Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.

Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.

Mynd_44:
In MMM's room screaming

Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

M M M: Op
Just carry lie maintain ur big boy status

Mynd_44: If she really loves you, she will understand you position and reduce her asking. But if she does not understand, then you need to fume her and move on

igetsbizy: Being broke is not a thing anybody likes to be called but in the economy we find ourselves in today we have more broke people than rich people. Well, kindly share your experiences with dating a broke man, or your experiences as a broke man in a relationship. Personally, I just finished my NYSC and still searching for a job so things are really hard also I am in a relationship with a very financial cautious/high maintanace lady. I cant begin to explain the embarrassment, failed promises and let downs because of lack of cash ... Ladies in the house please share with us on how you have managed in a relationship with a broke person and Gents please share with us on how you managed the relationship before things got better...

ayobase:

I thought there is always a woman behind every successful man!

gmyguy: your type...we lay or try to lay and say bye...this is for the Take home to mama

Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.

1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

M M M: Op
Just carry lie maintain ur big boy status

jenny b: @OP! My sincere advice to u is to discontinue d relationship and first sort urself out and den d ladies will flock. trust me. nah! nah!! nah!!! i cant date a guy dats broke! but if u get broke after i met u fine i will keep faith and help work out things!

komek: look her pix and see the kinda of gurl she is.

Luv Mercy: we bam,gals need money just as guys need sex in the relationship,so everybody should meet up.

Gabriel_sylar: bur how can u even date without money....COS ME WHEN AM BROKE ALL TYPE OF EMOTIONS DISSAPEAR...I dont even look women in they eye...talkeless of relationship....NO CASH NO EMOTIONAL..NO EMOTIONS..NO OTHER MOTION.....

JesusDWay: But seriously, should relationships be about how competent a guy is in maintaining a lady? I mean, why do people give an impression that when you are in a relationship with a lady, she automatically becomes your responsibility? How has she been taking care of herself before you two met? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with giving gifts (which should be either ways) but eh, i think we need a reorientation about relationships in this part of the world. I dont think relationships should be reduced to role-playing, that wont give a true definition of it. I think culture and poverty has been causes to our perception of relationships and one should expect some changes in this 21st Century. A lady may only become your responsibility when you are married to her, and i do think the lady as well ought to in some way make herself productive. For a lady to only live on what she can get from men may make her nothing but a property when she gets married eventually. I think folks should read Proverbs 31:10-31. May God help us

komek: look her pix and see the kinda of gurl she is.