Chanchit: I hope say u don buy koboko to flog ur slave... Religion of peace...
So my sister go do mistake marry a muslim, the guy go come dey flog her, then tell me say na wetin Islam talk... Walahi, i will gun him down..!

Sweetnecta: ^^^ Even if the Ustaz is wrong?

if you say the verse says "beat", the how to beat was demonstrated how Job beat his wife.

Alla instructed him to get 100 blades of grass. then make all into 1 bunch.

then to fulfill his oath by touching her with it.

There is no way that "light beating" if different from the example of how Job [as] was told to do it above will not leave the soft and tender skin of our women black and blue and bruised up.

I Confer on you UZTAZ GENERAL OF NAIRALAND

oiseworld: maclatunji, pls would i get banned if i comment?

so i should know, pls.

Sweetnecta: @2864: I am not any Ustaz. But I use my brain. I go to how Muhammad [sa] behaved before I go to anyone else.
So the Ustaz who is correct will agree with the Messenger [sa] in a similar fashion to apostle who is correct
will agree with christian Jesus, same way with rabbi who is correct will agree with jew Moses [Disclaimer:
Jesus was not a religious christian and Moses was a not a religious jew].


Please watch the video again, The Uztaz said Mohammed beat his wife Aisha... Please watch !


If Muhammad [sa] did not beat his wives [ra], then we know that any muslim who beat his has not followed
Muhammad [sa] at least on this issue, just like christian who marries is not following Jesus on marriage and
jew who prays to the wall in jerusalem is not following Moses on prayer.


we also see therefore that an Ustaz who recommended hard beating not only recommends opposite to the "light beating"
that Allah says, in addition to how Muhammad [sa] demonstrated the true meaning of the Quranic Verse considering that
Prophet Job [as] was used as illustration of how it should happen:

[b]Allah says to Ayyub [as]: (38:44) And take in your hand a bundle of 100 blades of grass and touch her with It and do not break your oath; surely We found him patient; most excellent the servant! Surely he was frequent in returning (to Allah).

Hadith:

Ata' said: "I asked Ibn `Abbas: 'What is the hitting that is ghayr al-mubarrih?' He replied: '[With] the siwak and the like'." Narrated by al-Tabari in his Tafsir (Dar al-Fikr reprint 5:68)

So even if any hitting is to happen it must be a light tap with something equivalent to or a miswak. Thats it! Anything beyond that is considered forbidden.

This is also stated by the Prophet Muhammad(SAWS).

Narrated Mu'awiyah al-Qushayri: "I went to the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) and asked him: What do you say (command) about our wives? He replied: Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them. (Sunan Abu-Dawud, Book 11, Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah), Number 2139)"

So it was preferred not to even result to "beating" the wife.[/b]

If anyone has the first right to act according to the Quran, its Muhammad [sa]. And since he did not beat his wife lightly or heavily/really hard, i will follow that pattern> Maybe the easy to get really annoyed and wanna damage their wives by it just to calm down will do the light tap.

Sweetnecta: Muhammad [sa] is worthy to be imitated all times, in any given age and society.

you obviously dont think your lord is worth of being imitated.

Sweetnecta: ^^^ if your lord Jesus didn't marry on earth, the best thing for you to do is imitate him.

Muhammad [sa] when most annoyed with his wife [ra] he poked at her, according to the video you gloated about against Islam.

when i am most annoyed at my wife, i will poke at her in the tradition of the messenger [sa]


I follow Muhammad [sa] the last messenger and prophet to mankind.
in your case you are running away from the tradition of your lord.

so who do you follow when you run away from your lord?

midreday:

."Looking at what u said JESUS CHRIST didnt marry on earth"[/color] Then why was adam jointed with eve is it not for marriage institution
even if there is no story like this in your quran didnt u go to school and study CRS ......ok if u dont know anything about the
BIBLE then am telling u that even though JESUS didnt marry GOD instituted marriage.

GOD BLESS U