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Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by 2mch(m): 8:43pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Dis Guy: It is possible. I have ex's that i am not attracted to anymore. They are friends because of a certain quality they have. So yes, it is possible. Some relationships may end, but you gain life long friends from it. I have ex's i will help without gaining anything from it. |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Nobody: 8:48pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
coogar:Exactly what [b]Kobojunkie [/b]was trying to say.....Absolutely, no respect!! .....SMH!......... |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Nobody: 8:50pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Johndoe100: That too! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by coogar: 8:52pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Shollypopz: no respect? has the wife respected me by speaking to her ex after i have told her to stop? be following kobojunkie's ill-advised comments. she's probably someone's punchbag in a village in kogi state who comes to nairaland to form superwoman! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
coogar: I think 'Nairalanders' scan through ppl's post and they don't read diligently.... What Kobojunkie has been trying to say is: 1.) Tell the op not to take action that would hurt his marriage even more e.g giving ultimatums, threatening..... 2.) All the op can do is complain to his wife 'bitterly' (as d op likes to put it) and hope that she respects his feelings enough to break the chains of communication with her ex. 3.) The op is only contemplating that there has been further conversations going on with his wife and her ex apart from a few happy birthday calls, condolence visit when her mum/dad died........Kobojunkie is trying to say the conversations btw d Op's wife and her Ex might be completely harmless and the op needs to act rationally. I don't know who [b]Kobojunkie [/b]is, in fact I just noticed the 'person' on NL, but I'm sure he/she is a 'super person', lol *btw, I love ur profile picture* |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by coogar: 9:27pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Shollypopz: is that what you do?
the op has tried to be a gentleman but the wife went back to open talks again with her ex! you mean the op should fold his hands - of course, ultimatums and threats should be made!
the op should hope the wife respects his feelings? the same feelings she pissed on the first time? you are assuming this woman is normal, she's not!!! the only way to straighten her up is to take the respect by force! the subtle way has not worked otherwise we won't be here - so what makes you think it would work now....
if it walks like a cock, talks like a cock then it must be a cock! my intuition is enough, i don't have to wait until my spouse gets knocked up by her ex before i act accordingly! why should any married woman be talking to her ex? what are they discussing? reminiscing about the sex they had back in the days or not - some women are just twisted!
i don't know kobo too but my gut instincts say she's an arse!
I love yours too! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Nobody: 9:46pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
coogar: Who's being an a*ss now? the op has tried to be a gentleman but the wife went back to open talks again with her ex!Just in case u are thinking of giving ur wife an ultimatum one day, just rmbr a Shollypopz [/b]warned u......... the op should [b]hopethe wife respects his feelings? the same feelings she pissed on the first time? you are assuming this woman is normal, she's not!!! the only way to straighten her up is to take the respect by force! the subtle way has not worked otherwise we won't be here - so what makes you think it would work now....The op's last reply to this thread: "contd, on my trust issue, because she so much trusted me all these while, i also want to get a level where i can trust her so much too. Her trusting me gives me some confidence, i need her to have some confidence. But that aside, the issue of comunicating with an Ex is what i dont like, its nt healthy, & dats why i left all my Exes to enjoy their homes, rather giving them old memories. thks God she now understand with me. We are working on d healing process now. Thk u all & God bless". Always bear in mind that on NL, u only hear one side of the story......... |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by coogar: 9:56pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Shollypopz: you, shollypopz!
i doubt my wife would even need me to threaten her before she respects my wishes - she wants my happiness cos she can only be at peace when i am happy!
they are working on the process? goodluck to them - i hope she listens for good now and puts her ex in a distant memory! exes are exes for a reason: a closed chapter, if i have to communicate with my ex every week then why did i leave her in the first place?
