different when we came home, and she was a lot nicer. Infact she was the one initiating the knacks, and I felt that was another turning point for a beautiful outcome until she reminded me that we were still over, I accepted without any protests… unknown to me she was texting her other boyfriend while we were out on the date that she had returned to Abuja… here’s the link to the story:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=842713393399783&id=100029833911343

THE PARTING GIFTS
I left Abuja for UK on Monday 23rd of August 2021, as soon as I got to London, I informed her I had arrived, and later than evening, she called me to redeem a few things I promised her while we were still together which included completing the money I left with her to a million so she could touch her first million… I did, I have her her first million, and I left her alone. I never contacted her again, infact I blocked her initially, but later felt there wasn’t a need for that, so I unblocked her, but I never contacted her.
She was going for Sammy’s wedding in Owerri in Sept 2021 and asked me for flight ticket to Owerri, I gave her, but she insisting on me giving her 2-way tickets, I just gave her, knowing I didn’t intend to continue anything with her after that. She also made a few more requests which I granted as a parting gesture.

THE RECONNECTION
Few days later, Kay started calling again and reestablished communication like we used to have while I was in Saudi. She also resumed sending me her pictures and in expectations for compliments from me, I declined to compliment her and she got upset and deleted them. She continued to call me on audio and video calls, and I mostly ignored the calls (screenshots attached)… since she hated me that much and had sworn to show me shege (according to her chat with Bibian), what then was her purpose for reestablishing communications as thought we were still a couple?🤷🏽‍♂️

THE BIG FRAUDS…
this was quite elaborate and meticulously planned, and the reason for all the troubles and dramas and the bad bloods and the enmity that ensued. She came begging at first not to be exposed. I was initially gonna let her go scot free. Things took a different turn after I told her I had deleted all her chats. I asked her for a formal apology, she looked me in the eyes and said she was smarter than me and that she was not sorry about anything, and that I couldn’t do shit. She legit spited me🤷🏽‍♂️ …and to make matters worse, she said she would claim I was upset because she refused to marry me🤦‍♂️

My next story is going to be about the frauds.

MEETING SISTER MARY…(4)

I moved to the UK shortly before winter and winter wasn’t something that goes down well with me. Soon after, I found myself getting low moods, kinda feeling needy and craving company, I couldn’t step out because it was cold outside, and I was really emotionally labile, this was the primary reason I allowed her efforts to reestablish communications. This was while I was at Aylesbury where I had been sent for courses on Advance Trauma Life Support and European Peadiatric Advanced Life Support . While I was there, we still continued to talk everyday, but I hadn’t formerly asked her back yet. We had already talk about the issues we had back in Naija and resolved things between us and the friendship we had looked 100% intact (that was what I thought). We also agreed to keep our issues just between us, infact she swore she was never the type to go telling our stories to anyone outside the 2 of us.

I would later learn that she had already gone to tell the whole world🤷🏽‍♂️😱 Infact I found out there was a whole audience of people she kept giving minute by minute update about my private life even before I arrived, including ones she told I was a “sex addict”🤦‍♂️ (well May be that was better than ‘40seconds’ man🤣). I was offended, I felt defamed, and I asked her to put a stop to it… she refused to stoo, she also refused to apologise (she’d rather die than apologise for anything, except when she’s upto some mischief). She instead, lashed out and started cussing at me, and we had an exchange during which she blocked me🤷🏽‍♂️ …I broke down and wailed openly and in the public like a child and it was at my guy’s engagement party and it was the most embarrassing thing I’ve ever done in my entire life🤦‍♂️. Guys were disappointed in me, nobody understood the kind of emotional pain I was in at that very moment. She unblocked me later after I “begged” her through some other means, and this was exactly how I threw away my dignity as a man, and totally lost control of the situation. She piloted the situation the rest of the way, quite brutal and taking no prisoners. She continued to give distorted minute by minute update about me to her best friends, telling them so much unimaginable lies.

