elari: . . . Bitch, are u addicted to me or glued to my thread? No mata wat, i would not do u. Peace

dabrake: If a woman wants me to treat her as one, then she should behave as one who deserves and command it. Any woman who raises her hand(s) at me will be treated as a gangster. God forgives, dabrake don't.

admitme: I could picture in my imagination how a grown up man like you would be crying for a woman. So pathetic

shaybe baby: @Elari, you did the rght thing in not hitting her back. You have the moral high ground now regardless of what was said in your tiff. Don't let the naysayers make you feel less of man because you cried. Sometimes anger is displayed by tears and you are human like the rest of us. The human eyes have tear ducts so we cry. Perfectly normal. Who is to when it is appropriate to cry and when it isn't? No one. Hopefully in future, you'll find someone more deserving of your restraint. Violence is unacceptable in any relationship.

Maria-Goretti:
@Elari,
wen it concerns rlshps, am sure gettin to know ur partner so well is a major factor. U termed her ur galfrnd, dt means u alridi know some things abt her, most especially her behaviour (dat i beleive). And for her to react dat way, can b explained in two ways. Either she's d type dat doesnt accept corrections or the manner at which u corrected her pushed her to do dat. U alone knows d answer to dat. Lets nt b in a haste to judge d gal.....who knows, u both might just b guilty. Concludin dat u tru wif d rlshp isnt d best solution except u d type dat luvs ending ur rlshp on such note, which to me is a cowardly act. So, honey, i tink u guys shuld give urselves tym or space to cool off. In d process of doin dat, try to review wot happend dat led to her reacting dat way....u might just remedy ur case. Ur nt slappin back is a gud thing, mayb if u had, sometin mur drastic wuld v happend cus as it was at dat moment, ur gf was ridy for anythin, even breakin bottles on ur head....

elari: . . @ Maria, my reason of nt slappin her bk or retaliating was based on the fact that so much anger was built up in me and as such, i was not sure if her body could carry the pain my payback would cause on her (as in severe physical injury). I cried becos i cud nt hit her bk. Peace

Febian60: @elari... Mahn I criously wish more guys can be lyk u. My master,the man who thought me art,and mentor had dis kinda situation when he was young. He nd his gf were arguing nd he did juz wat u did. The nxt tin was a slap from his girl,he then warned her nt 2 do dat again. Up nxt was anoda slap from her. Mahn he gave her d beatin.g of her lyf. Wen she found out he wasn't stoppi.ng pretended 2 faint. He den woke her up nd apologised. She left nd didn't cum 4 weeks. He had 2 beg her 2 cum bk nd she as well apologise. Afta 18 yrs datin.g they r nw married. Elari call her bk nd talk 2 her,u are a good mahn nd a model 4 guys. Ur reason 4 nt hittin.g her is tangible. I applaud u. Dnt mind d rest who wuld turn 2 violence. I'll ask u 4 advice on relationships my broda. Kuddos.

elari: . . . @ febian, its a funny story. I see majority are agreeing to the fact that i did not slap her back. Bt everyome seems to be pissed at met for crying. Menh! Is crying in front of a woman that bad.

sexkillz: She lost whatever respect she had for you the moment you cried. Your crying affirms that you deserved that slap for doing whatever it is you did to her. She needs someone to correct her, and not a cry baby. Crying in her presence also confirms your emotionally weak state.

Amya: She slapped you and you cried like a baby. Who does that?

slimyem: excuse me??
Are you rapping or what??

admitme: I could picture in my imagination how a grown up man like you would be crying for a woman. So pathetic

elari: . . . I must say ur write up is classic. I dunt knw if many people fail to understand y i cried or y i did nt return d slap. But its all good things neva moved to more terrible state. Though she immediately tendered an apology on her kneels after d slap. I still find it hard to accept its will nt become a common behaviour, since i did nt do what she thought 90% of other men would have done. Tnx alka d same for your input.

elari: . . . I must say ur write up is classic. I dunt knw if many people fail to understand y i cried or y i did nt return d slap. But its all good things neva moved to more terrible state. Though she immediately tendered an apology on her kneels after d slap. I still find it hard to accept its will nt become a common behaviour, since i did nt do what she thought 90% of other men would have done. Tnx alka d same for your input.

sexkillz: She lost whatever respect she had for you the moment you cried. Your crying affirms that you deserved that slap for doing whatever it is you did to her. She needs someone to correct her, and not a cry baby. Crying in her presence also confirms your emotionally weak state.

elari: hey pals, its so funny or maybe sound stupid that i did not return the slap back. Bt my girl gave me a resounding slap when i was telling her some truthful hurtful words, she termed insult. What i did? I just cried a little and left the her to go down some bottle. Did i do wrong by not doing same? But i concluded that its ova. Though i havent told her yet. Advices needed.

elari: . . @ Maria, my reason of nt slappin her bk or retaliating was based on the fact that so much anger was built up in me and as such, i was not sure if her body could carry the pain my payback would cause on her (as in severe physical injury). I cried becos i cud nt hit her bk. Peace

elari: . . . @ febian, its a funny story. I see majority are agreeing to the fact that it was a good thing i did not slap her back. Bt everyone seems to be pissed at met for crying. Menh! Is crying in front of a woman that bad?