A fried had this to say,dont knw how true it is,bt sumhow its correct,wats ur take on this..here's d statement: The 1st stage of a relationship/friendship..is always d hormonal n dillusional stage,wit lots of fantacies n wit mind chemistry wit no true feelings....:The 2nd stage is d settling stage or level,were d mind chemistry n over hormone secretions slides down a bit,n differences sets in,while d 3rd stage b4 a potential breakup or marriage sets in is :The Reality state,all forms of fantacies ar dead n gone nw,wit jst maturity level n true affection determining the pace thereafter........share ur Views,....

Very correct op. In fact @ the 1, 2 and 3rd months into a relationship all u see is a perfect spouse. U almost in lust with everything abt him or her.