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Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Newlymarried: 6:38pm On Apr 23
A Nigerian woman, Nneka Obani, who survived domestic violence has shared her story and advised women to walk away from abusive partners.


Taking to Facebook on Tuesday, April 22, 2024, she shared photos of a broken vanity table her ex-husband allegedly threw at her when she was six months pregnant.




According to her, he allegedly resorted to violence because she told their house help, his ‘babe’ to leave for stealing from her.


“Flee from domestic violence, not everyone is strong enough to survive it. If you don't die directly from the physical abuse, you may end up dying from the HBP that the marriage served you,” she wrote.

"Google memories just brought this up, yours truly was six months pregnant here, when they pushed this vanity table at her, the mirror ended up scattering into pieces and gave her some serious injury. Why did he do this, because his babe the househelp was told to leave the house for stealing from her madam.



"Tomorrow a lunatic will post that 95 percent of women were caught cheating, that's why they were kicked out of their marriages but they all come online to claim that they were abused. And I see men shouting preach! Preach!!! Then women who should know better will be in the comment section saying gbam.

“If you gbam to things like that, may your daughters experience the exact same thing in their marriages. Whether you gbam secretly or openly, may they experience abuse and see how sweet it is.”



Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Creamypie(m): 6:59pm On Apr 23
Forget this emotional blackmail. Na women way.very manipulative. na Only lazy and incompetent wives have househelps.not to forget the husband pays for her services to pamper his wife Let's hear from the husbands side first. See how quick she was to assert the house help was his babe, as if she knew it all along and kept quiet. Madam talk truth

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23
Who brought the house help into the house? Why should a sane woman bring a matured woman in her home in the name of house help?


When a married woman is not having her ways with her husband, she tends to accuse the innocent husband of sleeping with the house help.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 7:42pm On Apr 23
So you knew he was sleeping with the househelp and you didn't send her away, immediately, and only decided to send her away when she stole from you? The story is not clear.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kajaard: 7:47pm On Apr 23
This is the wives version of the story. I don't give verdicts until I hear both sides of the story (inclusive of the husbands version).

Because people twist tales to get sympathy from online in-laws like us angry

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 7:51pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:
So you knew she was he was sleeping with the househelp and you didn't send her away, immediately, and only decided to send her away when she stole from you? The story is not clear.


Yes, and that is because there may be no evidence to support that notion, so now that the husband reacted violently to her telling the house maid to leave the house, what does that tell you about the irresponsible husband? And even at that, you expect her to allow the maid to stay in the house after stealing from her?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 7:52pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:
So you knew she was he was sleeping with the househelp and you didn't send her away, immediately, and only decided to send her away when she stole from you? The story is not clear.
HUH? angry Didn't someone hail some woman called Chioma for accepting her cheating husband in the name of peace? Why is it unclear when another woman accepts cheating from her husband but not a house help stealing her property? grin

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 7:52pm On Apr 23
Zonefree:
Who brought the house help into the house? Why should a sane woman bring a matured woman in her home in the name of house help?


When a married woman is not having her ways with her husband, she tends to accuse the innocent husband of sleeping with the house help.





Accuse? Why did the husband react violently to a six month pregnant woman when she wanted the house maid to leave?

And where is it said in the article that the house maid is a matured woman

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:00pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:



Accuse? Why did the husband react violently to a six month pregnant woman when she wanted the house maid to leave?

And where is it said in the article that the house maid is a matured woman
The house help is matured, if not, the bittered ex wife would have been calling the innocent man a Paedophile all over social media.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:05pm On Apr 23
Creamypie:
Forget this emotional blackmail. Na women way.na Only lazy and incompetent wives have househelps. Let's hear from the husbands side first. See how quick she was to assert the house help was his babe, as if she knew it all along and kept quiet. Madam talk truth


1) Emotional blackmail when empty of what to say, you live with them to know what really happened abi?

2)You must be a crazy clown for the bolded you spewed

3) I thought Davido's chioma should be the "rolls modens" of every married woman for peace to reign according to morally bankrupt males like you, why are you shocked that she accepted her husband's "babe" and drew the line on stealing?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Mariangeles(f): 8:09pm On Apr 23
The man that did this is possessed by legion of demons, and needs deliverance ASAP before he's destroyed.
No person in their right mind can do this to anyone.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:10pm On Apr 23
Zonefree:

The house help is matured, if not, the bittered ex wife would have been calling the innocent man a Paedophile all over social media.

The cheating irresponsible violent ex is innocent? How?

Why exactly wouldn't she be bitter to someone that almost killed her?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:15pm On Apr 23
Kajaard:
This is the wives version of the story. I don't give verdicts until I hear both sides of the story (inclusive of the husbands version).

Because people twist tales to get sympathy from online in-laws like us angry


Na so, a man is the aggressor so logic failed you

Reverse this scenario and watch this thread fly to 20 pages filled with insults from men without hearing both sides.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Creamypie(m): 8:16pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:



1) Emotional blackmail when empty of what to say, you live with them to know what really happened abi?

