dimepiece: Thank you all for all the negative criticism and insults. I don't blame you all, I only blame myself for seeking advice on a forum full of close-minded people. This is the new age, the 21st century and you all need to realize that everything is not black and white. For all that are calling me the devil or whatever, just know that God says "Do Not Judge" or did you never hear that before? No one's sins are greater or less than the other. We are all sinners in different ways, just because I opened up my sin for advice did not warrant such cruel things from people. It baffles me when people wonder why most people don't ask for help when they have a problem...this is the reason why, because of close minded people that only seek to judge and insult. Remember Matthew 7:5. Please forget this thread, I will seek help elsewhere.

dimepiece: This issue has given me sleepless nights since I got pregnant. I am yet to tell my sister in law because I know she will be very angry. I don't want anything that will hurt her either. I am so in love with her that I don't know if I will be able to live if she was to leave me. I wanted to keep our affair in secret because I don't want to hurt my husband but his sister says she can no longer stand the fact that I am married to someone else and that she is tired of having a secret relationship. She says that if I really love her then I would leave her brother to so as to be with her. She says that if I don't leave him by the end of this year then she will leave me, and I can't allow that. That is why I am in this dilemma, I honestly don't know what to do

dimepiece: This issue has given me sleepless nights since I got pregnant. I am yet to tell my sister in law because I know she will be very angry. I don't want anything that will hurt her either. I am so in love with her that I don't know if I will be able to live if she was to leave me. I wanted to keep our affair in secret because I don't want to hurt my husband but his sister says she can no longer stand the fact that I am married to someone else and that she is tired of having a secret relationship. She says that if I really love her then I would leave her brother to so as to be with her. She says that if I don't leave him by the end of this year then she will leave me, and I can't allow that. That is why I am in this dilemma, I honestly don't know what to do

Dyt: Young woman
Dere is nottin so difficult abt dis situation
U jst said if u loose ur hubby, u loose it all
U weighed it ursef
U know wat u want
Ur SIL will only b selfish if she wants ur marriage ruined
If she can't accept d secret thingy [ which will soon b known ] den let her b
Control dat ur female wantin urge
Atleast u open up ur legs for your hubby which resulted in2 d preg

sexkillz: Rubbish. . .

dimepiece: I have been married for 2 years now to my wonderful husband. We both come from pretty wealthy families. We had been dating for 1.5 years before deciding to tie the knot. I thought this would be it because I thought that I loved him sooooo much but boy was I wrong. I have gotten to know my husband's side of the family, including his sister. Well I didn't meet the sister till our wedding day because she was doing her masters in Canada through out the time we were dating but flew in to see her brothers wedding. But from the first time me and the sister met there was in instant attraction between us. At first, I couldn't tell what it was, I just knew that I liked the sister and wanted to get to know her better and she felt the same way about me. Since the two years we got married,the sister has finished her masters and now is back home and I have come to love my husband's sister and she says she loves me to. We have had se.x with each other many times and WOW she felt better than any man that I have had se.x with before, including my husband. My husband never suspected what was going on, he just thought that me and his sister really liked each other's company and that is why we spend so much time together. Well now the problem is that I am no longer in love with my husband, I feel trapped in this marriage and I want a divorce so that I can be with my sister in law and also I am 7 weeks pregnant for my husband but I plan on aborting it since I no longer love my husband. My husband does not know about the pregnancy yet and he still loves me a lot and I really don't want to hurt him. So my question is should I divorce my husband and abort the child or should I just stick to my marriage?