lacasera14:
It'll take the grace of God to restore your marriage. But your wife was too fast to involved the entire family. She may regret it later. This something she should have dealt with you privately. Even if she forgives you, her family may not. Marry wise women.

What does he need her family's forgiveness for? Are they feeding him ? They can furcking go to hell. O.P is free to marry another wife. Qed

jaxxy:
Cheating in marriage is completely unacceptable. U must know and accept this from the day u propose.

Sow all ur wild oats b4 then if u must and close that chapter for good if u are ready and serious about marriage.

u fumbled and must make amends, start by calling ur family, inlaws etc and apologise for ur misbehaviour let them speak to ur wife on ur behalf then try to speak with her.

Boredom is not a reason to cheat.

If O.P's wife was servicing him properly, he wouldn't have the strength or even any reason to stray outside for external pussy. Cheating is acceptable in marriage when your partner decides to be stuupid

DrAkpamudehe:


If O.P's wife was servicing him properly, he wouldn't have the strength or even any reason to stray outside for external pussy. Cheating is acceptable in marriage when your partner decides to be stuupid

He never complained that she wasn't servicing him properly. He relocated to another state briefly for work and turned into an animal overnight.

Cheating is a choice and a character flaw because u have not worked on ur emotions, self control and mindset to say no to what is clearly wrong with regards to ur marriage.

PerfectStranger:
Crying like you're not the bread winner of the house. Instead of getting your shìt together. Are you not a man?

All these Genz kids jumping into marriage. Can't even cheat successfully

They Can't Even Cheat Like a Man ...

Oh Sorry, They are Children of Baby Mamas

adams123:


So na STDS be your own problem in all this, STDs is treatable within just 2 week ma

So because some stds can be cured within 2 weeks means the wife should be fine with treating stds every 2 weeks abi? Do you know the effects of that to the immune system? And you went to school oo, are you supposed to be told these things? You don't even know that there are incurable stds like herpes in this day and age? Smh.

NiRfreak:

A man is never bound to a woman...u people should have sense....
If so, how did polygamy became so natural all over the world cultures

You need sense in abundance, a man is not bound to a woman but you want a woman to be bound to a man abi? No wonder these days some women are on a cheating spree with paternity fraud as the icing on the cake, but guess who is crying the most? Men. You want women to tolerate your bullshit but cry wolf when women do the same, very funny

This marriage thing is very simple, if you are a polygamous man, date women who don't mind polygamous men, they abound everywhere, but do not deceive a woman into a monogamous marriage then expect her to sit pretty and endure when you start to look outside, the wise ones will show you another side of them you never thought existed.

adecz:






Are you trying to toast me❓❓😎😎😎



I nor like gossip, gossip, pokenosing
gurls & from the shape of your mouth
and the way your eyes dey move like NEPA meter, you are definitely one of them....


No be me tell your man to leave you,
so don't vent your anger on my innocent self..

I feel very pained, your teenage rant has finished me 😢🤡

Maysdevices:



I feel very pained, your teenage rant has finished me 😢🤡

You being finished is better 👍 for you,
me and the entire NL family❗️❗️❗️😉


Pls remain " finished" as you take your
mouth talk...

schoolboymatt:
men are polygamous, she will get over it.

Only if she nigga fit managed her shock if not, That Marriage don end ....

The Man Failed Menhood

advanceDNA:
Is it just me....cos once I see stories with random internet pics at attached...I just feel it's a bunch of made up stories

It's mostly made up but Much Shee dey happen sha ...

We shaa go dey learn from am made up or not ... Like Hollywood or anywood!

advanceDNA:


Or she will prove women can also fvck multiple dîcks by cheating....and add paternity fraud as jàrà....


This is 2024 ooooo....everybody is polygamous now

Omoooo .... E Don Cast

Double0h7:
Just to be clear, you didn’t cheat, you committed adultery. You broke your vows to God, your family and your wife. I really hope she gets a divorce from you.

Life no be like that Jhare ... Calm down!

illuminutty:


As in eh. Nonsense.

As the man of my house and home, if my partner caught me cheating, she is in trouble. If she is caught or I hear say she is cheating, she is gone. No time for nonsense.

Meanwhile, this hacker has been calling everyone in our group whatsapp trying to hack their phone. Please Be warned.

DonroxyII:
Omoooo .... E Don Cast

Over cast seff

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

You feel so bad that you betrayed her or because you got caught? Honestly answering this question is key to solution.

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

I like you bro

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

Your wife doesn't love you
She doesn't respect you
She don't want the marriage
And she's fucking another guy.


Apologies but this is the truth!


She probably wanted out and you disgust her!


If not, habaaaaaa na

I hate posts like this..

Simply of zero economic importance.

While you were nurturing the plans of hitting the away kpekus, you no tell anybody..just only you.

The matter don cast, you're here disturbing our peace.

Si ebe a puō now!!

I detest posts like this..

Simply of zero economic importance.

Nigga, when you were busy nursing and nurturing your plans and formation of hitting that away kpekus, you told no soul.

Now, your matter don cast and BOOM!!...your begging for advice.

Si ebe a puō now oo...puō from hia oo!!

Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

You wrote all this ontop some1 matter?

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

first get the police and arrest the lady for recording you with out consent. It illegal. Now your wife did the right thing because you will still cheat again. If you decide to change go and beg her

Houseofglam7:
Yikes 😬

Deny everything

Wotowotoman:


Brighter Grammar highly recommended for you…

Thank you professor.