I strongly feel relationship is an headache. My girlfirends birthday is coming up, i dont have a job and am budgeting 1k to at least buy a simple present, yet for where, am broke to the bone, relationship is a terrible disease.

if a man has limburger cheese on his upper lip,

he thinks the whole world smells.

Itsnot by force to be in a relationship now.

Tell ur girl u cant afford anything expensive - tell her ur budget and let her decide how it will be spent.
Am sure she would understand.

i'm genuinely curious, if you can't lay your hands on 1k, how are you browsing the internet?

do something romantic, buy a nice card for 1k and write a restaurant date "coupon" to be redeemed when you get a job.

OyinboNo1:

i'm genuinely curious, if you can't lay your hands on 1k, how are you browsing the internet?

do something romantic, buy a nice card for 1k and write a restaurant date "coupon" to be redeemed when you get a job.

LOL, LOL
Coupon in Nija? aRE U JOKING?

@OyinboNo1
i'm genuinely curious, if you can't lay your hands on 1k, how are you browsing the internet?

do something romantic, buy a nice card for 1k and write a restaurant date "coupon" to be redeemed when you get a job.

Just 2 easy to explain 2 her, but in a romantic way


@topic
If she is not the understand type drop her and move on wit your life.
na by force na u even born her when u wan do on do 4 her

coupon - write it from yourself - if she sees potential in you she'll know you'll treat her to a nice meal when you're on your feet.

@topic,
maybe you shouldn't engage in the relationship and just wait to when u gat enough to take care of ursef how much more 2 people.

Pele!

Just because you can't afford to get something for your girlfriend doesn't mean relationship is a disease. there other ways of showing your girlfriend you love her and wishing her a happy birthday and if she's an understanding person she would surely see your efforts and show appreciation.

Busta my good friend ,
Nice response.

She has said it all. There is no point in putting ursef under unnecessary duress or stress. If u are not in relationship, would you die? Absolutely No!

Relationship is capital intensive, countless recharge cards, browsing, eatries spending, beach and lots of that.

Relationship is more than words of mouth. you really need real cash for you to be in total control as a man. Now that there is no job, where would you get the money from?

I beg safe ursef the stress.

cheers!!!

relationship a disease?

hmmmm

wat a comparison

Guys always get this wrong. . . Relationship is not all abt money or gifts. . . There's more to it. . .

190:

1st ure budgeting 1k for her birthday
while i budgeted over 200k for my GF's own
2nd no1 is forcing u 2 be in a relationship!
3rd, i guess ure sleeping with this gurl
4th if u hear that there is free s3x somewhere guyz like u wud be the 1st to reach there

Motto:
If u dont have money,PLEASE,PLEASE
dont dare venture in2 a relationship

Money brings love!!

Gba bé (again) for the bolded part.

All the hyprocritical gurls here are saying poo like:

Guys always get this wrong. . . Relationship is not all abt money or gifts. . . There's more to it. . .

@poster, if you believe that poo, then you should be tied to a stake and shot! Imagine this: with your hard-come-by N1k, you buy a fancy card for her like someone advised, and then, on bended knees, declare your undying love for her (awww, how romantic!). Meanwhile another guy - a so-called 'toaster' or 'male friend' (thats what she'll say if you ask her) who works in xyz bank/oil-serving firm or is a prosperous yahoo boy buys her a pink Blackberry Storm as 'token' gift, and drops by to drop a nice big vanila cake and N50k for her to celebrate with her friends. Pray: what do you think will be going through her mind? What would her friends be telling her? Is the guy a father christmas that only gives without expecting anything in return? I laugh in efik! Lol.

If your jazz is very strong, she probably wouldn't dump you just yet (out of sheer pity), but she'll SURE AS HELL give the other 'nicer' dude(s) more than a piece of the sweaty action. Thats the harsh reality of life, forget what those funny girls say.

Word of advice: enjoy the relationship (or the free kitty) while it lasts, but do not, I repeat, DO NOT put your heart in it or take it seriously. . .concentrate instead on finding a job, or making money by any means necessary. Otherwise you'd be squashed like a fly on a wall.

"Got 99 problems but a b***h ain't one" - Jay Z.

pro01:

Gba bé (again) for the bolded part.

All the hyprocritical gurls here are saying poo like:
@poster, if you believe that poo, then you should be tied to a stake and shot! Imagine this: with your hard-come-by N1k, you buy a fancy card for her like someone advised, and then, on bended knees, declare your undying love for her (awww, how romantic!). Meanwhile another guy - a so-called 'toaster' or 'male friend' (thats what she'll say if you ask her) who works in xyz bank/oil-serving firm or is a prosperous yahoo boy buys her a pink Blackberry Storm as 'token' gift, and drops by to drop a nice big vanila cake and N50k for her to celebrate with her friends. Pray: what do you think will be going through her mind? What would her friends be telling her? Is the guy a father christmas that only gives without expecting anything in return? I laugh in efik! Lol.

If your jazz is very strong, she probably wouldn't dump you just yet (out of sheer pity), but she'll SURE AS HELL give the other 'nicer' dude(s) more than a piece of the sweaty action. Thats the harsh reality of life, forget what those funny girls say.

