It's very simple.

To avoid infidelity in marriage, don't marry/get married. It's that simple.
I've said it several times that we are too different to live together.

Since the advent of social media and the emergence of these bittered feminists, in association with men who walk around in female panties.

Men have been reduced to the same level with women, and it's so shocking that some men are part of such ridiculous and odoriferous movement.
I can't even imagine a full man with ibroobi and afuonu would think he is same with a woman.

A man pays your bride price, brings you into his house, feeds you and annihilate your bills. Then you think you have equal rights? Is that not madness?
Let's flip the coin. If a woman paid a man's dowry, and brings the man into her home, feeds the man and clothes him. How do you think the woman will behave towards the man?

She'll turn herself into the head of the family, with absolute authority. She begins to run her mouth like a runny tap. Resents the man and treats him like trash.

This is because women are not natural providers.

A man on the other hand pays a bride price. The bride price means the man is buying the absolute authority over his bride's sexuality.
It means you are buying this woman's womanhood. Her womb. Therefore, no other man must have access to it except you. Since you have paid for it.

Now, imagine if you've paid for a KG of meat, wrapped in a nylon to pick up later. And while you are on your way, you look ahead and you see the meat seller stealthily removing from your package to sell to another.

How will you feel? Great, awesome, or ecstatic?

You'd prolly feel betrayed, disappointed, and being taken for a fool.

What the '? I mean, the meat seller just stole from you, downplayed your common sense in the grand calculus of things. What you already paid for.

That's exactly how it feels when a woman cheats on her husband, her sexuality has been paid for, that she may keep it only for her husband. Or for which other purpose do you think men pay bride price. Are women really that worth it, if not to buy their loyalty?

If women think they have the right to cheat as men do. They should start paying groom's price too. Buy your husband's sexuality and feed him and clothe him without being resentful and disrespectful.

Now to you men(men with sense), the society creates a standard and forces everyone to live in accordance.

Those men who keep indulging women don't know that they are steadily undoing themselves, because, since we've given much liberation and a taste of power to women. Women now cheat more than men on a 3, 7 ratio. I mean, they thought, if men cheat, why can't they.

And so, you know, the ripple effect?

While you are out working your ass off to provide for your family. Your wife will sleep with a young boy who is very youthful, has stamina and by far better than you in bed.
Scream your his name while he is at it, and imagine him while she does it with you once in a month.

And you know what? She will enjoy it with him more than with you that she will start starving you of sex, and even take money from you to offset his bills.
And since you are so sex starved, you will look for a young girl, who has a boyfriend. And when boys see that married men are sleeping with their girlfriends, they will lose all morality and pay you back by sleeping with your wife the more.

If the boy got too sweet, she might even kill you and elope with the boy to spend your fortune. Meanwhile, these younger boys are really good in bed (boys wey dey smoke igbo, wey don dey watch porn since 14yo. If them handle your wife)


And the cycle keeps centrifuging.

Therefore, if you had money and you marry a wife in this 21st century. You are stupid. You can't even cheat. You married a 21st century woman. She put you out there on SM and your fellow men will persecute you. The same way you've been persecuting others.

However, if your wife no longer appealed to you , you can divorce her and place a young girl on a soft life with lots of enjoyment here and there. But divorce may get messy and she may part with your money and taunt you with your kids.

But what if you just have baby mamas? Lol! I mean baby mamas are very very understanding. You don't have to pay any stupid bride price, somebody will not whine like a horse when you sleep with another woman.
You don't have to worry whether someone is cheating or not.
You don't have to sponsor her family for anything, her younger siblings will not expect you to do shit for them.
If any of your baby mamas lost a family member, you dont have to be there for her. Just send her money.

You don't have to pretend around her family members so they can think you are cool.

If you are broke and you marry in this 21st century you are stupid. Rich men will pass your wife around like Jabulani soccer ball.

But the best way to go about this is to simply

GO YOUR OWN WAY.

Don't have anything sexual to do with women. Your life and your purpose should be your insomnia.

MONK_MODE_FOREVER

Deep!!! But can be disputed. One solution is not for all. I must give it to you though makes some sense.

blackboy:
Deep!!! But can be disputed. One solution is not for all. I must give it to you though makes some sense.

This is the gospel truth. The truth is not a respecter of persons.

What you said makes sense but bro, women are necessary evil.

They make the world colorful in their own way. Besides, there are exceptions amongst women and even if the exceptions don't negate the overall rules, one can be lucky to meet a woman who deserves a man's all.

