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A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 3:18pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Nigerian Wedding WOW!!! I just had to share this story!!! My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years. A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won’t be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me. I forgot to say that I work in Guarantee Trust Bank along Lekki, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its because I’m the senior banking officer. Lol. This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and…I was tripped. “Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card!” She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you. I just tried to form Boss laughter… “Good morning, You know what? I’d personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday?” I smiled “GTB shaaa! OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I don’t come twice? Please? My name is Nancy” She blinked her eyes in a funny way. “Sure” I smiled We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday! So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club…as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m never home Friday nights. “Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Nancy. “Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didn’t have to wait till Monday to see her again. “Happy Friday!” She screamed because of the noise, “Wanna dance?” I didn’t even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible, I certainly didn’t want this to end now. “You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting…any guy would want to be with you all day” I said. “I wasn’t always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad” she sang Then her phone rang… “Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…alright boo” she talked excitedly as usual. I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her. “You were late. Meet Dayo; I met him this morning, he’s helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and Dayo this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed “Meet my husband Kolade, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids.” “Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake him Then she stood now excitedly holding her husband’s arms. “Why don’t we invite Dayo for Mimi’s 16th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband said They have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating! “Silly me, please come for my second daughter’s 16th tomorrow. It would be an honor” She brought out an I.V from her purse. I began to feel so ashamed of myself…this was another guy like me, getting it right with one woman. I collected the I.V and promised to be there. “See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Kolade?” she talked and dragged her husband along. They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Temi loves to dance…she also likes long walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz music, there’s this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary…I found myself typing all the things I knew Temi loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all…I had made her the old woman she acts. What the hell was I doing here! I didn’t even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Temi’s call came through and I picked at first ring. “Temi?” My heart raced “I know you are not coming home…” “I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her. “Are you alright?” She was shocked I suppose “And I’d like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple” “You sound different Dayo” “Maybe I’m different” “Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you come we will gist very well” she laughed She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago… Dear reader, I wrote this natural piece just to remind us that creating memorable moments with our partner matters. Do you know that little things are the sweetest things? Just creating time to gist and laugh with your partner, having a day in the week that’s exclusively for you both-No friends or kids allowed. Lady, when last have you told your partner he is so darn hot? Guy! When last have you told your lady she is the sweetest thing? When last have you whispered ‘Thank you’? When last have you been quick to say ‘I’m sorry’? Do you even have a clue on what your partner loves to do? When you ignore little things, they are the little pieces of rocks that build up to become a mountain you can’t easily break down. Pay attention to little things, believe that they work and experience new bliss! Yours Truly, source: facebook just feel this can help pple that lack communication in their relationships... |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Nobody: 3:20pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Yawns |
Re: A Must Read!!! by vivianc(f): 3:34pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Nice.....and noted! |
Re: A Must Read!!! by monalicious(f): 3:36pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
pDude: YawnsLol |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 7:12pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Too long. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Sijo01(f): 7:17pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: Nice.....and noted! u must b a gud reader.....plz b ur sister's keeper by sumarizn., plz Tnx in advnc |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 7:38pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Sijo01:And a brother too |
Re: A Must Read!!! by mcnepow(m): 9:51pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
@Poster. Nice post *thumbs up I read it TWICE cos I enjoyed the piece. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Dyt(f): 10:12pm On Sep 08, 2012 |
Wow Wow Wow Lovely piece I must say |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Sijo01(f): 6:06am On Sep 09, 2012 |
Dyt: Wow wit diz commendatn, ima gonna read diz plenty pix wen moi's lex bizy 2day. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 6:13am On Sep 09, 2012 |
Dyt: WowYou read it? Great can you please summarize |
Re: A Must Read!!! by linusbnn(m): 12:33pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Lovely story..Hope pple gonna learn to be reasonable.. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 12:40pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Pple that are complaining its long, what's long abt it? A̶̲̥̅♏ sure there are other longer fings of less importance U̶̲̥̅̊ pple read...yeye Its a nice story if U̶̲̥̅̊ are willing 2 pay read patiently, not J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇τ̣̣̥ sit there and expect summary...don't worry, summary Iڪ coming |
Re: A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 12:42pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
mcnepow: @Poster. Nice post *thumbs upFanks bro... |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Dyt(f): 1:45pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Mynd_44:In a sentence 'Learn 2 appreciate ur partners' |
Re: A Must Read!!! by mashnino(m): 2:14pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
nice story |
Re: A Must Read!!! by 0ldDirtyBastard: 2:54pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
bible
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Re: A Must Read!!! by Excelboi(m): 3:01pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Too 4ckin long... |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 4:01pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Dyt:Why did the OP not just type that instead of writing that article up there. People just like making life difficult |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
very nice... |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 4:16pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
sanb: very nice...I like the short version better |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
okay!!! but hope you read this version... it's nice Mynd_44: |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 5:05pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
sanb: okay!!! but hope you read this version... it's niceNo I did not |
Re: A Must Read!!! by adeniyi00(m): 6:45pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
people complained ths is too long, Nigera youths are becoming lazier everyday, try and appreciate sumtin gud. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by shizzle11(m): 9:21pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
Sijo01: Pls do! U'll find it interesting. |
Re: A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 9:53pm On Sep 09, 2012 |
̸ϟɣ question ȋ̝̊̅ڪ if U̶̲̥̅̊ can't read it cos its 2 long, then...4get it nah...abi Ŋa̶̲̥̅ government work? Dem ϑε̲̣̣̣̥Ɣ pay una 2 read ni? Lazy haters!!! |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Mynd44: 6:55am On Sep 10, 2012 |
adeniyi00: people complained ths is too long,Who told you this is about being lazy? People come here to copy and past pages of crap everyday and it gets annoying reading them all |
Re: A Must Read!!! by Excelboi(m): 9:21am On Sep 10, 2012 |
alaric saltzman: ̸ϟɣ question Iڪ if U̶̲̥̅̊ can't read it cos its 2 long, then...4get it nah...abi Ŋa̶̲̥̅ government work? Dem ϑε̲̣̣̣̥Ɣ pay una 2 read ni?See dis one dey hail himself! |
Re: A Must Read!!! by cindyrella(f): 11:06am On Sep 10, 2012 |
alaric saltzman: ̸ϟɣ question Iڪ if U̶̲̥̅̊ can't read it cos its 2 long, then...4get it nah...abi Ŋa̶̲̥̅ government work? Dem ϑε̲̣̣̣̥Ɣ pay una 2 read ni?You say? ![]() |
Re: A Must Read!!! by raymann01(m): 11:23am On Sep 10, 2012 |
Wow thnx ƒºƦ †ђξ reminder op, that was cool ŋ refreshing |
Re: A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 11:58am On Sep 10, 2012 |
Mynd_44:ehn...find something else 2do nah...y are u here complaning unnecessarily ![]() |
Re: A Must Read!!! by alaricsaltzman: 11:58am On Sep 10, 2012 |
raymann01: Wow thnx ƒºƦ †ђξ reminder op, that was cool ŋ refreshingyw jare |
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