bukatyne: oga highbros, y don't u tell us how old u re b4 we can give u proper advice?

bennyraz: Joblessness is the cause of this nansense.. Why would u date a teenager? For what na? Even going as far to propose marriage? Is that not the peak of madness? When they are so many sisi's out there in their prime looking for husbands @OP, i wonder how you manage to toast her o? And i sense you've disvirgined her.. Craddle robber. Remember, what goes around comes around ''nemesis''. The Good lord will bless you with girlz and it will only take the grace of God for them not to be handled the way you're handling another man's daughter. Perv.

slimyem: She's 18!
Let her live a little bro!
She's right to want a first degree before marriage.
If you want to help her through school,do it because you are helping a friend in need..not because you are expecting her sticking with you and eventual marriage as payback!
...and yes,if you plan to wait,you are going to have to compete with her peers for her attention and committment while she's in school.
..and there's absolutely no guarantee she'd end up with you!

Highbros:
Hey, watch your mouth boy. I came here to seek advice not to get insulted especially by you. I'm not your mate. Must you always drag the past into current situations?

pro01: At 18 she is officially an adult, and is certainly old enough to get married. If she wants you to sponsor her higher education, she can as well marry you and then you'd send her to school AS your WIFE - even though we know she would cheat with other guys in school, but then she is already your wife. That is certainly a safer option, and unless she has ulterior motives (of using you as a financier for her education and dumping you thereafter), I see no reason why she should object to this offer. . .moreso when her parents are incapable of funding her education. Unless we're fooling ourselves, a young and beautiful poor girl in Nigeria has NO hope of going to school without a MAN's financial assistance, and of course the man would have his way with her in return - either merely in terms of sleeping with her, dating her long term, or marrying her. Frankly, she has no other alternative. Nothing goes for nothing.

Having said that, I have to point out that only complete mor0ns 'sponsor' a girl through school or even invest heavily in her life in any meaningful way - with the hope that she would be grateful in the end. I'm sure the OP has family members, relatives, and MALE friends that have greater need for such investment and support (with much higher chances of gratitude and payback, mind you). It's definitely better to 'waste' such investment on a family member or a male friend, rather than a random babe that would surely and ungratefully spite you in the end with no remorse whatsoever. I wonder why so many guys keep making this mistake in this day and age.

Anyways, I hope you've phucked the young girl and enjoyed her pristine body enough. It's time to dump her ass and leave her to her fate. She'll find another man (or men) that would be foolish enough to sponsor her education.

slimyem: She's 18!
Let her live a little bro!
She's right to want a first degree before marriage.
If you want to help her through school,do it because you are helping a friend in need..not because you are expecting her sticking with you and eventual marriage as payback!
...and yes,if you plan to wait,you are going to have to compete with her peers for her attention and committment while she's in school.
..and there's absolutely no guarantee she'd end up with you!

swtchicgurl:

Like seriously? this is pathetic! There's obviously more to Nigeria's problems than corruption!

swtchicgurl:

Like seriously? this is pathetic! There's obviously more to Nigeria's problems than corruption!

Chrisbenogor: ^^^

Why can she not go to school as his wife? Very bad investment sha, unless you want him to be a [size=16pt]pedophilie[/size]

I'm sure you meant 'paedophile', but I'll pardon you. I won't tell anyone.

Chrisbenogor: ^^^

Why can she not go to school as his wife? Very bad investment! unless you want him to be a pedophile and a charity case too. That is too much for only one bobo to carry now.

What exactly is your take on this issue? Besides, I'm glad you can read my fonts! Did you eventually change your phone like I advised?

swtchicgurl:

I'm sure you meant 'paedophile', but I'll pardon you. I won't tell anyone.




What exactly is your take on this issue? Besides, I'm glad you can read my fonts! Did you eventually change your phone like I advised?

Chrisbenogor:
HAHAHAHAHA na still based on my chinko phone oh. As for my spelling, na night school I still dey go because of one of these foolish girls wey chop my money run.
Anyways my point is, why is it 18 too young? Smacks of hypocrisy IMO.
The bobo likes teenagers so what? I asked you how young is too young?

You are young. *I mean this in a nice way*

I think it's usually better to marry a university graduate than a high school graduate, owing to value, responsibility, level of reasoning and exposure amongst other things.

swtchicgurl:

You are young. *I mean this in a nice way*

I think it's usually better to marry a university graduate than a high school graduate, owing to value, responsibility, level of reasoning and exposure amongst other things.

bukatyne: oga highbros, y don't u tell us how old u re b4 we can give u proper advice?

Chrisbenogor:
Awwwwww thanks !

True, key words "usually better". I am still waiting to see why it is wrong though, or is there no difference between usually better and wrong again?

swtchicgurl:

Don't let us derail the thread. The question was answered earlier by a poster.

Highbros: I don't understand girls these days o. I've been dating this girl for a year plus now and all has been going well with the relationship. I've been responsible for all her financial needs but the problem is; now she wants to go to the university, not that I have a problem with that but I proposed to her and she said yes but that'll be after her first-degree. that's where the problem is. This girl is 18 and very beautiful. The university is like freedom, anything can happen. Should I sponsor her to school first or?? Please, I need your advice.