People like us are no longer angered by women's games instead, we've accepted it and learnt to dish it out to them in the same dose.

Men just need more awareness and wake up call, don't hate the game, learn to play it too.

Regardless:
What you said makes sense but bro, women are necessary evil.

They make the world colorful in their own way. Besides, there are exceptions amongst women and even if the exceptions don't negate the overall rules, one can be lucky to meet a woman who deserves a man's all.

People like us are no longer angered by women's games instead, we've accepted it and learnt to dish it out to them in the same dose.

Men just need more awareness and wake up call, don't hate the game, learn to play it too.

The emboldened already showed the kinna person you are. I have nothing to say to you

This is truth 💯
I used to say this to some women who claim to be equal to men and can always cheat back.

Regardless:
What you said makes sense but bro, women are necessary evil.

They make the world colorful in their own way. Besides, there are exceptions amongst women and even if the exceptions don't negate the overall rules, one can be lucky to meet a woman who deserves a man's all.

People like us are no longer angered by women's games instead, we've accepted it and learnt to dish it out to them in the same dose.

Men just need more awareness and wake up call, don't hate the game, learn to play it too.

Too Much Sense Here.

If not the risk attached to this, this is just the way to go in this world. Lol

Regardless:
What you said makes sense but bro, women are necessary evil.

What a quaint and odious statement.

They make the world colorful in their own way. Besides, there are exceptions amongst women and even if the exceptions don't negate the overall rules, one can be lucky to meet a woman who deserves a man's all.

Casual sexism. How gracious of you to acknowledge that women, despite being inherently flawed (according to your benevolent gaze), manage to bring a splash of color to your dull, patriarchal world. And, wow, you even concede that there might be a few exceptions to the rule. How progressive of you. Another stunning display of patriarchal condescension.

People like us are no longer angered by women's games instead, we've accepted it and learnt to dish it out to them in the same dose.

It's nice to know that you'd rather eschew actual communication and empathy, just to embroil yourself in a vicious cycle of one-upmanship, where you are more focused on "winning" your partner than on fostering genuine connection and understanding. Good on you, sir.

Men just need more awareness and wake up call, don't hate the game, learn to play it too.

Your "game" metaphor only works if the prize isn't basic human decency.

FRANCISTOWN:
It's very simple.

To avoid infidelity in marriage, don't marry/get married. It's that simple.
I've said it several times that we are too different to live together.]

You make it sound like it is only womem who cheat whereas, it is men who started this madness and called every non cheating woman a fool.

So, just is has finally heard the womeb's case and has given them the right to do to men all that you men did to them.

So stop shouting and serve your punishments for when The Law was on your side you did not care nor hear the woman's cry. So no one should hear your cry. So stop shouting and making noise.

FRANCISTOWN:

This is the gospel truth. The truth is not a respecter of persons.

This is you trying to escape punishment. But no, no one can escape God's punishment.

Even if you do not marry, God''s punishment will still catch you and infact na dat one worse pass and na dat one na im go over pain you pass.

Mezigo:
This is truth 💯
I used to say this to some women who claim to be equal to men and can always cheat back.

You are living in the past man and in your ignorance else you should have known and remembered that this day was gonna come for the Truth you knew was that men are women are truly equal but because woman was the first to cheat is why you men then had the right to cheat.

https://www.nairaland.com/8069921/another-proof-eves-adultery-mens#129580640

But you people have finally messed it up and abused your right, so now the right has returned to the women.

StillDtruth:


This is you trying to escape punishment. But no, no one can escape God's punishment.

Even if you do not marry, God''s punishment will still catch you and infact na dat one worse pass and na dat one na im go over pain you pass.

You wish.

Op you are a smart man, but marriage shouldn't be avoided. The smart thing to do is to follow Hakimi example, make her regret ever cheating on you as she won't get anything from the divorce.
As for those saying women deserve to cheat because men cheated first, they fail to do half of what men do in a marriage but want equal right.

The problem with women today is accountability, they want to eat, but don't want to work for it. I have said it before, a robot is better than 21st century women, at least 98% of them

FRANCISTOWN:

You wish.

Your endless lamentations and hatred for women has already exposed you.

Jesse1991:
Op you are a smart man, but marriage shouldn't be avoided. The smart thing to do is to follow Hakimi example, make her regret ever cheating on you as she won't get anything from the divorce.
As for those saying women deserve to cheat because men cheated first, they fail to do half of what men do in a marriage but want equal right.

