shushu: oh stop whining
All you have written is all about you.
i was busy
blah blah.
The lady is gone, dont make the same mistake next time.Life isnt only about you and waiting till you pray, whilst everything else should hold on

I also think that you have to be very sure before you chose to marry someone. If you are not sure, don't do it and don't get pressured. I don't want to rush in and rush out. I need to take my time.

chaircover: Someone has nicked obowunmi's ID

however if it is the born again obowunmi, then listen to Debriefs advise although I am seriously not getting the meet in May, marry in November or I must marry this year thingy.

Same thing I thought...if someone is meant for you, why do you need to rush?

Was I that comedic? and why don't y''all believe me.

I am thinking of writing her a check for 250,000 naira as a gift... I hope this won't be insulting. Maybe money can buy her love.

CC, I am being serious. No jokes here.

i will beg her. thx for ur advice

I have to agree this person does not sound like obowunmi. The obowunmi I know is not a mouth maker like this .....I mean the 250k talk

Why did I bother self? Should have listened to mad superior

jennykadry: I have to agree this person does not sound like obowunmi. The obowunmi I know is not a mouth maker like this .....I mean the 250k talk

Why did I bother self? Should have listened to mad superior

How about its because I am really emotional right now.....ehn?

obowunmi:
Do you think that we can get back together? I got so angry that I abused her. I know that she loves me but was very afraid because she did not know where she stands with me. By the time that I am sure of her, she has already moved on.

Her being engaged, does that mean God answered my prayers? If so, why am I hurting so much? Why do I miss her so much? Can anyone help me?

U Abused her??!!!...This conversation is over!

yes sir, i know you are not a mind reader.....
But if you go back and read what several people have said,you are not communicating with the lady and pls dont make the same mistake with the next person.

obowunmi:

Ok, what do you think I should do now? Forget her? Write her a love letter telling her how I really feel? I've already abused her. Will it be worth it?

Kai, everything is confusing me about your post.

1. what do you mean by you abused her?

2. What has the plane crash got to do with yoru relatiosnhip?

3. Are you married? you said you prayed about marital situation that you are not happy about? Yo!! man, i am confused.

Obowunmi is in love.

Those advising him, how many ppl know the meaning of his ID

dayokanu: Obowunmi is in love.

Those advising him, how many ppl know the meaning of his ID

lol @ meaning of ID

Shollypopz:
U Abused her??!!!...This conversation is over!

why now? wetin I do you. I was immature and angry.

shushu: yes sir, i know you are not a mind reader.....
But if you go back and read what several people have said,you are not communicating with the lady and pls dont make the same mistake with the next person.

I won't thanks!

ronkebp:

Kai, everything is confusing me about your post.

1. what do you mean by you abused her?

2. What has the plane crash got to do with yoru relatiosnhip?

3. Are you married? you said you prayed about marital situation that you are not happy about? Yo!! man, i am confused.

I'm confused too!....

dayokanu: Obowunmi is in love.

Those advising him, how many ppl know the meaning of his ID

I wan retire jooor... no spoil my show abeg.

obowunmi:

I'm confused too!....

Why won't you??, that is why you do not have answers to you problem!!!!

ronkebp:

Why won't you??, that is why you do not have answers to you problem!!!!

abi ooo... are you single?

This guy is not serious, i just wasted my time reading this

Igabe: This guy is not serious, i just wasted my time reading this

I'm serious ooo. Additional advice. Just sent her a love letter and a check. Thx!

Let it go. Shes gone. You were caught napping. Accept defeat and move on. Next time you will have a goal, focus and try to accomplish it. It will help to act mature and not be playing games. People get bored of games, and move on only for you to find out you were playing yourself all along. Goodluck

2mch: Let it go. Shes gone. You were caught napping. Accept defeat and move on. Next time you will have a goal, focus and try to accomplish it. It will help to act mature and not be playing games. People get bored of games, and move on only for you to find out you were playing yourself all along. Goodluck

Thanks! I wasn't playing games. Just taking my time. All is well. If someone is meant for you, why do you need to rush?

obowunmi:

Thanks! I wasn't playing games. Just taking my time. All is well. If someone is meant for you, why do you need to rush?

Your time, and what you see as rush is different for another person. This is where communication is important. If she was that important to you am sure you would have compromised. Being that you are now crying all over this thread. Lesson learned, just move on. You were always the alternative anyway. The main guy was just sharper.

Thx bro! I appreciate.