ijebabe: Of course such a man exists, you just have to accept the flaws that come with him. There is no perfect man out there so it is high time women stopped deluding themselves, because we are not perfect too.
Unfortunately, some of us are not lucky enough to be with the man that fulfils all our requirements. In that case, true love would have to be worked on and built over a period of time.
Good luck.

Very Romatic!

ijebabe: Of course such a man exists, you just have to accept the flaws that come with him. There is no perfect man out there so it is high time women stopped deluding themselves, because we are not perfect too.
Unfortunately, some of us are not lucky enough to be with the man that fulfils all our requirements. In that case, true love would have to be worked on and built over a period of time.
Good luck.

all the qualities i listed doesnt define a perfect man so its not an issue of searching for perfection...
Of course,if i have to list all my requirements in the real sense of the word,e go full ten pages...
All i'm saying is...are these qualities too much to ask for in a man?

slimyem: all the qualities i listed doesnt define a perfect man so its not an issue of searching for perfection...
Of course,if i have to list all my requirements in the real sense of the word,e go full ten pages...
All i'm saying is...are these qualities too much to ask for in a man?

It does define the perfect man for you!
It is not a lot to ask for but what I am saying is that you have to be realistic about these qualities. There will have to be a compromise somewhere but not to the point where you end up in a relationship with no passion or excitement.

ijebabe:
It does define the perfect man for you!
It is not a lot to ask for but what I am saying is that you have to be realistic about these qualities. There will have to be a compromise somewhere but not to the point where you end up in a relationship with no passion or excitement.

Eida way u say it, boneypako ain't out to comprise. d term deluded fits her perfectly.....

@Boneyemz!
U don greet me 2day?

slimyem: .....e go full ten pages...

Of....
A. Jotter.
B. Foolscap
C. Calender.
D. Exercise book.
E. Microsoft word.
.
Wetin sef!

ayobase:

@@whispering....how did it go with u and ID....did she correspond?@@

You should know better than to expect me to kiss and tell.

Idowuogbo: O
Bebe! Let's not derail o! My son don show, so we gats maintain. But! dat guy kini large o!

Well now that you mention it, there's no use denying it.

ayobase:

Of....
A. Jotter.
B. Foolscap
C. Calender.
D. Exercise book.
E. Microsoft word.
.
Wetin sef!

calender!

fresh_dude: Well now that you mention it, there's no use denying it.

Shussssh....

Idowuogbo:
Shussssh....

Whatever you say sugar.

fresh_dude: With the way your mouth is running, I doubt responsible men will stop by to try to have a chat. Surely you don't expect the man to be all that you listed and then present him with sharp mouth and impatience. Now that's deluded!

i think u r very right, cos she runs her tongue without control, humility and fear of the same God she mentions. Av come to realise many ladies want in men qualities they lack in themselves...otherwise she wont be using all dat vulgar words.
U dont ask for d fear of God, u fear Him first n urge others.

galadima77:

i think u r very right, cos she runs her tongue without control, humility and fear of the same God she mentions. Av come to realise many ladies want in men qualities they lack in themselves...otherwise she wont be using all dat vulgar words.
U dont ask for d fear of God, u fear Him first n urge others.

yeah..right!
I'm supposed to show humility and fear of God on a faceless forum/thread because i'm talking around it...
I see you!
Thanks!!
.
.
...and just so you know...i didn't ask for qualities i don't have...just that its not its not my intentions to show/prove them on here..

slimyem: yeah..right!
I'm supposed to show humility and fear of God on a faceless forum/thread because i'm talking around it...
I see you!
Thanks!!

