Krosslife: Actually, this issue is bordering my mind and each time i think about it, it gives me headache because, i get confused.
Frankly speaking, i'm 28, being living in loneliness for more than 12 years now without girlfriend or any dating. Obviously, it is not my fault. My father will always share his ugly side and experience in marriage. His words "You better brace up to be a man" Oh! woman!! They will only destroy you. They are these; they are that and all of the above. However, i'm now a working student, perhaps i can combine it with my studies. But thinking about marriage, will it not unsettle me? because i'm kind of settled, it's like i'm in a horn of dilemma. Please, is there any unbiased candid advice from this poster. Thanks

your case is one too many, so you are not alone. love nowadays is a fallacy, with the advent of internet, social networking sites, BBM, our today music, movies, etc have further destroyed true love and the quest for it in our society hence, it hardly exist and if it does, hardly last...even in marriages. I bet you, if not for the sake of having children outside wedlock, honestly majority of men of today wouldn't get married. So don't feel left out, its what our new world have turn to be, just take it easy & don't rush into any relationship now so u don't get hurt like your dad told u. my advice is for you to focus on your career, enjoy your passions and hobbies, if you have enough income; engage in travels and vacation, I do that whenever I am chanced and it helps a lot. forget about marriage for now, pray and wait if it is meant to be, it will, if it is not, it wont be. take it easy and stop worrying ok?

Others- engaged

Am yet 2 find dat 1 girl dat wil appreciate n accept me just as i am n weneva i find sum1 good enough, its either she is engage or married. Now i understand y sum ppl says d good 1s are already taken.

yet to find my missing rib......

Haywire99: yet to find my missing rib......

shey goat own abi cow own?

Idowuogbo:
Bebe! Handwork? Wia?

ws ofline 4 some days wen i came back n saw my following read 1408. it was easy to figure out who blazed d trail.U really scattered ground u know.

Krosslife: Actually, this issue is bordering my mind and each time i think about it, it gives me headache because, i get confused.
Frankly speaking, i'm 28, being living in loneliness for more than 12 years now without girlfriend or any dating. Obviously, it is not my fault. My father will always share his ugly side and experience in marriage. His words "You better brace up to be a man" Oh! woman!! They will only destroy you. They are these; they are that and all of the above. However, i'm now a working student, perhaps i can combine it with my studies. But thinking about marriage, will it not unsettle me? because i'm kind of settled, it's like i'm in a horn of dilemma. Please, is there any unbiased candid advice from this poster. Thanks

Keep your head up brotha..like Robert Nesta Marley said, love is like a stream that will find its course..don't sweat yourself, what will be will be. Remember to treat her rite when she comes. Ain't no perfect being in life.

beylinko:
ws ofline 4 some days wen i came back n saw my following read 1408. it was easy to figure out who blazed d trail.U really scattered ground u know.

Just doing me papi!

Se pérson no go married again ni

Krosslife: Actually, this issue is bordering my mind and each time i think about it, it gives me headache because, i get confused.
Frankly speaking, i'm 28, being living in loneliness for more than 12 years now without girlfriend or any dating. Obviously, it is not my fault. My father will always share his ugly side and experience in marriage. His words "You better brace up to be a man" Oh! woman!! They will only destroy you. They are these; they are that and all of the above. However, i'm now a working student, perhaps i can combine it with my studies. But thinking about marriage, will it not unsettle me? because i'm kind of settled, it's like i'm in a horn of dilemma. Please, is there any unbiased candid advice from this poster. Thanks

Awwwh....
Start socialising and getting to know people from different walks of life.Start wiv baby steps b! eventually u'll get dere. Play safe!

[quote author=Acidosis]Please feel free to share..

° oopps! wrong thread. I am Married!
° I am a Reverend Father/Sister
° I'm a teenager
° Not bouyant enough
° No suitors
° I am comfortable with my Boyfriend/ Girlfriend
° I don't need a wife/husband
° My mummy says I'm too young
° I'm yet to find my missing rib
° I'm scared of women/men
° My Pastor/Iman is yet to approve
° I'm still praying for a life partner
° I'm yet to hear from God
° My wedding plans is on..
° Still awaiting her response
° I can't combine marriage and academics
° Too many suitors.. ..So I'm confused.
° I don't want to hurt my boyfriend/girlfriend.
° I am a young man/lady for christ sake!
° @OP, Whats your business? ?[/quote
In a rltnshp tho nt 2 serious buh wish i cud just disengage masef frm it. Am actualy havin a torrid tym ryt nw.

Acidosis: Please feel free to share..

° oopps! wrong thread. I am Married!
° I am a Reverend Father/Sister
° I'm a teenager
° Not bouyant enough
° No suitors
° I am comfortable with my Boyfriend/ Girlfriend
° I don't need a wife/husband
° My mummy says I'm too young
° I'm yet to find my missing rib
° I'm scared of women/men
° My Pastor/Iman is yet to approve
° I'm still praying for a life partner
° I'm yet to hear from God
° My wedding plans is on..
° Still awaiting her response
° I can't combine marriage and academics
° Too many suitors.. ..So I'm confused.
° I don't want to hurt my boyfriend/girlfriend.
° I am a young man/lady for christ sake!
° @OP, Whats your business? ?

I am thinking of the right answer to this question.... someone pls help me out

Reasons why i'm still single:
i cant date the internet
i cant date my celebrity crush
i cant date food
i cant date my self.

Waiting to do a professional exam (ICAN) without her knowledge(to surprise her) before saying i do, which i will definitely register come next year by God's grace

Is cz I can't date food!! Ya dig??

commitment issues. really dont know how 2 deal wiv it...

am stl waiting for d right guy.

sucezTP: I'm not married yet because i have no gun to rob a bank. When i have the money to buy gun i'll get marry.

i thought u are a lady!

baba11: i thought u are a lady!

so na only man sabi rob bank ni?

because.......each tym i start a relationship.......sex or marriage is xpected frm me ,and am not ready 4 any.....nw

I studied that course thoroughly- miss perfect.

Idowuogbo:
LMAO!!! gist me abeg!

No be me get myself again oo, now I consider my wife & many other factors before taking steps; mehn ee no easy oo.

What's your business ?

free2ryhme:


I am thinking of the right answer to this question.... someone pls help me out

You are a teenager?

pls i need help , pls nairaland, questions being ask at th US embassy on visit invitation and what you b=need to go along with

Olaewola: Pls i nid a fuckmate or sugar mummy,pls

is this why you are still single?

ogugua88: Other: I don't want to marry.

Be careful what you wish for. It might come back one day and bite you in the a$$.
@topic,
Haven't found my soulmate yet.
Though i'm not seriously lookin.

Olaewola: Pls i nid a fuckmate or sugar mummy,pls

SMH!!! Anoda abridged entity.....

I'd jst go with the last option

Idowuogbo:
so na only man sabi rob bank ni?

na lag i dey ooo,i no no say girls na expert 4 dis kinda job,lol!!!

I am still waiting on Google for answer oooo lol

Idowuogbo:
No na javelin age.

wetin concern you abi you don turn to freecocoa