The problem with women today is accountability, they want to eat, but don't want to work for it. I have said it before, a robot is better than 21st century women, at least 98% of them

It's you men who taught them. Do you remember these threads?

https://www.nairaland.com/640696/being-good-girl-not-get#8067732

https://www.nairaland.com/1501707/why-men-takes-good-girls#19249815

https://www.nairaland.com/1159164/stay-there-forming-good-girl#13785382

So, your prayers have now being answered and now you people are wailing and complaining. Abeg make una no dey disturb neighbourhood with una cry na wetin una plant na im una dey chop.

FRANCISTOWN:
It's very simple.

To avoid infidelity in marriage, don't marry/get married. It's that simple.
I've said it several times that we are too different to live together.

Since the advent of social media and the emergence of these bittered feminists, in association with men who walk around in female panties.

Men have been reduced to the same level with women, and it's so shocking that some men are part of such ridiculous and odoriferous movement.
I can't even imagine a full man with ibroobi and afuonu would think he is same with a woman.

A man pays your bride price, brings you into his house, feeds you and annihilate your bills. Then you think you have equal rights? Is that not madness?
Let's flip the coin. If a woman paid a man's dowry, and brings the man into her home, feeds the man and clothes him. How do you think the woman will behave towards the man?

She'll turn herself into the head of the family, with absolute authority. She begins to run her mouth like a runny tap. Resents the man and treats him like trash.

This is because women are not natural providers.

A man on the other hand pays a bride price. The bride price means the man is buying the absolute authority over his bride's sexuality.
It means you are buying this woman's womanhood. Her womb. Therefore, no other man must have access to it except you. Since you have paid for it.

Now, imagine if you've paid for a KG of meat, wrapped in a nylon to pick up later. And while you are on your way, you look ahead and you see the meat seller stealthily removing from your package to sell to another.

How will you feel? Great, awesome, or ecstatic?

You'd prolly feel betrayed, disappointed, and being taken for a fool.

What the '? I mean, the meat seller just stole from you, downplayed your common sense in the grand calculus of things. What you already paid for.

That's exactly how it feels when a woman cheats on her husband, her sexuality has been paid for, that she may keep it only for her husband. Or for which other purpose do you think men pay bride price. Are women really that worth it, if not to buy their loyalty?

If women think they have the right to cheat as men do. They should start paying groom's price too. Buy your husband's sexuality and feed him and clothe him without being resentful and disrespectful.

Now to you men(men with sense), the society creates a standard and forces everyone to live in accordance.

Those men who keep indulging women don't know that they are steadily undoing themselves, because, since we've given much liberation and a taste of power to women. Women now cheat more than men on a 3, 7 ratio. I mean, they thought, if men cheat, why can't they.

And so, you know, the ripple effect?

While you are out working your ass off to provide for your family. Your wife will sleep with a young boy who is very youthful, has stamina and by far better than you in bed.
Scream your his name while he is at it, and imagine him while she does it with you once in a month.

And you know what? She will enjoy it with him more than with you that she will start starving you of sex, and even take money from you to offset his bills.
And since you are so sex starved, you will look for a young girl, who has a boyfriend. And when boys see that married men are sleeping with their girlfriends, they will lose all morality and pay you back by sleeping with your wife the more.

If the boy got too sweet, she might even kill you and elope with the boy to spend your fortune. Meanwhile, these younger boys are really good in bed (boys wey dey smoke igbo, wey don dey watch porn since 14yo. If them handle your wife)


And the cycle keeps centrifuging.

Therefore, if you had money and you marry a wife in this 21st century. You are stupid. You can't even cheat. You married a 21st century woman. She put you out there on SM and your fellow men will persecute you. The same way you've been persecuting others.

However, if your wife no longer appealed to you , you can divorce her and place a young girl on a soft life with lots of enjoyment here and there. But divorce may get messy and she may part with your money and taunt you with your kids.

But what if you just have baby mamas? Lol! I mean baby mamas are very very understanding. You don't have to pay any stupid bride price, somebody will not whine like a horse when you sleep with another woman.
You don't have to worry whether someone is cheating or not.
You don't have to sponsor her family for anything, her younger siblings will not expect you to do shit for them.
If any of your baby mamas lost a family member, you dont have to be there for her. Just send her money.

You don't have to pretend around her family members so they can think you are cool.

If you are broke and you marry in this 21st century you are stupid. Rich men will pass your wife around like Jabulani soccer ball.

But the best way to go about this is to simply

GO YOUR OWN WAY.

Don't have anything sexual to do with women. Your life and your purpose should be your insomnia.

MONK_MODE_FOREVER

Nice points