@Yemi, where do you stay?

slimyem: yeah..right!
I'm supposed to show humility and fear of God on a faceless forum/thread because i'm talking around it...
I see you!
Thanks!!

forum/thread or not, He exists and u dont choose when and whr to fear Him pls...in all endearvous.

galadima77:
forum/thread or not, He exists and u dont choose when and whr to fear him pls...in all endearvous.

your opinion...not mine!!
Besides,you still didnt answer the questions in the original post...you only jumped on attacking the poster..

slimyem: your opinion...not mine!!
Besides,you still didnt answer the questions in the original post...you only jumped on attacking the poster..

sure! facts and sacred truths don't av to be ur opinion...

galadima77:

sure! facts and sacred truths don't av to be ur opinion...

if i say based on ur posts and what obtains in our society, such ppl are rare and doesnt imply they r entirely absent and yes u r being delusional, i guess u too wld attacking me. but thank God ur instinct must av told u dis and dats y we r here. we all yearn for a convenient relationship, but i can assure u dat d perfect partner is a reflection of yourself if u think deeply. pray...

slimyem: idowu,take care of this thread for me..
I needed some fun tonight and got it...
I'm off to sleep..
No fighting and no derailing...else you'd be held responsible!!

#whispers# attention seeker

fresh_dude: You should know better than to expect me to kiss and tell.

Noted and Decoded!

fresh_dude: @Yemi, where do you stay?

I know the area she stays....she is still doubting me though!
.
Lets hear from the horse's mouth!

fresh_dude: With the way your mouth is running, I doubt responsible men will stop by to try to have a chat. Surely you don't expect the man to be all that you listed and then present him with sharp mouth and impatience. Now that's deluded!

Her mouth wz nt running na her hand dey type fast.

ayobase:

I know the area she stays....she is still doubting me though!
.
Lets hear from the horse's mouth!

lol..
What area??
The area shown you in your dreams..shey??

So you guys are still at this topic again today! I thought Yems had surrendered? Well, I'm back. . . But let me take some panadol first.

Slimyam dey find husband ni?na so e don serious reach?

You for just tell me na,my father's uncle is available o.

rottenegg: So you guys are still at this topic again today! I thought Yems had surrendered? Well, I'm back. . . But let me take some panadol first.

welcome

slimyem: lol..
What area??
The area shown you in your dreams..shey??

Slimyem, where do you stay?

slimyem: Some say i am choosy.
Choosy?
Oh yes,i am choosy...
I want to marry a man that has been raised almost like me or preferably better than me-with the same kind of values...
Does he exist??
That honest,kind-hearted,loving,hard-working,respectful,responsible,dilligent,God-fearing man.
Are there any of them left or am i just deluded?

They are hard to find,the kind of guys that exsists are looking for punny only.
God go help us sha! (

Ladies, most times you ask for too much! Why not just like a brother just the way he is?? You should check us out in stages- physical appearance, manner of speech and approach, level of education, independence then you can add all those unimportant things later. I always believe you can mold someone to your taste. . . slowly and carefully, minding the person's own feelings. Don't expect to see an already made to fit man or woman for that matter!

^^are you saying the desired qualities in the original post are too much to ask??
Do they define perfection?

Of course, Yes!!! Men who possess these qualities exists, though rare, but we have them in and around us. Unfortunately, they tend to marry ladies who belong to the 'other side'.
However, @Op you should not expect a complete perfect man, that suits ur taste No! such does not exist, as God has not created us all equals.
I've been told by few ladies that I am a good man (with all the qualities the Op raised) but sure, I know am not all that good cos I've my flaws...

slimyem: ^^are you saying the desired qualities in the original post are too much to ask??
Do they define perfection?

perfection may not be the right word but its really asking for too much. If a guy is checkin you out, would you like him to expect all these qualities bestowed on you I don't think so. Besides, people like that are not fun to hang out with.

rottenegg: perfection may not be the right word but its really asking for too much. If a guy is checkin you out, would you like him to expect all these qualities bestowed on you I don't think so. Besides, people like that are not fun to hang out with.

You are a funny person. So because you want your daughter to have fun you'd rather have her marry someone with any or a combination of these qaulities??:

1.Lazy.
2.Untrustworthy
3.Undependable
4.Wanton
5.Unloving
6.Mean-spirited
7.Irresponsible
??

Very unlikely. These attributes are those that as men we ought to possess and instil in our sons. Without them, we get the state of the world as it is today. No man with these qualities would steal public funds, orkill unremorsefully or do any of those evil things that humans have turned to a profession.
Besides fun is relative, and you are wrong about it not being fun being with those kind of people.