lol,

Please,kindly render ur advice on this forum and my mail viz wesseyblack@yahoo.com

It happen that this girl(lady) is just employed about one month ago,and everybody is like saying guy go 4 that babe,uknow i did exactly what we guy use to do.

But instead of a positive reply that i'm xpecting this girl is like saying do I xpect a big girl like her to be lonely without having a guy.

So,i try to convice her that,baby u see no one knows who is the real man,so what if i am the real man and you just let me like that,her reply was that, had it been you are the guy i've been dating b4 will you like it(i mean be happy) to see tha a strange guy just hijack ur babe from you,so after a lot of arguement,she just said i should give her some time to it a second thought,u know and its going to like 2/3 weeks now.

The question is what are the necessary follow up that is xpected of me,to say the truth,i need the girl for a future partner coz she possess all my requirements.

Please this girl is making me mad,whats ur advice, plz be candid,this is not a joke,coz this is something that is bothring s/one.

Plz advice, can't wait to hear from you ASAP


Regards,
wesseyblack

Check out few existing threads here at below:

Office Dating For or Against?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99597.0.html

Office Romance: Would you date your colleague?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-206.0.html

Office, Club, Church, Internet, School for Dating?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3988.0.html

How Healthy Is Office Romance?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19867.0.html

hmnn, get crazy with her the, why be like a spent tyre

She says she is in a relationship so i suggest you let her be.You will see another lady that possesses more requirements that you see in her at present.

@wessyblack

How old are you?? Look here, this is a professional advice. I usually charge cosultation fees for this but i will give it to you free of charge. " The more you push, the more she pulls away". since you have made your intentions known to her, if you see her on daily basis, be cordial and polite with her and don't ask her about being your girlfriend anymore, she already knows the reason why you are being sweet. Let sweetness do the rest of the work for you. Women has a thingy for sweetness, and if you don't bore her to death about being her B/F, trust me you will hit that G spot with time. Because all she's doing now is sizing you up !!!


@iyke

Women are always in a relationships. It's a free world, venture in if you have what it takes and you never know she might be made for you. It's not a crime to try.

Sweet T:



@iyke

Women are always in a relationships. It's a free world, venture in if you have what it takes and you never know she might be made for you. It's not a crime to try.

hhhmmmm, even when she's already in a relationship. hhhhmmmmm i see

@Thionaslim
Yes, even when she is in relationship. The point is, you are not asking for a piece of @ss you are only asking to be a friend. Know one knows who might make a better, it's like a chocolate box. Even if a woman is in abusive relatioship, are suggesting that a better man should not save her from an abuser ?

Interesting point of view
i believe if she's in an abusive relationship, she should be wise enough to know the relationship doesn't favor her and leave. she shouldn't need a second guy to tell her to quit an abusive relationship.

And what if she isn’t in an abusive relationship?

Would she quit it just because the starter of the thread said he likes her?

Would she break another guys heart just to favour this guy?

Like sweet T already said uve made ur point.so dont bore the poor newbie wit anymore of ur
be ma GF rymes.Reason is this, if u fail to compose urself now and act like all dats to be said has already bin said.
she mite get the impression u probably make passes at every new girl in ur office.am sure u dont want dat.
Besides,how wud u like some1 dats making u crazy? Isn't dat craze in itself?

@crazykid

True talk.

crazykid:

And what if she isn’t in an abusive relationship?

Would she quit it just because the starter of the thread said he likes her?

Would she break another guys heart just to favour this guy?

Gbam