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| Would You Tell Your Friend? by kojeiwa(m): 6:47pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
If you find your friend's boyfriend with another woman at the movies or restaurant eating together, would you tell your friend? |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Busta(f): 6:58pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
It depends, 1. Depends on how close I am with this girl. 2. if it was just a harmless movie date or just eating together, no sweat about that. I will just go over and say hello to the guy. 3. If i see them mess around and canoodling, and this girl (ma friend) is supposedly very close friends with me. . . Then I will tell her. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by drrionelli(m): 7:43pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
What's to tell? Based on your information, you've seen nothing out of the ordinary. People have friends with whom they like to share entertainment and meals. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by kojeiwa(m): 8:09pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
My girlfriend saw her close friend's boyfriend at the movie with another girl holding hands. She is sure he is messing around with this girl. She said her friend love this guy a lot. She would have really love to tell her friend just to look out for her, but she doesnt want to mess up her relatioship with the guy. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by skipo87(m): 8:10pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
it depends no the kinda friend in question, |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Iyanlax: 8:30pm On Jan 02, 2008 |
I think this warrants the girlfriend being informed  Holding hands in the movies sounds suspect to me. Lets face it, if this was innocent, the girlfriend would be aware of this 'friend' so the person doing the telling will have to ask the girlfriend in a round about way if the boyfriend is close to any other females. We are all different but I believe this is over stepping boundaries and respect for your other half; unless the relationship is young, other than that, there really is no need. Why was the girlfriend not invited if this movie date was nothing suspect? These questions indicate the necessity for the person doing the telling, to be sensitive, and not dropping this info like 'amebo'(sp)  . |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by iice(f): 11:59am On Jan 03, 2008 |
Go with Busta on this one. . .it depends. . . |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by jintujinta(m): 2:38pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
Whichever way it is, the friend should know. If it is an innocent act, it means the guy wont be secretive about it and if it is not, but a smooth operation, it is good the girl knows what's up. It all depends on how the friend goes about telling her friend, so she doesnt sound like "Amebo". So if you dont want your girl or boy to know you had an outing with his or her friend, dont do it. Period! |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by jkpretty(f): 3:10pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
Have u done some telling that has put on in deep trouble? I have, & i've learnt so i do no telling, watch with ur own eyes & listen with ur ears. Opari! |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by adekennis(m): 4:08pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
Stop being a parot    |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by yimiton(f): 4:11pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
Will not tell my friend but will mention it where both my friend in her boyfriend are. Just a little innocent remark. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by 2dye4(m): 4:17pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
yimiton: i kinda agree, i'll pass it of as a mild " i saw u 2" compliment. atimes its not everything that the eyes see that the mouth must say. if things turnaround for the worse and ur tale becomes a ruse, ur gonna hang for it. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
If you are a man and she is a woman tell her with no reservations If you are a woman just like her, be careful with what you say. Women are not sympathetic with each other when their man is concerned.  |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by TheSly: 5:58pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
NO!! because if my friend is deeply in love with the girl in question!. . . he might find it difficult to believe and might as well say maybe im tryin to crash their relationship or smn like that!. . . .you dont say everythin that u see with ur eyes. . . truth is bitter |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
~Sly~(*_*): so if you see my bf cheating, you won't tell me? what kind of friend are you!!! not a true one |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by TheSly: 6:06pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
toyinrayo: nah! not lyk that ermmmm!! ermmm!! it depends sha!! if your boyfriend is cheatin and you're my close friend,then i might tell u as a friend . . . .but if we are not that close! ill just have to  |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
ok o. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Busta(f): 6:41pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
@toyin, I will tell u if I say Tommyvex messing around . . no worry |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 03, 2008 |
Busta:LOL. . . |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by jintujinta(m): 11:27am On Jan 04, 2008 |
jkpretty: May be it the way you went about doing the telling that put you in trouble. I think it is not a bad idea. Anyway, if i discover such things about him, i will tell you. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by almondjoy(f): 11:44am On Jan 04, 2008 |
This bini man don come this year with all these busy body topics.  Kojeiwa! Kojeiwa! Kojeiwa! How many times I call you so?  Make you try to mind your business for this 2008 oooooooooooooooooooooooooh! Whatever does not concern us, we have no business telling!!! Please let us not start this year with gossip. Let the babe find out herself I beg you! |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by sesman(m): 12:36pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
why do people always assume if you see a guy and a girl at the movies that they are either lovers or dating, they could just be friends |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Adennem(f): 12:40pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
yes they chould be just friend |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by TheSly: 12:43pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
right!! but not all the time . . friends!----------------> to more than just friends! and so on! |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by almondjoy(f): 12:45pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
Who cares? Please that is their business. Like I do not have my own wahalas to solve instead of worrying about who is "doing" who? I say that is their business abeg. |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Adennem(f): 12:47pm On Jan 04, 2008 |
why |
| Re: Would You Tell Your Friend? by Zahnda(f): 7:54am On Aug 01, 2011 |
kojeiwa: Only if I'm fresh out of my own business to mind at that moment that I find 2 people dining or watching a movie as 'breaking news'. |
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