At various points when it looked like I was regaining myself, she’d do something to put me back in that position she wanted me… she’d either briefly talk nice to me, or call to say she was checking up on me, or send me pictures of us together (screenshot attached), just to rile me up and get me chasing her again. At some point, I presumed she must have moved on with a new guy and decided to give up, but she came back with a story of haven never started seeing any other guy yet until she hears from God. She kept reminding me that she was waiting to hear from God to know if it would be me or someone else before going into another relationship… even without me asking, she told me she’s never been with a guy since we broke up in August 2021, a lie she repeated again 30th November 2021, before I saw her chats.
I would later find out it was all lies to keep me hoping and chasing her, from her chat, she had already started another relationship already at this point with some Twitter guy that calls himself Ebube the story teller (I found out she even met this guy before me as well), this was while she was still with the other guy (Uzor) whom she stringing along with me, yea the same guy that almost clashed with me in Lagos, and she was hosting these guys in the same house she made me pay for😬🥹😭😡😡😡😡😡

Throughout the whole period of this drama, she kept giving me this mixed and intentionally confusing signals, and this whole time, she kept putting the idea in my head that I just needed to do the right things. She called on 2nd of October 2021 and said she was “checking to make sure I was ok”, the. She went ahead to tell me I needed to woo her all over again, get her gifts, and then she asked for the latest iPhone (iPhone 13 Pro Max had just been release), and also demanded that I pay for her new apartment… this was the time she was going about with those pathetic stories about her growth from scratch and using it to cajole people into contributing money for her new apartment and kept giving false updates about how much she had realised, just to lure more people to “sow see in her life”🤦‍♂️ …I was appalled because I had seen her criticise someone else for similar antics, now she was in on it too.

When it worked, she started adding further demands, all the while telling our mutual friends crap that contradicted the things she said to be. She denies it, claiming I did it of my own volition. Then I saw a chat she had with her sister where she admitted to making those demands (I have attached screenshots). I couldn’t believe Amarachi Ejikeme (her sister who I had a lot of respect for) was also in on the plot to defraud me. In their chat, they discussed in details how they intended to defraud me, infact, their plot was to completely finish me🤦‍♂️ …and as church girls wey dem be, they praised God as they plotted to do me dirty😬🥹🤦‍♂️ they would have succeeded if I didn’t see her chats.

After she got the phone, and the money for the house, she went on celebration and lying spree, telling her friends how she bought the iPhone 13 Pro Max with her money, just to match up the fake facade she puts up on social media… this same Jahi girl wey dey cook beans everyday with her brother, na em dey afford iPhone 13 Pro Max🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 …all these, while still being extremely nasty to me🤷🏽‍♂️

I get it I wronged her at some point, albeit during a short breakup and a time when I didn’t feel I owed her anything, but I believe I did more than enough to earn her forgiveness. Even if she couldn’t forgive whatever it was I did to her, her conscience should have told her I didn’t deserve any of that, atleast for the sake of the time I looked out for her (while she was cooking beans everyday😂), she should have left me alone after I went away peacefully after the very amicable break up we had.

After going through my chats with Kay and seeing how I was simping, I was too ashamed of myself and it was the major reason I couldn’t speak up for a very long time. Infact, I put in a lot of efforts to ensure words of my simping spree didn’t get out, cos few of my guys that got to know about it were so mad at me they threatened to dissociate themselves from me, because “a simp does not only bring disgrace and disrepute to himself, but to everyone who is affiliated to him in anyway”.

And pls, for the records, don’t judge me by those screenshots where I was simping like an idiot🫣, I was depressed, isolated and having winter blues and vitamin D deficiency at the time😂 that’s not me anymore… I have learnt the hard way and I have swallowed my red pill 💊 long ago… make another crooked chic come test me and see🌚😁

Abeg ooo, Kelechi and her sister are welcome to say their side of the story, point out where I have lied, and give us her version of the story and their receipts too.

I summary, once upon a time, before I took the red pill, a beans-eating Jahi girl with a fake facade, used my head, to upgraded herself to an “iPhone carrying Gwarimpa girl” with lots of money in her bank accounts 🤦‍♂️

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Its not by lawyering up, it’s very simple to prove me wrong:

1. Point out specific parts where I lied in my story, tell us, are the screenshots yours or not?

2. Give your own version of the story

3. Garnish us with your own receipts.

You claim you returned phone, did you mention that you ran off and I had to fight tooth and nail to recover the phone from you? (BTW, I posted picture of the phone taken in my house this morning).

