after series of test to confirm my genotype, i discovad i was As too. Its a girl who have put all hope in me being her future husband. I looked for so many excuses to stay away but none was forth-coming. I chatted on phone with her and finally said i have to go forever. Till now i have refused to pick her call or ansa her text. I text her today that i want to make things right, that why am doing her this wrong. Now she wants to know what i want to make right? House do i go straight and tell her why?

elari: after series of test to confirm my genotype, i discovad i was As too. Its a girl who have put all hope in me being her future husband. I looked for so many excuses to stay away but none was forth-coming. I chatted on phone with her and finally said i have to go forever. Till now i have refused to pick her call or ansa her text. I text her today that i want to make things right, that why am doing her this wrong. Now she wants to know what i want to make right? House ova 2 u.

Why are you asking us.
Are we suppose to read your mind or what,I still cant figure out the reason for this thread

You did the right thing but making things right? You were the one who said so why are you asking us what it is?

Go ahead and tell her why you can't continue, I'm sure she would see senses in the talk, if you know this now and still press on with the relationship pretending things are gonna work well for you both in the future is hurting her. Go ahead, take the bull by the horn and explain to her she would definitely understand you better after the explanations I'm sure.

ghettodreamz: Go ahead and tell her why you can't continue, I'm sure she would see senses in the talk, if you know this now and still press on with the relationship pretending things are gonna work well for you both in the future is hurting her. Go ahead, take the bull by the horn and explain to her she would definitely understand you better after the explanations I'm sure.

. . . Tnx getodrimz

Why are you making the issue hard........ Let her know n stop hurting her feelings jor.

op,is it the same girl that made you cry after she slapped you?

@ op , i was in your shoe back then, i called her and explained to her how truly i loved her. Gave her many instances to prove my unconditional love towards her. Then, i told her d dangers for two AS to marry. It pained us. We got to go our ways for good. But we still talk till date.

slimyem: op,is it the same girl that made you cry after she slapped you?

. . . Boneyem, pls dunt start.

elari: after series of test to confirm my genotype, i discovad i was As too. Its a girl who have put all hope in me being her future husband. I looked for so many excuses to stay away but none was forth-coming. I chatted on phone with her and finally said i have to go forever. Till now i have refused to pick her call or ansa her text. I text her today that i want to make things right, that why am doing her this wrong. Now she wants to know what i want to make right? House do i go straight and tell her why?

Let her go, there Iڪ nothing †☺ make right but tell her the reason you are splitting with her so she doesn't carry the wrong impression.

U arent breaking her heart...u ar mending it instead by telling her d truth n telling it on tym..

Did you not explain to her before you broke up with her? What is wrong with these people?

slimyem: op,is it the same girl that made you cry after she slapped you?

lol, @op u know what's best for you, do it.

i am in the same situation as the OP, my baby is AS and i am AS too, kept disturbing her to check her genotype for a while only for her to check months ago that she is AS.

Now, the issue is i know it cant work out but she is expecting us to pray about it. Some things for me is just logic and not prayers. Am kind of waiting for her to round up her finals and tell her its over, i dont want to be an excuse for her failure.

So op move on other babes dey

@OP, I was in same situation, it was very difficult to let go, but I had to think deep and made a decision that's was in our best interest with the future in mind. She didn't accept my decision, it was very hurtful looking at the pains in her eyes and remembering such moments... But hey! Its better to cry now than crying forever. She said I broke her heart as AS wasn't an excuse, I hope she understands someday, but as the Man in the relationship, you need to take hard decisions when they arise. Wishing you all the best.

My heart goes out to you.