Obviously one can see
that this is a
suggestion from one
person based on
perceptions and
personal experiences.
Please find a way to
pick out the positive
impact this should
have on you and never
allow its full content
make you who you are.
It is a piece
everywherenigeria
decided to put up and
its very purpose is to
help us channel our
energies to the real
thing one should be
looking for in a man.
1. The Unmarried Man -
This may seem
obvious, but it is very
necessary to mention.
There are too many
women attempting
have relationships with
married men. Married
men are not a
candidate for single
women todate…
period! This includes
married men who are
separated (legally or
otherwise). They are
still married and not
available todate.
Married people have
their own families and
concerns to deal with.
That being said, the
unmarried man, who is
devoted to the things
of God, is the type of
man you should be
interested in dating. (1
Corinthians 7:32-35). 7
types of men every
woman should date
2. The Kingdom Seeker
-
A man who is seeking
God’s Will for His life
will, not only seek out
awoman to date, but
will seek out his wife.
The Bible says, “But
seek first the kingdom
of God and his
righteousness, and all
these things will be
added to
you” (Matthew 6:33).
Ladies, you should be
an asset; the thing
that is *added* to him
as he is FIRST seeking
the kingdom of God.
This is why I say, run
as fast as you can for
Jesus and the one
who can keep up
might be the one.
3. The Real Man -
No, I am not talking
about machismo
behavior (all the
shoulders back, chest
out, fist curling
gestures and such)…
Real men don’t need
all of that. That’s
what grown-boys do
to get awoman’s
attention. Real men
“pursue
righteousness, faith,
love, and peace” (2.
Timothy 2:22). Real men
regard women as a
gift that is not to be
taken advantage of;
they see her as
priceless and desire to
cling to her (Matthew
19:5). A real man’s
character shows his
high regard for a
woman long before the
dating stage.
4. The Learner -
A man who is in
continual pursuit of
knowledge is better
equipped to handle life
and execute on
goals / plans. He
should read, seek
counsel, study
continuously, etc…
The Bible says,
“Without counsel
plans fail, but with
many advisers they
succeed”( Proverbs
15:22). Also, “My
people are destroyed
because of lack of
knowledge” (Hosea
4:6). A man who is
willing to learn and gain
knowledge in life
should also be more
open to gaining
knowledge about love
and having successful
relationships.
5. The Multiplier -
A man shouldn’t just
balance you out, he
should constantly add
to you. His presence
should multiply your
potential. He should
add to the beauty of
who you are and
never take away from
anything that is
precious about you.
( “Relationship
Coaching: Do you
multiply or divide?”)
The Bible says, “Do
not be deceived:
‘Bad company ruins
good morals.’” (1
Corinthians 15:33). The
man youdate should
never cause you to
compromise good
morals. He should seek
ways to support you
in your values. His
values should
complement yours.
6. The Servant –
A man who has
demonstrated a
pattern of submitting
to authorities in his life
(leadership, pastors,
parents, etc…) will
also have an
understanding of how
to submit to God as
the head of his life
and, subsequently,
how to commit to his
future wife. The Bible
says, “Obey your
leaders and submit to
them… Let them do
this with joy and not
with
groaning,” (Hebrews
13:17). His positive
attitude towards
authority figures is an
indication of his
servant’s heart and
also provides a picture
of how he can be in a
dating relationship.
7. The Consistent Man
-
Emotions rise and fall,
but character shows
with consistency. The
consistent man is not
in a rush because he
does not have poor
intentions, nor is he
interested in
manipulating a woman
to be led by her
emotions (“ Warning:
Don’t Follow Your
Heart”). He will take
his time to get to
know you and will
allow you to get to
know him as well. The
Bible says, “Whoever
walks in integrity will
be delivered, but he
who is crooked in his
ways will suddenly
fall.” (Proverbs 28:18).
Over time, the
consistent man’s
good character will still
stand, while the man
with bad intentions will
also come to light.
Remember, the
purpose of dating is to
get to know a person.
If you take your time
to get to know him,
you will be able to find
out if he is the type
of man you should
date.

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