We often hear people say "good girls marry bad guys and vice versa". We usually have the believe that players settle with the best of girls and bad babes also marry the best of men.

If all the above are true, then does it mean that to a very large extent the law of karma doesn't happy when it comes to issues of romance?

Why can one who is honest, chaste, God fearing and a strong spiritual person end up marrying an extremely opposite person?

Does it mean God punishes people with a bad partner?

We have the freewill to choose who we want to be with. You {in general terms} cannot blame God for decisions you make.

Evidence of truth is writing all over your post.........but i totally disagree with your 'topic'

Or could we conclude that when God has destined the right partner for some peopl, they usually are too impatient for God's prescribed time in their live and as such hurriedly end up with the wrong partner.

I.E, God might have destined a woman to meet her Mr Right after she clocks 33years, but due to peer pressure and societal condemnation she hurries to settle down with just any type of man that comes her way so she can also belong to the "Mrs" club.

Unlike poles attract.

If a all gud men marry all gud women, there is a high tendency dat d children wil be gooder(better).
Likewise, bad patners wil result to badder(worse) ofspring

hence the bad wil be badder and d gud wil be better. Is dis wat u want?

Why should a lady who has been chaste, God fearing, humble and very well behaved eventually find herself ending up with a flirt, womanizer, drunk and probably a woman beater.

God gives free will to choose a partner, he doesn't designate each one to anybody so that u don't blame him when your partner doesn't suit you. It's a choice we make. He only gave guidelines on how to Choose wisely.

acidtalk: Why should a lady who has been chaste, God fearing, humble and very well behaved eventually find herself ending up with a flirt, womanizer, drunk and probably a woman beater.

not everything has an explanation, and sometimes we need to pray for the sins of our parents not to be visited on us.

like i always say, people have long memories.

D main thing in choosing a partner is COMPATIBILITY...
D past is gone.
Popsy always told me, deres nothing like 'any' lady 'meant' for 'me'.
If we're compatible, and i can be able to cope with her past... Den... Let's flow..
Bad/good doesn't matter.

tpia@:


not everything has an explanation, and sometimes we need to pray for the sins of our parents not to be visited on us.

like i always say, people have long memories.

True. See people's responses to what you said above

https://www.nairaland.com/965469/suffering-sins-parents

God ask prophet jeremiah to marry a harlot.

God intentionaly uses d gud to mix wit d bad so dat d gud can influence the bad ways and d bad can change to gud

engrtee: God ask prophet jeremiah to marry a harlot.

God intentionaly uses d gud to mix wit d bad so dat d gud can influence the bad ways and d bad can change to gud

Bad change the good? Could this be from God?

engrtee: God ask prophet jeremiah to marry a harlot.

God intentionaly uses d gud to mix wit d bad so dat d gud can influence the bad ways and d bad can change to gud

In that case, you must be definitely marrying an ashawo from VI. Praises be! You're not? Mschewww.

God doesn't punish you or doesn't make a good person marry a bad person. God told Jeremiah to marry a harlot because it was His plan, He didn't tell the other guys who have married harlots to do so. He does things according to His will, not because He's trying to "mix good and bad".
You can marry a good girl, very easy, especially if you're a player. You can't make a good girl happy in marriage (personal testimony here). If you like marry the Virgin Mary, but don't be as good as Joseph, yet expect the same outcome. You can scheme and manipulate to marry a rich guy, but there's no guarantee that you're what will satisfy him.
The test of a relationship isn't making it to the altar, it's what you do for the next 30 yrs after the altar.

acidtalk: Why should a lady who has been chaste, God fearing, humble and very well behaved eventually find herself ending up with a flirt, womanizer, drunk and probably a woman beater.

Because she was so desperate and blinded by love that she ignored the little things. God gives us choices and we because of our selfishness, mostly choose the bad things

Many meek ppl (perceived as 'good') many times feel d need to feel protected ,and/or in able hands with more far reaching exposure. They r rather drawn to d pulling attraction of these people who seem to have much experience and confidence.

This may apply more to d 'good girl' folks ending up wit bad boys. But for 'goodboys' marrying a girl far beyond his level of exposure? Dunno abt dat...ask him, and my friend calls it 'love'.

Mynd_44:
Because she was so desperate and blinded by love that she ignored the little things. God gives us choices and we because of our selfishness, mostly choose the bad things

Where have you been?

Or should we say she was naive?

acidtalk:

Where have you been?

Or should we say she was naive?

I have been here but not posting. Just chilling.
How hustle?

Mynd_44:
I have been here but not posting.

why dont you stay out?

nobody noticed your absence, so you should have kept it that way.

makes for a better forum.

Mynd_44:
I have been here but not posting. Just chilling.
How hustle?

We thank God for His wonderful grace and Mercies.

tpia@:



why dont you stay out?

nobody noticed your absence, so you should have kept it that way.

makes for a better forum.

You dey follow am fight?
He sometimes could be a very good boy you know?

^he's a useless nonentity who goes about picking fights due to his extremely low IQ.

just a rubbish poster.

i guess he collects a salary from seun!!!!!

SEUN ABEG NEXT TOPIC

What is romantic about this topic? This should be moved to the religion section.

according to T.I, "i'll luv 2 marry d baddest bitch from a decent home"

I searched the whole of Unilag, OAU and UI for a Virgin, couldn't come out with one..

Am still single and waiting for a Nigerian Virgin to come my way

in any case, @ topic

God does not make mistakes- people do.

no 1 is bn punishd wif any1..God gav d power of freewill..d gud guys dat end up with d bad guys re eida in a hurry 2 get married/re jus 2 gud dat dey can detect 'bad' 4rm a distance

tpia@:
in any case, @ topic

God does not make mistakes- people do.

Errrrr what would you call creating EVE?

Ijogz K: I searched the whole of Unilag, OAU and UI for a Virgin, couldn't come out with one..

Am still single and waiting for a Nigerian Virgin to come my way

men,hope u're prepared 2 wait lyk "FOREVER"

Worreva