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My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by IyaTola: 12:51pm On Apr 20

Dear IT,

Over the Easter break, I went to see my boyfriend, who lives in Kwara, I live in Ife. We recently started dating, and our relationship has been long-distance. I was so happy to see him because we had barely seen each other since the relationship started, and he had been busy with work.

It was nice spending time with him, and we had a lot of fun together. One day, I left my phone in his room to cook. When I got back, I noticed his demeanour had changed. He asked me who Jide was. That was when I knew I was in trouble. I said he was just a friend, and then he asked why I was sending nudes and talking sexually with him.

I had been single for over two years before this relationship began, so it hasn’t been easy cutting off the men I was talking to sexually over the phone, and the long distance doesn’t help.

I told him he was just a friend and that it meant nothing. I begged for forgiveness and told him it wouldn’t happen again. Guess what? My boyfriend forgave me, and I was very happy.

The only problem is that my boyfriend told his friends; he even showed them the chats. They have been pressuring him to break up with me. I feel unsettled; do you think my boyfriend will break up with me because of them?

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by ForValour: 1:02pm On Apr 20

Yes. Your boyfriend should breakup with you because you are not it.

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by JASONjnr(m): 1:05pm On Apr 20

Look, it's been a steady warning over the years that no matter what you do, or how you love a man, never send your nude. You can chat dirty but have self control.

Personally, I stopped forgiving women cheating. Because they know what they're doing.

Asking for forgiveness over what you did deliberately is foolishness.

You have to learn to control your libidos. As far as you'd want a man that is without multiple sidechicks. Same way you should keep yourself decent.

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by udeh3(m): 1:06pm On Apr 20

It's a break-up for me... This makes me want to agree to the saying, "weak me are now everywhere". You're dating a lady who's sending nude to another man. These nudes weren't sent days, weeks, or months before you met. They were sent within the period of your dating, omooohhhhhh!

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by EmmyMaestro(m): 4:56pm On Apr 20

Let us see the nudes first so that we will know weather the breakup can be justified

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by lavylilly: 4:56pm On Apr 20

Eleyi gidi gan

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by lavylilly: 4:57pm On Apr 20

undecided

EmmyMaestro:
Let us see the nudes first so that we will know weather the breakup can be justified

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Philosopher1979: 4:58pm On Apr 20

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]

You have a sub conscious desire to exploit your sexuality and thr man you sent your nude exploited this. As a human being you are emotional and sexual and in your emotional and sexual state, you sent your nudes.
You need to control yourself next time. No man will tolerate sending your nudes to another man. Any man that asks for your nudes is wicked and is psychologically manipulating you. You women can be childish.
Your boyfriend will find it hard to take you seriously. Stuff like that makes u seem like a LovePeddler or porn star which may not be so.
I can never encourage a lady to send her nudes to me. If a lady send me her nudes I will delete it and try and correct her.

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by JustPowerApps(m): 11:48pm On Apr 20

Who in their right mind dates a Yoruba girl anyway? Everything seems to be going smoothly, then comes the genealogical stupidity. Trust me, the best for any man is to make cool money and find one nice Igbo girl date. Yoruba girls are daft as hell.

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by eazzzy1(m): 7:48am On Apr 21

If you are sexually connected to guys you aren’t dating, why would I want to date you? I can be one of those guys you sex(t) without commitment.

He forgave you or he’s not ready to give up the sex? When it’s time to marry he will remember he can’t be with a girl whose nudes is on other guys phone. For your own safety move on to someone who hasn’t caught you.

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Asebaba1(m): 8:18am On Apr 21

Send the picture here let us see and judge since it is meant for public.

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by bigwig071(m): 10:55am On Apr 21

JASONjnr:
Look, it's been a steady warning over the years that no matter what you do, or how you love a man, never send your nude. You can chat dirty but have self control.

Personally, I stopped forgiving women cheating. Because they know what they're doing.

Asking for forgiveness over what you did deliberately is foolishness.

You have to learn to control your libidos. As far as you'd want a man that is without multiple sidechicks. Same way you should keep yourself decent.

you're so reasonable honestly

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by bigwig071(m): 11:02am On Apr 21

Human being always remember negative things..... it's very possible that he will never take you serious no matter how hard you try in that relationship. To me ooh if something like happens I will be open to you that the relationship will never lead to marriage for you to know what you are doing.... although I been seeing many girls nudes ooh honestly... remember men likes to protect their own.. you may call it childish but that's the truth

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by eepeepook: 11:35am On Apr 21

Okay. How much is the dollar today?

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by chiiraq802(m): 12:00pm On Apr 21

You are a liability!!! He should f**k you wan last time before breaking up with you.

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Dyfynezz12(m): 12:11pm On Apr 21

JustPowerApps:
Who in their right mind dates a Yoruba girl anyway? Everything seems to be going smoothly, then comes the genealogical stupidity. Trust me, the best for any man is to make cool money and find one nice Igbo girl date. Yoruba girls are daft as hell.

Words of a foolish ibo boy

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Verbtips(m): 12:17pm On Apr 21

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]There is still other tinzs you haven't dealth with

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by tochez24(m): 12:49pm On Apr 21

Your boyfriend is a big SIMP, But I'm happy he got alpha friends😁😁

In no distance time he will join the brotherhood😏

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Newdawn30: 3:53pm On Apr 21

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]
Pls stop sending nudes it's , it's long distance and you've been caught , and his friend isn't on your side ... It just a matter of time it will be over .

I advise you move on , and don't waste your time there . He won't be taken seriously ... As time goes on you'd understand what I am saying

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by drimzsmoke(m): 3:58pm On Apr 21

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]

Pictures of the nudes or this story is fake!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by JustPowerApps(m): 6:28pm On Apr 21

Dyfynezz12:

Words of a foolish ibo boy

Yoruba actually, not Ibo cheesy

cheesy

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by IyaTola: 10:04pm On Apr 22

undecided

drimzsmoke:

Pictures of the nudes or this story is fake!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by drimzsmoke(m): 10:06pm On Apr 22

IyaTola:

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Proserpina: 10:09pm On Apr 22

They are saving your man from future problems.

Why you go send nudes give another man?

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Re: My Man’s Friends Want Us To Break Up Because I Sent Nudes To Another Man by Danielnicks: 7:26am On Apr 23

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]

The blatant disregard for privacy.

The guy went through your phone without your permission, the disrespect of it all. Except you usually go through his, then you really got your issue to fix.

But for me personally, a woman goes through my phone, that would be the end of that relationship.

Lastly, dating; is the a romantic relationship between two persons for the main purpose of accessing compatibility. It's not a marriage. Nigerians should stop treating the bf/gf phenomenon like a marriage. You just met this person, it takes time normally for you to completely ease into a relationship.. it's not a on and off switch. I'm a guy by the way. Incase y'all wanna come for me.

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