What about the money you agreed to return? …why did you block me when I insisted you return it?

See Kelechi, I know you have a penchant to leave burning fire to chase rat so as to create distractions, and I see what you and your minions are trying to do there with the return of the phone other funny side stories (this is how your mind works, and this was how I was able to predict and preempt your every move). So far I have restricted the screenshots to the parts that relates to my accusations today… if you decide to go past that and bring in other unrelated nasty stuff to create further distractions, I will respond in kind.

THE AFTERMATH

I just woke up few hours ago to a missed call from Kelechi’s folks and some credit alert. I spoke with them (I feel bad for them), apparently, someone had told them about my story, but didn’t want to give them details.

They couldn’t view my page because, at the peak of Kelechi’s games, she insisted that I block her parents Facebook account, I obeyed “my Queen” without questions🤣🤣🤣. Now they couldn’t read the story themselves, and I don’t know how to unblock them🤷🏽‍♂️, so they can compare my claims to what she had told them🤷🏽‍♂️

Apparently, my closeness to them was part of the reasons I didn’t come out sooner. I had to distance myself from her folks in order to garner the courage to speak up, and Kelechi’s decision to go the part of spiting me and threatening me cemented my resolve to go full frontal on her (I was gonna let her go Scot free🤦‍♂️)… plus I also needed to wait until I was 100% sure I had absolutely no soft spot left for her, make I no come hear her sweet voice half way come soft melt like ice cream😂. I would have let her go scot free, if she had just uttered “sorry” at any point, but she was a kind of person that would rather die than say a simple ‘sorry’… so she asked for it🤷🏽‍♂️

She was the first to threaten to drag me on social media, she said she has the gang and the number to pull it off. She also said she would tell the whole world I tried to collect the iPHone I bought for a girl I was in love with, and tried to convince me it was a shameful thing🤣🤣🤣, but that was back in the days when I still had shame😏. She said she can convince the world that I made those screenshots up(good luck to her🤷🏽‍♂️). I can already see the handwork of the so call gang. I appreciate their efforts, however it was way way poorer than I had anticipated… Heads up! …I came prepared, and I no get shame anymore🌚

She claimed she told her fiancé everything and that he promised to deal mercilessly with me (awwww… luckiest man on earth🥰🥰🥰🥰😘)🤣. I heard they met in December 2021, I wonder if he knew as at January 2022, babe was still acting soft towards me and trying to manipulate me into leaving the phone for her… I told her I had forgiven her, but insisted that she returns the phone and my money, given that they were obtained fraudulently… she got upset and said nothing will make her return the phone and the money, said I should do my worse🤷🏽‍♂️ …it took the intervention of prominent figures on this space to practically force the phone out of her (although they assumed it was in their place to decide what I should leave for her and what I shouldn’t), and when I insisted she returns my money too, the house rent, the money I left with her on the Ovaioza’s account after we broke up, she refused and said I can’t do shit, and then just blocked me🤷🏽‍♂️

Well I have said my piece to him on this issue. I for one have always warned my close friends still abroad and those who just left. Never trust Nigerian women or think of bringing them over. While this might be seen as a very negative perspective,I have my reasons ,one of them is why I relocated back to Nigeria but I will rather not speak on that

Please learn from this and be wise when dealing with Nigerian women

Please let this be a lesson to all.

Damn, some men shouldn't have been created as men, Iike what kind of bleeped up self esteem does he have that he'll gladly take all this shit in the name of love.


Who dey give birth to pussy ass niqqas like this, and na fresh boy wey ladies go dey die for, nai one yeye banny with glasses use dey do ping pong, I'm repulsed mehn.


And e still dey pepper him body, that's why he kept mentioning how she cooks beans everyday, him wey them cook him own brain nkor.


I'm so pissed off, sleep don finish from my eyes.

I woke up to this heartbreaking story. Guy na your story dey make me go late to work today.
So sorry dude, you were just unlucky in love.
Eyes open the next time.
You left a probably good girl (the Indian one) to fall for a rattle snake.
Hope your psychological and economic situation improves after that mad house of events.
Chears

Mahn born of a woman ...