Word of advice: enjoy the relationship (or the free kitty) while it lasts, but do not, I repeat, DO NOT put your heart in it or take it seriously. . .concentrate instead on finding a job, or making money by any means necessary. Otherwise you'd be squashed like a fly on a wall.

"Got 99 problems but a b***h ain't one" - Jay Z.

Not all girls are like that. Any girl who does stuff like that is just not worth even 1/ 1000000 th of the effort.
But on the other hand, some girls I know do lend their bf's money and even pay for their phone contracts and stuff. And this doesn't seem to stop their boyfriends from cheating on them.

pro01:

Gba bé (again) for the bolded part.

All the hyprocritical gurls here are saying poo like:
@poster, if you believe that poo, then you should be tied to a stake and shot! Imagine this: with your hard-come-by N1k, you buy a fancy card for her like someone advised, and then, on bended knees, declare your undying love for her (awww, how romantic!). Meanwhile another guy - a so-called 'toaster' or 'male friend' (thats what she'll say if you ask her) who works in xyz bank/oil-serving firm or is a prosperous yahoo boy buys her a pink Blackberry Storm as 'token' gift, and drops by to drop a nice big vanila cake and N50k for her to celebrate with her friends. Pray: what do you think will be going through her mind? What would her friends be telling her? Is the guy a father christmas that only gives without expecting anything in return? I laugh in efik! Lol.

If your jazz is very strong, she probably wouldn't dump you just yet (out of sheer pity), but she'll SURE AS HELL give the other 'nicer' dude(s) more than a piece of the sweaty action. Thats the harsh reality of life, forget what those funny girls say.

Word of advice: enjoy the relationship (or the free kitty) while it lasts, but do not, I repeat, DO NOT put your heart in it or take it seriously. . .concentrate instead on finding a job, or making money by any means necessary. Otherwise you'd be squashed like a fly on a wall.

"Got 99 problems but a b***h ain't one" - Jay Z.

People like u end up wit gold diggers

@190
@IYA BASIRA
Na wa 4 una oooo! dis topic dont stale since 2008, una com dey reply today . (roflmao)
the fit don die sef. lmao

pro01:

Gba bé (again) for the bolded part.

All the hyprocritical gurls here are saying poo like:
@poster, if you believe that poo, then you should be tied to a stake and shot! Imagine this: with your hard-come-by N1k, you buy a fancy card for her like someone advised, and then, on bended knees, declare your undying love for her (awww, how romantic!). Meanwhile another guy - a so-called 'toaster' or 'male friend' (thats what she'll say if you ask her) who works in xyz bank/oil-serving firm or is a prosperous yahoo boy buys her a pink Blackberry Storm as 'token' gift, and drops by to drop a nice big vanila cake and N50k for her to celebrate with her friends. Pray: what do you think will be going through her mind? What would her friends be telling her? Is the guy a father christmas that only gives without expecting anything in return? I laugh in efik! Lol.

If your jazz is very strong, she probably wouldn't dump you just yet (out of sheer pity), but she'll SURE AS HELL give the other 'nicer' dude(s) more than a piece of the sweaty action. Thats the harsh reality of life, forget what those funny girls say.

Word of advice: enjoy the relationship (or the free kitty) while it lasts, but do not, I repeat, DO NOT put your heart in it or take it seriously. . .concentrate instead on finding a job, or making money by any means necessary. Otherwise you'd be squashed like a fly on a wall.

"Got 99 problems but a b***h ain't one" - Jay Z.

send me your Phone # immediately
Im sending you an MTN n1500 AIRtime immediately
You have said all that is needed here~

^O Paleeez!

lol @ufobabe

pro1 still waitin!!

190:

send me your Phone # immediately
Im sending you an MTN n1500 AIRtime immediately
You have said all that is needed here~

Chei, Chief 190, this smells like a set-up. Besides our your dear wife 'googles' may be mad at u. . .know she likes being at the receiving end of all your generosity. Looool.

relationships really are a headache!!!

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Are you putting a pressure on yourself to get her a gift or is she pressuring you?

pro01:

Chei, Chief 190, this smells like a set-up. Besides our your dear wife 'googles' may be mad at u. . .know she likes being at the receiving end of all your generosity. Looool.

nahh it aint
anyway i take it u dont nid it~
later man~

you are wrong relationship is not all about money if you can show some love and understnding she wont mind
and that is if only she is not demanding type
relationship is fun is good
if it si a didease would you contract it?

I didn't give my girl bday, xmas or otherwise gift this past yr. She understand say I broke. If she doesn't, there is nothing I could do abt it anyways. The first money I get goes to feed my stomach funds. Other things come after

^^
excuse me
are u in anyway related to one certain SANI KAITA!!

I didn't give my girl bday, xmas or otherwise gift this past yr. She understand say I broke. If she doesn't, there is nothing I could do abt it anyways. The first money I get goes to feed my stomach funds. Other things come after

uh?

My guy,know this day what the disease is;you not having a job,not the relationship.
Beside,does your Gf work?testing,TESTING. this is the time to know what stuff she is made of;wheather na timber,caliber.or material gurl wey fit run away with your Bf cos of barr.