Real quick question? I have everything, we are both from well to do homes but she’s never satisfied. She steals my money hijacks my ATM cards and withdraw from my bank without my consent because of her I have just one ATM now I don’t trust her anymore.

We were arranged by our families I never dated anyone before her and I am kinda in love with her now, I am afraid one day she would take this habit outside and disgrace our family names, I have told my mum she says not to worry she’s still a kid, she’s frigging 24 how’s she a kid? I am scared of talking to her, she’s hot tempered and flares at any given provocation but I love her.

I heard from her brother she steals from her people also, should I just let her be? Maybe leave meager sums at her so she can be contented to just steal those and not go outside.


P.S


She has her own money.


Anonymous



So it’s cool when she steals from you and her folks as long as she doesn’t take it outside? What makes you think she hasn’t already? Check her history very well you would hear stories of something that might intrigue you.


You love her but you’re scared of her, that’s not love. Your parents arranged her for you and she’s the first girl you have dated, this speaks a lot on your tolerance, she steals from you and also threatens you but yet you love her and have even made plans to sate the beasts by providing meager sums at home so she doesn’t steal from others, clap for yourself.


Love isn’t blind stupid or ignorant, love is an actionable cause that puts our emotions in check, you cannot be scared of who you love, respect is different from fear, your girlfriend needs a therapist, she’s a kleptomaniac and indulging her will only worsen her case, man up and talk to her, when she flares be calm and still buttress your point and if she feels the sword is mightier than the hand remind her that without the hand the sword is useless and the same hand can be used to destroy the sword, or one day you might wake up and discover your whole life has been hijacked.


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/how-do-i-cope-with-thieving-girlfriend.html

The easiest thing to do is break up, while the hardest thing to do is to help her seek for deliverance.

Hot tempered...steals a lot...




A huge turn off for me..

You are scared of talking to your girlfriend? Bro, how old are you? You better trash that family arrangement bull.shit and work on getting into an ideal relationship.... For your own sanity and peace of mind.

Police is ur friend...stop looking for a way to cope.

obiorathesubtle:



Report that thief to the authorities jor.. Ole!

it is still a family affair

for such a kleptomania, u have to take it spiritual I mean prayer because there is a reason for that which she might not know

Beat her whenever she steals

Oma307:
for such a kleptomania, u have to take it spiritual I mean prayer because there is a reason for that which she might not know

prayer and therapy

dimexy247:
Beat her whenever she steals

really

That last paragraph got me ROTFL

Don't worry,she will steal your future,your ambitions,your future children

because she is your first love,that's why its doing you gra gra....

Hot temperedcool one,you can't even speak/correct your wife to be make she no go break bottle for yah head...and you think your marriage would be rosy You are on a long thing

And which one is thieving again@the topic's name

Why would she steal when she has everything.


I think its psychological she needs therapy.

Or better yet if she thief again put pepper for her eyes n kpekus or make she spend 1 night for police cell.she go know.