I'm a young lady in my early twenties and engaged. But this green eyed monster called 'Jealous' is really tearing me apart with my Fiance. Its so bad that I can't even withstand him calling or receiving calls from a lady. This issue is really delaying our marriage. Pls my dear NLs, I need a candid and helpful response on this! Thank you all

My dear,jealousy will not take u anywhere.all u need is trust ur man...Remember he has friends which I believe u hv 2.all u need do is sweetie who was dat?am sure he will xplain ok.over jealousy is bad because he might b scared of wat u will do after ur guys r married,learn 2 control its b4 its 2 late,cheers.

spiro4real: I'm a young lady in my early twenties and engaged. But this green eyed monster called 'Jealous' is really tearing me apart with my Fiance. Its so bad that I can't even withstand him calling or receiving calls from a lady. This issue is really delaying our marriage. Pls my dear NLs, I need a candid and helpful response on this! Thank you all

hmm!

Ask God to help you delete all forms of jealousy from you!

Next feel good about yourself babe!

Look good, feel good, smell good!

Then always compliment yourself daily!

Also build up yourself esteem.

And constantly keep yourself busy everytime. Never be idle, An idle mind na devil workshop!

tonneth: My dear,jealousy will not take u anywhere.all u need is trust ur man...Remember he has friends which I believe u hv 2.all u need do is sweetie who was dat?am sure he will xplain ok.over jealousy is bad because he might b scared of wat u will do after ur guys r married,learn 2 control its b4 its 2 late,cheers.

Tanx

Like an oversight or a peccadillo, it's 'jealousy' and not jealousness...

If the guy has never given you a cause to doubt his faithfulness, then I think you should start relaxing your mind. It's all about your trusting the guy.
Cheers!

Your problem is trust. YOU DO NOT trust your guy and you definitively don't trust yourself.
Have you been cheated on before? Have you cheated on anyone before?

Many people who don't trust others act the way they do cos they think everyone will act like them. Have you double dated guys before or are you just one of those ladies that think all men cheat.