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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Tonididdyx: 11:31pm On Apr 30
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

You married a genZ


Na only God fit save you now as she get options sakpa for outside weydey disturb her steady.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Basicend: 11:36pm On Apr 30
Abee79:
I've learned from experience that anyone who threatens to leave you (even as a joke) has already left you a long time ago. You've just not yet realized it.

Not always.

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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Emmanuel909090: 12:01am On May 01
The earlier you let her go, the better for you, because she will eventually leave.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by frozen70(f): 1:10am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

You need to find out what are those things that causes problems, is it usually your fault or her fault

Have you ever have a heart to heart discussion with her about those little things that causes problems

Marriage is not really for everyone because it comes with great and worst challenges

If one is not prepared especially women, they will be acting strangely simply because they are not really prepared to face those challenges

Some women goes into marriage hoping that issues will not come up and when those issues comes up, they just want to win the case not minding that they are also dealing with a man that has his own upper case and expects you to respect him

At this point, she is getting fed up already, so when next she packs her things, just let her go as she wishes, after all, she is going to her father's house not to another man's house. Probably she needs a break because of the mental stress she may have been going through

You may even be the one giving her problems and unless she leaves to where she can breath, the problems will keep increasing especially now that she has a new baby

You on your own part, you don't even have time to give her attention and affection to know what the problem is. Women loves attention same way men loves sex

Let her do her wish but don't ever open mouth to tell her to pack out, all the faults and problems of that marriage will be on you

Lastly, don't ask her to drop your child if she wants to go, you can't even handle that child for a whole day, so let her be with her child

By the time she finally goes, you guys will now find out if you really need each other then you can visit her family to settle your matters

Just bear in mind that she will defeat you in any family matters you the time she stars her own complains

So if you don't want that embarrassment, start looking into what is causing problems and how to get it resolved

When you see some men managing their marriage, that doesn't mean they don't have sense, it means that they value their peace of mind

Women are full of dramas, only fully matured and understanding men can relate
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by JapaPrince: 2:35am On May 01
Your story is one sided, instead of seeking public opinion from strangers online, sit your wife down and communicate to the extent that she understands you.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Barcalee: 2:58am On May 01
diogo23:

Something somewhere is giving her hope , One day let her leave , stop keeping someone where she or he don't want to stay

God bless you!
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Barcalee: 3:01am On May 01
The next time she threatens you,allow her to leave. If she wants to leave with the child don't stop her it is to your advantage as it will not impede your daily movement and activities. Once she's gone change your locks and become incommunicado. But pls I beg you don't go back to her Egypt even if she pleads with the life of that baby. She's only coming back to finish you!

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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bigcasava1(m): 4:13am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
make my wife try me with this empty threat, na me go leave before she go leave
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bull67: 5:38am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue. My first question is which country are you living? Abroad or Nigeria?

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by bull67: 5:39am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
do you both live abroad or Nigeria?
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by igedanz(m): 6:33am On May 01
I had a personal experience on this Bro. After 10 years of marriage, my wife started same threat too; thought it was a joke. I stopped her in the first two attempts and thereafter, I decided to see the worst as well. When she came up with the third attempt, I allowed her. She packed her load and went away for a week to her people's place for a week. I remained calm and silent; never reported to anyone even with two children with me. After church intervention, she returned home. Three to four weeks after, she did same thing ( packed her load) and I kept mute too. Lo and behold, she ran back after 18 hours. Since then, I had my peace.
Man, you must hold your ground. After mild issue with her thereafter, I told her to pack as usual ... she said nobody can drive her out and that I have plans
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Aboo0123: 6:49am On May 01
Stop begging her not to leave. Let's her go jẹjẹly. However, ensure you have a solid plan on how to marry another wife or live joyfully after her departure so that loneliness won't kill you.

Meanwhile, once she leaves, don't take her back.

Cheers..
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by BALLOSKI: 7:27am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, [b]I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Oboy, tell her fvcking go. Don't ever allow that attitude to go on - you'll suffer it in the future. Don't allow any woman to use your weakness against you.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Morostical: 7:46am On May 01
That was how my colleague wife use to threatened him until he told her one day not to forget any of her belongings behind whenever she is leaving. Since that day, she no talk of leaving again. In fact, my colleague promised to give her transport money to assist her in her foolish decision.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Myer(m): 8:06am On May 01
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Was she forced into the marriage?
Was it a marriage outside wedlock?
Did you make promises to her you're not fulfilling?
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Gfrank07: 11:07am On May 01
A wife threatening to leave as already left Brother..Na Boboju marriage you dey.
I trust my myself..

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by emelda86(f): 12:44pm On May 01
Na gen z you marry na...
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:27pm On May 01
You want your wife to drop your child for you? You must be high on $ome cheap weed.

She should drop the child for you because you carried baby in womb for 9 months or what? angry angry

Learn to manage your young wife's excesses. Give your wife time to outgrow her natural girly characteristics. No one asked you to pick a very young wife, it was your choice.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Abee79(m): 3:49pm On May 01
Basicend:


Not always.
Mathew 12:34
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by antidote06: 5:31pm On May 01
thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.
I go like make we Bleep o..can't wait to use dis my huge dick go scattere ur puna
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Double0h7(f): 7:49pm On May 01
Going by the number of threads that you open on here complaining about your family, I would want to leave you too. God forbid being married to an effeminate man who yaps so much.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by pinkpumping: 12:41am On May 02
We need to hear from your wife too oga. You sure you are treating that lady very well?

And on the kid, the child belongs to both of you.
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Kingrshd3: 5:56am On May 02
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues


Heya d reality is she was prepared for sex wedding gown and love but she ain't prepare for the MARRIAGE itself 😊

She met what she didn't expect in terms of home chores duties streets management and d likes and yet her eye still dey outside logically too
And finally she ain't matured for marriage .

She taught all will be rosy staying with you and she has forgotten marriage was not like that ..


Well anytime she made an attempt again just open the door wide for her to leave because ur happiness is the first priority of life 😊
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Fredoh(m): 11:15am On May 05
Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

I used to have a girlfriend that behaved like that. She would threaten me with ending the relationship on any given opportunity.

I tolerated it for a while because she was a small girl, though I was older but I was still young then. After I got tired we ended it.

She reported me to her Aunt who was a friend and my neighbor to beg me. She also begged for forgiveness.

The issue now is. We are now well mature and very due for marriage. But I’m scared of marrying her because of such matters as the above.

I have a feeling that even in her matured self, that tendency may still remain.

OP, follow your mind and I wish you the best ‼️
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Fredoh(m): 11:31am On May 05
abobote:
I will be glad any day my wife pack her things and said she is leaving.

I'm choking already

😂 Bad buy‼️
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Dshocker(m): 7:36am On May 11
immaculatengang:
Anytime she repeats that nonsense please don't try to stop her and don't bother calling her parents.
If they are worried why their daughter is with them let them do the calling. Please act like man and take charge. Stop behaving like a kid.

He is supposed to call the parents to inform them before hand, should in case, anything happens to her.

Besides, she wouldn't want to go back to her family, either she goes squat with a friend, or moves in with another man.

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