I split wt my ex 3yrs ago. But still i love him n he doesn't keep in touch. Also am having series of revelations dat he is my husband. Am 33 now, met him wen i waz 27. Mature minds pls.

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janetbasse: I split wt my ex 3yrs ago. But still i love him n he doesn't keep in touch. Also am having series of revelations dat he is my husband. Am 33 now, met him wen i waz 27. Mature minds pls.

well, first of all I think you got the section wrong. but that doesn't mean I cant say something meaningful



It is important to define the nature of your "revelations". If they come in dream forms, visions, dejavu or stuff like that. then you can conclude where they come from.

I hate to break it to you hun but I think he gone. In that 3years, has he popped back around or have u guys had anything (long or short) in between? cos when you still love him as much as you seemingly do after 3 years then......

I guess you should free yourself and let him go. The quicker you let go of him (in your mind) the easier you will give it to someone else and that may bring the warm, loving, beautiful relationship you deeply crave for.
We cant all get what we really want. what matters is what we do with what it is we eventually get.

You are probably still seeing revelations of him because at this point, you are single and desperate. Choooiiii --- sorry to hear.

I don't believe he is your husband but at this point, you are single and desperate. Goodluck to you Ms. All the best.

I'm afraid I'm with Area Boy on this. Unfortunately, dreams, visions et al r sometimes stimulated by ur sub conscious. Eccl 5:7 says out of the multitude of dreams n many words, there's vanity. This might b the case if you r lonely or have held him up to b some form of standard.

Its so good lovin somebodi, wen somebodi luvs yu back....Does he luv U? I think not as he'd av tried 2 kip in touch if he did.

At 33, u'd best move on, which is wat I'll tell my friend. If u're convinced it's God (I never argue wit any1 who says he/she heard from God), I'll say you shd mayb prayerfully agree wit God a timeframe in which ur ex comes back or yu move on. I'm curious tho, av u bin chillin 3 yrs for him?