Alot of couple finish their wedding ceremonny with alot of debt waiting to be paid, i always ask myself who is responsible for it, is it the man accepting whatever the bride says or the bride wanting her wedding to be colourful like she has always dreamt of?

Joan Johnson: Alot of couple finish their wedding ceremonny with alot of debt waiting to be paid, i always ask myself who is responsible for it, is it the man accepting whatever the bride says or the bride wanting her wedding to be colourful like she has always dreamt of?

The dumb bride and groom is responsible. Why have an expensive wedding you can't afford

It is only a few days celebration that other people will soon to forget and pretend like they didn't hear the phone ring when you call to ask for money/help.

Both bride and groom r to be blamed, when they know there is limited money, they should ve cut their coat according to their size,instead they will be smiling amidst huge debt on their wedding day n be sweating it out right from the day they start honeymooning

My sis hubby sat her down before their wedding to ask her what she really wanted:a dept free but less colourful wedding or hyper colourful with depts to settle after.

so I think its a joint responsibility,but more on the groom.if the bride does not know the odds against them financially,she will just be making much demand.

The bride and groom are to be blame

The bride, ladies always dream of weddings in the sky. The groom always comes back to pay coz he is the man. If you notice, ladies always smile at wedding ceremomies buh the men are always faking smiles coz they are thinking of the billz

A wedin is for a day or 2 days
mariage is for ever.

Anytin afta mariage is shared by d couple because d two are naw one

Marriage is not an Investment that you will get a return on investment, Hence the more reason to do a wedding that won't result to paying debt. However, the debt should paid by both parties since they have suddenly become one after the Marriage!

Joan Johnson: Alot of couple finish their wedding ceremonny with alot of debt waiting to be paid, i always ask myself who is responsible for it, is it the man accepting whatever the bride says or the bride wanting her wedding to be colourful like she has always dreamt of?

non is to be blamed. The bride wants a wedding of her dreams (girls hav alot of fantasy). The groom wants to make his bride happy. I say GO FOR IT! After all, its a one in a life time event. When the wedding is over, they shld both sit down nd plan the way they'll settle their debts. But still they must apply wisdom b4 throwing an expensive wedding.

Emmy9ite: The bride, ladies always dream of weddings in the sky. The groom always comes back to pay coz he is the man. If you notice, ladies always smile at wedding ceremomies buh the men are always faking smiles coz they are thinking of the billz

lmao...

Both are to be blamed but a greater part of the blame should go to the man since he's not man enough to put his foot down and stick to making the right decision which is to have a debt free wedding.

If she refuses to marry him because he wouldn't have a wedding he can't afford, then she's not the one for him after all.

I can't blame the woman but the man,so one woman go force me spend above my budget or lend money just to impress who ni?? Godforbid,its about time couples started planning based on what they have...

Should there be debts in the first place?

The couple should be blamed. The fault starts and stops at their table