Was with some friends chilling and just having a nice time in general. We all just needed a little break from work stress. The 6 of us present that day were married. Guy were busy admiring other people´s chicks that strolled past and saying this or that of which I wasn´t really listening. Just then the wife of one of the guys present called to know when he would be home and he told her soon. Just as he dropped the fone, a friend of a friend asks him if he dated her b4 he marrried her but I didn´t hear what he retorted. The same guy then asks, do u ever ask ur self what happened to the one that got away. Do u ask urself what could have been, what could have happened if I had dated this person and not the other person.
Guys/Girls do u ask urself those questions? If not why and if u do pls tell us why?

You can't live in what ifs. What will be will be. You can't force what will not.

A girl that I like and was dating, dumped me and started dating someone else. Right now, the only prayer on my heart is that she comes back if we are meant to be. Otherwise, I wish her well. In the future, I will never leave in a what if situation because I gave her an opportunity to come back.

The idea if what ifs indicates that you are living in regret.

There is one prayer I pray without ceasing, and that is may I never use my mouth to utter these four words 'Ha! Had I known!!!'

so @ op, what could have been is not in my dictionary.

over-recycled thread!!!
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