I'm learning this thing called "relationship"

Guys, wat could the lady you are intending to marry do that frustrate and hurt you?
Ladies, wat are the things you do to hurt/frustrate him?

Share wt me, and let me learn smthing from you.

What a lady could to frustrate me?

1. Lies: A lie is one of the romantic disasters that could make an individual live the rest of his or her life unable to trust the member of the opposite sex.

Relationships are bent on trust right from day one. Let’s say you meet a girl today, you both talk and exchange numbers; you know within you that something’s moving and really something did move. But as time went on, you later found out that he or she had been lying to you all this while; you would feel devastated, you would feel frustrated, you would find it hard trusting someone else even if the person is genuine; that’s one thing that frustrates me in a relationship.

2. Ex-lover: You can be in a relationship with a girl who just broke up with a guy say two weeks ago; and as that relationships lingers on, you begin to notice that the guy won’t just let go. He keeps on calling and texting begging like someone who never had the opportunity to express himself before a woman. That also frustrates me and can lead to me quitting that relationship; because I wouldn’t want to be in a position whereby a girl would have to choose between me and someone else.

3. Unnecessary Responsibility: you see, you can meet a girl today and she would begin to tell you all sorts of stories; my mum had a accident and she’s hospitalized and the doctor said we should bring so so and so amount, my younger sister has malaria and the price for her medicine is so so and so, my younger brother fell from the stairway, I want to enroll for a course and the price is so so and so.

A relationship between a guy and a girl has nothing to do with attached responsibilities; such things would only frustrate the guy and that may lead to the end of that relationship.

Crazykid

True that, But funny still. nice one.

Ok i would tell u that one main thing that can frustrate a man like that is

***Dating him for aa very long time, then the wedding plans comes in, u finish preparing everything remaining the date fixxture. Then it comess the bomb shell, both of u are sitted to rub minds on the perfect date for the wedding, then she says :" Sorry my dear i dont think i can cope with this relationship again"
    Then as if that is not enaf she gets married to a very good friend of urs the next month. u can imagiune how frustratin that would be. Besides u aree 30.

A relationship u put ur all into and u see it falling gradually. HOW WOULD U FEEL - FRUSTRATED I GUESS. Lies as well frustrates men alot.

If you don't follow the 10 insights at below that lead you a frustration choosing wrong one you love with.

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Lieing, when she does not reciprocate your love, when she takes you for maga. alot ja re

@Crazykid
I agree with everything you said.all of that fustratses me also.

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A guy that lies would fustrate me.

blackgucci:

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LOLROFLSCAMAO , . . .  .abeg, i won't allow you to kill me here o!

@ effuah,and you no go die
*how's the young chap?*