Now everyone all of a sudden is suffering from dis same problem

you lack confidence in women and the only way your subconscious mind can cope with it is by you seducing several girls, one they are in the trap you gain short-term confidence,which as time goes it dwindles away and the cycle repeats itself unknowingly.

You are good OP, am sure you would adjust with time.
It is no case of a medical attention, as far as I'm corncerned. So, you are good.
You just haven't found your right girl, yet.

vicope:
u took offence in my post? I shouldn't be surprised though....looking at your posts on this thread says a lot about U. Bleeping like a dog and cooking like a slave, thinking that will help u keep a man. Shior! I won't trade words with you.......bragging about a Master degree, wonderful job et al shows how low ur IQ is (no offence). What will I gain if I told u am gainfully employed? It doesn't add to my income. I pray U last long in any man's house if you continue this way! Stop 'spitting' always, NLs will mistake you for a pregnant woman or worse still, a cat or snake!

You won't trade words with me and you typed all this? You're just a very FOOLISH man. I can bleep as much as I want, aww poor you- even mad women won't agree to bleep you. Your life must really suck.. *big hug*. Oh and for you to have said my IQ is low after reading all my posts simply means you're reeeeetarded. Feel free to mention me as much as you want, I won't answer you again.

Amaaskia:

You won't trade words with me and you typed all this? You're just a very FOOLISH man. I can bleep as much as I want, aww poor you- even mad women won't agree to bleep you. Your life must really suck.. *big hug*. Oh and for you to have said my IQ is low after reading all my posts simply means you're reeeeetarded. Feel free to mention me as much as you want, I won't answer you again.

People like you who boast so much are highly insecure, you have a masters, have a good job blal bla bla, where is the proof? Anyone can come to Nairaland and claim shit. Those who really know what they have, find no reason to boast, from your posts, I can conclude that:

1. You are a very cheap girl, not the tough one you claim to be.
2. You are unemployed, not the masters degree holder with a wonderful job you claim to be.


Note: you can blab all you like you can't prove anything, we only judge by what we see, and those who boast alot are really empty inside. Bye

sup hun

Amaaskia:

LOL I am not senseless sweetie..

mumumugu: it only takes a gay to identify another gay,so are you gay?

Dude where did u get that from? I can spot a gay guy a mile away.

I am in PH and i am like that......bahh

geegirl101:

I know a guy in ph that is like that

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you obviously dunno anything about me then,men dont leave me! Im sincerely not bragging, and i dont use jazz but men dont leave me... my exs want me back, my bf doesnt get bored with me... I cook him good meals and Bleep his brains out,I DONT GET TIRED... he aint going nowhere... lmao. lemme stop here :
Come make I blow ur yansh

Well I also av d same problem, my friends will always tell me, they would never believe the day I would tell them i av fallen in love, my case is just to stoop and conquer and leave quietly

Crixina: am sure you can't change,maybe when u r sixty and lonely and get to see ur best friend with her lovely kids and handsome husband.

@crixina
get a life,u seem frustrated,could be wrong though#shrug#

U need to stop this act until you are sure u are ready to stay with a single lady for as long as time will permit. I appreciate your sincerity

didicold:

@crixina
get a life,u seem frustrated,could be wrong though#shrug#

i knw a shrink u could talk to,thank me later.

[quote author=mekula]

No need to be mad at yourself, it is not a problem. You just have perculiar traits. You get bored easily especially because some of the people you date might not have STRONG personalities. Most people date because of looks; height, shape, beauty/handsomeness and to them this is their attraction. For peeps like us, it is the personality that attracts us. Looks are important...but secondary in situations like this. Whenever you find that person with strong character, you will always fall for him/her. There will be clashes of ego and stuff, but in all it accentuates the desire you have for each other rather than tear you apart like it does to most folks. I'm guessing some of your guys just cant stop 'worshipping' you and with time, it wears you down. Some guys would appear not to give two fvcks about you(even though they really do) but they will treat you well. That way, you don't have the feeling someone is wearing you down. In my opinion, I think It is all about blending and finding that character that compliments yours. You want someone who you don't have to pretend with. Someone you are not scared of him/her seeing you even in your stupidest moments, one who would even find it hilarious. Whatever rocks your boat mehn![/quote

Very intelligent responce. You must be a psychologist. Quite unfortunate most people don't understand the psychology of humans. Op there s nothing wrong with you. Are you a Gemini?

well the truth is that most girls are empty in the brain and character once u make luv to them., u get tired cos she has nothing else to offer, but only adding more loads on top of the one you are carrying..and on ur own part, you have a problem of not knowing what you want and you easily get confused and tired of something you went for in the first place, and the worse thing is that you have formed this as a habit, wahala dy more on ur part my guy..cos if u continue this way, na serial divorcee you may end up to be...