This is so much to take in man...

I hope you heal real quick... Please heal!

Girl from a poor background. By poor I mean poor home training. Don't say Nigerian girls are bad. There are many good Nigerian girls. You saw a girl that is into hookup and you stick to her like glue. You know cry that your skin is peeled when trying to free urself. There are so many Nigerian girls for you to choose from. Even if you called your elder brother to look around for you he would have come out with an excellent result. I believe you are a bit isolated.

Sorry, i got so pissed off and had to stop reading this

frank317:
Sorry, i got so pissed off and had to stop reading this

E reach to vex

OP you totally ignored the signs even from the beginning. I won't blame you much because this love thing is full of mystery. You do things that you will condem another for doing, with hope she will change or get better.

People don't really change, they become more of who they truly are. Once you start seeing those signs and they keep repeating,,,,o boy.... Usain Bolt.

He's the King of Simps..
He deserves the award

This Tory too long!

What evening newspaper need is vibrators not a child.

All 9ja guys should avoid any evening newspaper because they are all out to hook you with pregnancy.

E no go better for any evening newspaper wey go try to near where I dey

Worlds Best Simp


Thank Goodness for the Red pill movement.

I love a good gist but I can’t read this book! Will a kind hearted person share their notes with me 😭😭😭

Humble432:
OP you totally ignored the signs even from the beginning. I won't blame you much because this love thing is full of mystery. You do things that you will condem another for doing, with hope she will change or get better.

People don't really change, they become more of who they truly are. Once you start seeing those signs and they keep repeating,,,,o boy.... Usain Bolt.

What happened? Please summarise for me and God will increase you in patience 🙏

Brandiebird:


What happened? Please summarise for me and God will increase you in patience 🙏

🤣

kai

Unperturbedpota:


🤣

I frickin hate you! I lost what felt like a lifetime reading your simp chronicles! But I have to admit you depressed me. I can’t believe how evil poor people can be and how simple kind people are. This life! 😟.

Saudi is a lonely place and being alone in the UK, working as hard as he had to and the damn weather all worked against him. I pray he heals from this and rest assured life will deal with her because when other people’s money finishes and she loses her youthfulness, there will always be beans waiting for her ☹️.

Brandiebird:


I frickin hate you! I lost what felt like a lifetime reading your simp chronicles! But I have to admit you depressed me. I can’t believe how evil poor people can be and how simple kind people are. This life! 😟.

Saudi is a lonely place and being alone in the UK, working as hard as he had to and the damn weather all worked against him. I pray he heals from this and rest assured life will deal with her because when other people’s money finishes and she loses her youthfulness, there will always be beans waiting for her ☹️.

Well summed up .

It is well

ghettochild:
He's the King of Simps..
He deserves the award

A real king of simp he his🤴🤴

Miravik900:


A real king of simp he his🤴🤴

Don't be so hasty. Not everything is black and white. If you are a kind person and plain hearted this is exactly how you would react unfortunately Nigerian women are just something I can't ever wish on any kind hearted man.

See pray never to fall into the hands of a Nigerian woma. Who has a malicious heart

Omo see the kind girl wey this brother simp for 😅😅


Chai Nigerian girls are useless indeed

Unperturbedpota:


Don't be so hasty. Not everything is black and white. If you are a kind person and plain hearted this is exactly how you would react unfortunately Nigerian women are just something I can't ever wish on any kind hearted man.

See pray never to fall into the hands of a Nigerian woma. Who has a malicious heart

Bro I’m too toxic for even this kind of girl because 2 masters no fit stay the same house Omo the kind beating she for day receive ehen make I no talk too much


But this can never happen to me you are the biggest simp have ever read about !!

Miravik900:


Bro I’m too toxic for even this kind of girl because 2 masters no fit stay the same house Omo the kind beating she for day receive ehen make I no talk too much


But this can never happen to me you are the biggest simp have ever read about !!

Do not be so hasty to judge

It is well

Unperturbedpota:


Do not be so hasty to judge

It is well

You wey suppose day control Barnies back to back na one Akara girl use you shine 😂😂😂

Anyways sha I wish you the best!!

Hope your mother is alive and okay?