yes we do and we all form our opinion based on what we read/hear!!! my response to what i hear solves what i have heard! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Kobojunkie: 10:46pm On Aug 30, 2012 |
Shollypopz: You deserve a handshake for taking the time to read and understand before responding . . . skill that is seriously lacking around here. |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by safeact(m): 9:48am On Aug 31, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Sorry to tell you dis, i think that you are just looking for a CHEAP POPULARITY. Even if u ar white, green oo!, red or watever, u are only seeking to be noticed. Imagine ur bottom status : "the few minority should not impose their views on d majority". And now, in every threads, u try to impose ur view on d majority so that people will notice you. Sorry to tell u, u are just contraditing ursf! Go and get married and come back to tell us dsame old story of urs using ur NOTICE ME OR I DIE (NOD)ideology and see if u will not end up in a jun(g)kle! Mind u, i dnt hate u but i hate ur attitudes! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by maclatunji: 10:07am On Aug 31, 2012 |
Siena: I've read the OP's post, and I feel for him. I can also understand his concerns. What can I say? #Classic |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Etranshub(m): 10:52am On Aug 31, 2012 |
Try to shut the bleep up if u dnt ve an advise for any1 seeking advise online Efemena_xy: |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 31, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: Nigerian men and their insecurity issues....well, at least you are somebody's daughter and I bet the daughter's father falls in your sarcasm...how I wish the roles could be reversed and see your opinion change as well |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by adonisgold: 1:35pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
proudlyafrican: [b][/b] Shuuuooo!!?!! Dat ya wife get mind o. Make baba God no let us marry another man wife. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Kobojunkie: 2:20pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
safeact: um . . . sorry, I can't help you at all. Great that you felt your bile against another human beings right to post his/her opinion on issue needed to be on the pages of nairaland . . **sss*** . . . . it just so happens that I am really not the your problem . . . so I can't help you there. Goodluck!! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by EfemenaXY: 2:25pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
Etranshub: Try to shut the bleep up if u dnt ve an advise for any1 seeking advise online Go stick your head far up your a $$ bloody fagg0t. And whilst you're at it, kill yourself slowly. Very slowly. Mtcheew! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by coogar: 2:28pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: never knew a lamb could bite! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by safeact(m): 2:30pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Go help ursf and not me! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by EfemenaXY: 2:36pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
gmyguy: ...well, at least you are somebody's daughter and I bet the daughter's father falls in your sarcasm...how I wish the roles could be reversed and see your opinion change as well And how I wish you'd get a life. Did you bother to read my last comment on the issue before posting your crap up here? |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Kobojunkie: 2:37pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
safeact: I thought the reason you decided to get my attention was so I could notice you and your issues . . . I did and explained there that I cannot help you there is all . . but yeah, I have noticed you as you needed me to. |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by EfemenaXY: 2:43pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
coogar: I dey gentle o! It's just that some fuucckkinng i.di.ot.s here don't bother to read through carefully before retaliating. Na Efe name dem wan use take shine for here. Bloody ar.se.h.o.les, the whole lotta them! |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by safeact(m): 3:19pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: U are making wrestling to b a fight just like coogar and Efemena are now doing. Lol. See how i will just exist to teach u maturity that u lack! Good day kobojungle, lol |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Etranshub(m): 5:43pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
Sorry b.I.a.c.h.y dat sure hurts u. My conclusion: its obvious u ve both male n female organ n u just do ursef by ursef n that's y u claim to be married so I don't expect u to understand the ups and down of a marriage that involves two ppl n thus u don't understand the OP's plight. So go lock ursef up in a cave n bleep d bleep outta ursef and let the humans deal with their biz. Efemena_xy: |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by Kobojunkie: 5:47pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
safeact: How old are you? You exist to teach me maturity? Are you missing a few screws or something? I told you it is ok for you to dislike all you want but it ain't my place to help you, and you come back with stupid talk claiming you exist to teach me maturity? Is this really from a supposedly married person?? ****Shudders***** |
Re: I Am Pissed Off With My Wife Completely by DICKtator: 12:20am On Sep 01, 2012 |
obowunmi: Poster, this issue to me is not an issue of trust but an issue of respect.hope op read this? i mean man up and take the right decision. She slipping away from you. Ignore all those rubbish comments about you being insecured. While trust is one of the main components of a marriage, it doesn't mean one should totally let his/her guards down. Trust your intuition. Get those spying gadgets,investigate, make your decision and save your marriage. The so called ex isn't even married yet,i mean c'mon. infact, take your case to jerry springer(oh!!,the programme has been stopped?) or cheaters,they would do a better job for you |
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