2)You must be a crazy clown for the bolded you spewed

3) I thought chioma should be the "rolls modens" of every married woman for peace to reign according to morally bankrupt males like you, why are you shocked that she accepted her husband's "babe" and draw the line on stealing?


thats y you are a fool. If she really believed that he was dating her, y did she wait until she "stole" b4 asking her 2 leave? What makes her think she stole it. Pls get off my mention
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:22pm On Apr 23
Creamypie:
thats y you are a fool. If she really believed that he was dating her, y did she wait until she "stole" b4 asking her 2 leave? What makes her think she stole it. Pls get off my mention

I won't get off your mention, you will learn logic tonight

With the way the husband reacted violently to this scenerio, what makes you think she hasn't been asking the maid to leave without the husband stopping her effort? What makes you think the maid didn't steal? Were you there? Are you the husband? Are you the thief?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:25pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:


The cheating irresponsible violent ex is innocent? How?

Why exactly wouldn't she be bitter to someone that almost killed her?

Almost killed her? What proof do you have?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Caaz: 8:26pm On Apr 23
So many fools supporting the man, because they're abusing their betterhalves at home.


Messed up entities,so many of them are doing worst to their wives at home.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:30pm On Apr 23
Zonefree:

Almost killed her? What proof do you have?


Comprehension failed you? The broken glass and "sustained serious injuries" in the article skipped your eyesight? Serious injuries can't lead to death?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:41pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:



Comprehension failed you? The broken glass and "sustained serious injuries" in the article skipped your eyesight? Serious injuries can't lead to death?
So, you believed the words of a jilted and bittered ex Nigerian wife? undecided

What if she broke the glass? And where are the photos of her "sustained serious injuries"?

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:46pm On Apr 23
Zonefree:

So, you believed the words of a jilted and bittered ex Nigerian wife? undecided

What if she broke the glass? And where are the photos of her "sustained serious injuries"?



So we should believe you, an unknown moniker on a faceless forum instead of a woman that voluntarily said her story?

Why not go to her page and ask her for details since you think you are that important to know more of what happened.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by emperor4love(m): 8:50pm On Apr 23
Una de try de marry mad people ooh
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:59pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:



So we should believe you, an unknown moniker on a faceless forum instead of a woman that voluntarily said her story?

Why not go to her page and ask her for details since you think you are that important to know more of what happened.
Women supporting women in full glare.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Tallesty1(m): 9:04pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:
So you knew she was he was sleeping with the househelp and you didn't send her away, immediately, and only decided to send her away when she stole from you? The story is not clear.
Normals na. Most times when a man stands up for a house help, next thing they do is to accuse him of sleeping with her.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 9:13pm On Apr 23
Zonefree:

Women supporting women in full glare.


Rest

Don't support women in your family when put in harms way, that's your business.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Apr 23
Tallesty1:
Normals na. Most times when a man stands up for a house help, next thing they do is to accuse him of sleeping with her.

This is how he stands up for the house help? 😒

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:21pm On Apr 23
Kobojunkie:
HUH? angry Didn't someone hail some woman called Chioma for accepting her cheating husband in the name of peace? Why is it unclear when another woman accepts cheating from her husband but not a house help stealing her property? grin
Lol
NO woman will accept cheating from her husband when the cheating is CONTINUOUS, in the SAME HOUSE she lives, and with a MAID she has CONTROL over.
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:

Lol
NO woman will accept cheating from her husband when the cheating is CONTINUOUS, in the SAME HOUSE she lives, and with a MAID she has CONTROL over.
I disagree! There are cases out there of women accepting the maid as second wife. grin

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:28pm On Apr 23
Biglittlelois:



Yes, and that is because there may be no evidence to support that notion, so now that the husband reacted violently to her telling the house maid to leave the house, what does that tell you about the irresponsible husband? And even at that, you expect her to allow the maid to stay in the house after stealing from her?
On the matter of evidence, did she mention any evidence that the maid actually slept with her husband or even stole from her? Did she mention what she supposedly stole from her? What if the maid was actually a hardworking, honest person that bothered the children (if any) and husband really liked, and when madam is beating her for stealing what might have just got lost, the husband decided to speak out for her? We all know that in most households with maids, the man dare not defend the maid when madam is beating her for fear of madam claiming they're sleeping together.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:29pm On Apr 23
Kobojunkie:
I disagree! There are cases out there of women accepting the maid as second wife. grin
You go tell me which village you come from make I go check grin
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 10:46pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:

On the matter of evidence, did she mention any evidence that the maid actually slept with her husband or even stole from her? Did she mention what she supposedly stole from her? What if the maid was actually a hardworking, honest person that bothered the children (if any) and husband really liked, and when madam is beating her for stealing what might have just got lost, the husband decided to speak out for her? We all know that in most households with maids, the man dare not defend the maid when madam is beating her for fear of madam claiming they're sleeping together.


So with all your baseless assumptions, the best way for the husband to defend the housemaid is to throw a glass table on a 6 month pregnant woman and seriously injure her in the process? Serious injuries that can be life threatening?

You people will say anything, literally anything even if it sounds stupid, just to defend an idiot because he's a man.

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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 11:16pm On Apr 23
thesicilian:
∆ You go tell me which village you come from make I go check grin
Abeg no bring village inside wetin dey. undecided
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:53am On Apr 24
Zonefree:
Who brought the house help into the house? Why should a sane woman bring a matured woman in her home in the name of house help?


When a married woman is not having her ways with her husband, she tends to accuse the innocent husband of sleeping with the house help.




Exactly.

You know their tactics quite well.
Na mumu dey believe their blackmailing stories

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